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Tobi, words cannot fully express the pain of your transition. You were a bright light in the family, radiating joy and respect in every interaction. You fought the good fight, and now you rest in peace with your Maker. Your love and courage will forever remain in our hearts.
Good night, aburo.
Good night, aburo.
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Elemo family at this difficult period of bereavement.
We love Tobi, but the Lord loves him more. The Lord gives and the Lord takes. Blessed be the name of the Lord.
We thank God for the gift of Tobi and the loving memories he left for us to cherish. We know that he is with the Lord now where all is perfect.
May the Lord comfort the entire family and grant Tobi's gentle soul eternal peace.
Muyiwa & Bolaji.
We love Tobi, but the Lord loves him more. The Lord gives and the Lord takes. Blessed be the name of the Lord.
We thank God for the gift of Tobi and the loving memories he left for us to cherish. We know that he is with the Lord now where all is perfect.
May the Lord comfort the entire family and grant Tobi's gentle soul eternal peace.
Muyiwa & Bolaji.
Tribute to my dearest Oluwatobi
It is with a heavy heart that I write this tribute to my dearest Tobi, a young soul so full of kindness, respect, and quiet strength, he was my son in every way that mattered. Living with him gave me the gift of truly knowing him, as a kind, respectful, and thoughtful young man. I took on the role of guiding him, nurturing him, and walking with him through life’s journey.
He was a quiet soul, never demanding, never seeking attention just always present with a heart full of warmth. I had the privilege of guiding Tobi through his college years, helping with assignments, enrollment, and anything he needed. It was in those moments, as I supported him through his education, that our bond grew stronger.
As he matured, I watched him evolve not just as a student, but as a gentleman. I became more than just his guardian; I became his confidant, his safe space. He trusted me, shared his thoughts, his dreams, and sometimes even his worries. Those moments of laughter I will cherish forever.
I will forever cherish the memories of Emmanuel teaching Tobi how to ride a bike, Efeti patiently guiding him as he learned to swim, and the joy that filled our home whenever he danced with Eddy during school breaks. Tobi’s jokes, his infectious laughter, and his light-hearted spirit brought happiness to everyone around him. Our one-on-one talks, the outings, the moments of quiet understanding, these are the memories I will hold onto forever.
Beyond the walls of home, we created memories exploring new places, sharing meals, enjoying life’s little adventures. Every outing was special with Tobi bringing his quiet joy and appreciation for the simple things.
It is still hard to believe that you are gone Tobi😭 . Losing you leaves an emptiness that words cannot fill, but I hold on to the love and the moments we shared. The pain of your absence is profound, but I take comfort in knowing that you left behind love, warmth, and joy in the hearts of those who knew you.
Tobi, you will always be a part of me. Your presence, your kindness, and the love we shared will never fade.
Rest peacefully, my dear son, my dearest Tobi. You were truly loved, and you will be deeply missed more than words can express, but your memory will forever remain in my heart 💙
Toun Koko-Egun
It is with a heavy heart that I write this tribute to my dearest Tobi, a young soul so full of kindness, respect, and quiet strength, he was my son in every way that mattered. Living with him gave me the gift of truly knowing him, as a kind, respectful, and thoughtful young man. I took on the role of guiding him, nurturing him, and walking with him through life’s journey.
He was a quiet soul, never demanding, never seeking attention just always present with a heart full of warmth. I had the privilege of guiding Tobi through his college years, helping with assignments, enrollment, and anything he needed. It was in those moments, as I supported him through his education, that our bond grew stronger.
As he matured, I watched him evolve not just as a student, but as a gentleman. I became more than just his guardian; I became his confidant, his safe space. He trusted me, shared his thoughts, his dreams, and sometimes even his worries. Those moments of laughter I will cherish forever.
I will forever cherish the memories of Emmanuel teaching Tobi how to ride a bike, Efeti patiently guiding him as he learned to swim, and the joy that filled our home whenever he danced with Eddy during school breaks. Tobi’s jokes, his infectious laughter, and his light-hearted spirit brought happiness to everyone around him. Our one-on-one talks, the outings, the moments of quiet understanding, these are the memories I will hold onto forever.
Beyond the walls of home, we created memories exploring new places, sharing meals, enjoying life’s little adventures. Every outing was special with Tobi bringing his quiet joy and appreciation for the simple things.
It is still hard to believe that you are gone Tobi😭 . Losing you leaves an emptiness that words cannot fill, but I hold on to the love and the moments we shared. The pain of your absence is profound, but I take comfort in knowing that you left behind love, warmth, and joy in the hearts of those who knew you.
Tobi, you will always be a part of me. Your presence, your kindness, and the love we shared will never fade.
Rest peacefully, my dear son, my dearest Tobi. You were truly loved, and you will be deeply missed more than words can express, but your memory will forever remain in my heart 💙
Toun Koko-Egun
Oluwatobi was a beacon of joy, laughter, and love. His radiant smile could light up the darkest room, and his kindness knew no bounds. Through his playful spirit, curious mind, and unwavering love for those around him, he brought warmth and happiness to everyone he encountered.
This is not a goodbye, Oluwatobi, but a heartfelt “until we meet again.” Rest peacefully, dear nephew. You will always be loved, always remembered, and forever missed.
This is not a goodbye, Oluwatobi, but a heartfelt “until we meet again.” Rest peacefully, dear nephew. You will always be loved, always remembered, and forever missed.
A Tribute to Oluwatobi Babajide Nkem Elemo
"To live in hearts we leave behind is not to die." — Thomas Campbell
With heavy hearts and tear-filled eyes, we honor and celebrate the beautiful life of Oluwatobi Babajide Nkem Elemo, a radiant soul taken from us too soon at just 23 years old. Though his journey was brief, his impact was profound, leaving behind a legacy of love, kindness, and inspiration.
Beloved son of my senior cousin Prof. Jide Elemo & his wife Prof. (Mrs.) Gloria Elemo, Oluwatobi was a light that shone brightly in the lives of all who knew him or even heard of him. His laughter echoed warmth, his kindness touched many, and his presence was a gift to all who had the privilege of knowing him. He faced his illness with courage and grace, never allowing hardship to dim the love he shared so freely.
"Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there; I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow..."
— Mary Elizabeth Frye
In our hearts, Oluwatobi remains alive—his laughter in the whispers of the wind, his love in the warmth of the sun, and his legacy in the memories we cherish.
As the Yoruba proverb says:
"Iku ki pa omolere, ohun ti o se laye lo fi n jere"
(“Death does not kill a good child; they are remembered for the good they did in life.”)
Though he is gone from our sight, he is never gone from our hearts. Rest well, dear son Oluwatobi, in the loving arms of the Almighty. Your light will never fade.
With love and eternal remembrance,
Your Family and Loved Ones
Engr Alexander Elemo & Family
From Australia
"To live in hearts we leave behind is not to die." — Thomas Campbell
With heavy hearts and tear-filled eyes, we honor and celebrate the beautiful life of Oluwatobi Babajide Nkem Elemo, a radiant soul taken from us too soon at just 23 years old. Though his journey was brief, his impact was profound, leaving behind a legacy of love, kindness, and inspiration.
Beloved son of my senior cousin Prof. Jide Elemo & his wife Prof. (Mrs.) Gloria Elemo, Oluwatobi was a light that shone brightly in the lives of all who knew him or even heard of him. His laughter echoed warmth, his kindness touched many, and his presence was a gift to all who had the privilege of knowing him. He faced his illness with courage and grace, never allowing hardship to dim the love he shared so freely.
"Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there; I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow..."
— Mary Elizabeth Frye
In our hearts, Oluwatobi remains alive—his laughter in the whispers of the wind, his love in the warmth of the sun, and his legacy in the memories we cherish.
As the Yoruba proverb says:
"Iku ki pa omolere, ohun ti o se laye lo fi n jere"
(“Death does not kill a good child; they are remembered for the good they did in life.”)
Though he is gone from our sight, he is never gone from our hearts. Rest well, dear son Oluwatobi, in the loving arms of the Almighty. Your light will never fade.
With love and eternal remembrance,
Your Family and Loved Ones
Engr Alexander Elemo & Family
From Australia
Tobi was such a friendly and lovely kid. I met Tobi when I was a staff member at FIIRO. His mum was the DG then.He was humble, gentle, kind and always did funny things!!!
I will forever hold pleasant memories of him.
Rest well dear, and I pray for the comfort of the Lord for his parents and siblings.
It is well.
I will forever hold pleasant memories of him.
Rest well dear, and I pray for the comfort of the Lord for his parents and siblings.
It is well.
Hummmm what a great lost but almighty God understand the most. Tobi, U leaved according to your name whistle you were on earth olwatobiloba ( You were indeed a great boy)REST IN PEACE BROTHER.
Hummmm what a great lost but almighty God understand the most. Tobi, U leaved according to your name whistle you were on earth olwatobiloba ( You were indeed a great boy)REST IN PEACE BROTHER.
I never really got the opportunity to know you, Tobi. All I have heard about you speaks volume of the person you were in your short stay on earth. The many testimonies I have heard of you and the light that I was told you shone to those that came in contact with you, are divine.
You showed up at Oluwole and Olaide's wedding, travelling the distance to be there for them - that was love for family. Such testimonies, I have heard of you.
We prayed everyday for a miracle, but who are we mere mortals to know the ways of God. We console ourselves with the hope that you are in a better place where pain and sorrow are no more.
Your deeds, which are spoken by all will never take flight in the heart of those you love and those who love you. Sweet is the memory of the just.
In the words of Patience Ross - "Earth does not hold the spirits of the brave- You died in Christ, in Him you will live again".
You will be sorely missed. Rest on soldier as you join the saints triumphant until we all meet to part no more in Christ Jesus. We love you but God loves you best.
Eternal Rest.
You showed up at Oluwole and Olaide's wedding, travelling the distance to be there for them - that was love for family. Such testimonies, I have heard of you.
We prayed everyday for a miracle, but who are we mere mortals to know the ways of God. We console ourselves with the hope that you are in a better place where pain and sorrow are no more.
Your deeds, which are spoken by all will never take flight in the heart of those you love and those who love you. Sweet is the memory of the just.
In the words of Patience Ross - "Earth does not hold the spirits of the brave- You died in Christ, in Him you will live again".
You will be sorely missed. Rest on soldier as you join the saints triumphant until we all meet to part no more in Christ Jesus. We love you but God loves you best.
Eternal Rest.
Tobi,
you came, you saw, and you conquered. Your brief stay with us here on earth touched many lives in a somewhat "casual" way. How tragic to know that the "value of a thing is not appreciated until we lose it"; yet we fail to appreciate those whom God brings our way, thus allowing this saying to come true always.
You looked out for Adeoluwa when he was your junior at King's College. Although quiet, you were not shy to share your dreams and aspirations. May your memory continue to inspire hope and strength, and may the loved ones you left behind continue to receive the comfort that only the Holy Spirit can give.
Till we meet at Jesus's feet, good night, Tobi Elemo.
you came, you saw, and you conquered. Your brief stay with us here on earth touched many lives in a somewhat "casual" way. How tragic to know that the "value of a thing is not appreciated until we lose it"; yet we fail to appreciate those whom God brings our way, thus allowing this saying to come true always.
You looked out for Adeoluwa when he was your junior at King's College. Although quiet, you were not shy to share your dreams and aspirations. May your memory continue to inspire hope and strength, and may the loved ones you left behind continue to receive the comfort that only the Holy Spirit can give.
Till we meet at Jesus's feet, good night, Tobi Elemo.
Tobi Elemo
The light you have shined in the lives of everyone you come across shall never go deem. Your unique qualities, impactful actions, and the positive memories you left behind shall be celebrated with the joy you brought to others.
And so we thank God for you Tobi for being a gift light to everyone you come in contact with. May your memories be a source of strength and love, and may your spirit find peace Adieu. 😇
The light you have shined in the lives of everyone you come across shall never go deem. Your unique qualities, impactful actions, and the positive memories you left behind shall be celebrated with the joy you brought to others.
And so we thank God for you Tobi for being a gift light to everyone you come in contact with. May your memories be a source of strength and love, and may your spirit find peace Adieu. 😇
A RARE GEM IS LOST!
On behalf of Kabiyesi Alaiyeluwa, His Imperial Majesty, Oba Dr Francis Adefarakanmi Agbede OFR, Ogidi III, the Olowa of Igbara Oke, the Executive Members of the Igbara Oke Development Council we identify with Professor Jide Elemo and Professor Gloria Elemo including close members of the family on the departure of Oluwatobi Babajide Nkem Elemo who slept in the Lord on 21 February 2025.
From testimonies on Tobi, he was an extraordinary person who left an indelible mark on the lives of everyone he touched. Obviously, his remarkable achievements, kindness and generosity inspired countless people. He lived an exemplary life and his memories will continue to be a blessing to all who knew him.
A cursory look at the antecedents of the parents, Prof Jide Elemo and Professor Gloria Elemo especially on the plethora of meaningful contributions to the development of the land and people of Igbara Oke is a pointer to the fact that the community lost a rare gem in Tobi Elemo who could have impacted more positively on Igbara Oke where the passion of his parents lie, knowing fully well that the harvest is always greater than the seed.
We love him but God loves him more.
May his soul rest in peace.
Signed
Bode Famose
IDC General Secretary
Signed
Mrs Rachel Odewunmi
IDC PRO
Signed,
Pastor Mrs Yinka Odedele,
IDC Treasurer
Signed
Mr Sola Ogunturin,
IDC Assistant General Secretary
Signed,
Engr Abiodun Ogunsakin
IDC Vice Chairman
Signed,
Chief Goke Olagbaiye
IDC Chairman
On behalf of Kabiyesi Alaiyeluwa, His Imperial Majesty, Oba Dr Francis Adefarakanmi Agbede OFR, Ogidi III, the Olowa of Igbara Oke, the Executive Members of the Igbara Oke Development Council we identify with Professor Jide Elemo and Professor Gloria Elemo including close members of the family on the departure of Oluwatobi Babajide Nkem Elemo who slept in the Lord on 21 February 2025.
From testimonies on Tobi, he was an extraordinary person who left an indelible mark on the lives of everyone he touched. Obviously, his remarkable achievements, kindness and generosity inspired countless people. He lived an exemplary life and his memories will continue to be a blessing to all who knew him.
A cursory look at the antecedents of the parents, Prof Jide Elemo and Professor Gloria Elemo especially on the plethora of meaningful contributions to the development of the land and people of Igbara Oke is a pointer to the fact that the community lost a rare gem in Tobi Elemo who could have impacted more positively on Igbara Oke where the passion of his parents lie, knowing fully well that the harvest is always greater than the seed.
We love him but God loves him more.
May his soul rest in peace.
Signed
Bode Famose
IDC General Secretary
Signed
Mrs Rachel Odewunmi
IDC PRO
Signed,
Pastor Mrs Yinka Odedele,
IDC Treasurer
Signed
Mr Sola Ogunturin,
IDC Assistant General Secretary
Signed,
Engr Abiodun Ogunsakin
IDC Vice Chairman
Signed,
Chief Goke Olagbaiye
IDC Chairman
My heart breaks for you uncle, aunty, the entire family and friends, during this unbearable loss. May Tobi’s memory be a blessing, and may you find strength in each other. Please know that you're not alone in this grief sir, you’re in our prayers and thoughts. May the love and support of family, friends, and community envelop you during this difficult time. And, may his gentle soul rest in peace.😥😥😥😥🙏🏽🙏🏽.
May your soul rest in perfect peace my dear brother. May the Holy Spirit comfort the entire family. Amen.
A Tribute to OLUWATOBILOBA BABAJIDE NKEM ELEMO (06 February 2002 - 26 February 2025)
We are deeply saddened by the loss of your beloved son, Oluwatobiloba Babajide Nkem ELEMO, the beloved son of our dear colleague, Distinguished Prof. Babajide O. ELEMO, formerly of the Department of Biochemistry, Lagos State University. Though words can never truly ease the pain of such a profound loss, we want to express our heartfelt sympathy and support.
Tobi as fondly called was always full of life, always exploratory and eager to break boundaries. Indeed, he was a great personality to be with. His presence brought light and love to those around him, and his memory will forever remain in the hearts of those who knew him.
To Distinguished Prof. Babajide O. ELEMO and the family, please know that the LASU Management, staff and students stand with you in this difficult time. May you find strength in the love of those around you and comfort in the cherished memories you hold.
With deepest sympathy,
Prof. Adejuwon ADENEYE,
Director, Lagos State University Directorate of Research Management & Innovation,
Office of the Vice Chancellor, Lagos State University
We are deeply saddened by the loss of your beloved son, Oluwatobiloba Babajide Nkem ELEMO, the beloved son of our dear colleague, Distinguished Prof. Babajide O. ELEMO, formerly of the Department of Biochemistry, Lagos State University. Though words can never truly ease the pain of such a profound loss, we want to express our heartfelt sympathy and support.
Tobi as fondly called was always full of life, always exploratory and eager to break boundaries. Indeed, he was a great personality to be with. His presence brought light and love to those around him, and his memory will forever remain in the hearts of those who knew him.
To Distinguished Prof. Babajide O. ELEMO and the family, please know that the LASU Management, staff and students stand with you in this difficult time. May you find strength in the love of those around you and comfort in the cherished memories you hold.
With deepest sympathy,
Prof. Adejuwon ADENEYE,
Director, Lagos State University Directorate of Research Management & Innovation,
Office of the Vice Chancellor, Lagos State University
My Tribute to Tobi Elemo.
My dearTobi Elemo, it is really sad writing this at this period. Your death announcement came to me as a rude shock infact l couldn't get myself for hrs, l kept asking myself what could have gone wrong with no answer.
Tobi, l joined others to celebrate the life you lived though very short, just passing by like an Angel. Why Tobi? I may not have known you but the memories shared by your family is enough indication that you lived an impactful life and you're loved by those around you and the kind of love and affection you brought to your family and people around you in this short time will forever be remembered and cherished.
Being the only Man amongst many Ladies and being the last Born made you special in all aspect and feeling their life with joy and affection to the fullest. Though our paths never crossed, l was thinking that one day l will see you as a Groom and celebrate you not knowing you will be gone too soon.
You may not be with us but your memories will linger in the heart of your loved ones and those that knows you.
Rest in peace dear Tobi. Surely, l know you will be missed by all. Your values and memories will forever be remembered and cherished.
I want to use this medium to console Prof and the entire family. God in His infinite mercy will comfort the entire family and loved ones left behind 😭😭😭😂
May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace.
Rest on dear Son.
My dearTobi Elemo, it is really sad writing this at this period. Your death announcement came to me as a rude shock infact l couldn't get myself for hrs, l kept asking myself what could have gone wrong with no answer.
Tobi, l joined others to celebrate the life you lived though very short, just passing by like an Angel. Why Tobi? I may not have known you but the memories shared by your family is enough indication that you lived an impactful life and you're loved by those around you and the kind of love and affection you brought to your family and people around you in this short time will forever be remembered and cherished.
Being the only Man amongst many Ladies and being the last Born made you special in all aspect and feeling their life with joy and affection to the fullest. Though our paths never crossed, l was thinking that one day l will see you as a Groom and celebrate you not knowing you will be gone too soon.
You may not be with us but your memories will linger in the heart of your loved ones and those that knows you.
Rest in peace dear Tobi. Surely, l know you will be missed by all. Your values and memories will forever be remembered and cherished.
I want to use this medium to console Prof and the entire family. God in His infinite mercy will comfort the entire family and loved ones left behind 😭😭😭😂
May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace.
Rest on dear Son.
After reading through Tobi's life touching and soul emancipating biography, I was deeply moved and challenged to emulate the enviable appraisals of his personality, though I never really had any personal relationship with him in his life time.
We sincerely condole with the wonderful family of Prof. Elemo, and pray that God Almighty will comfort them in these terrible times.
We are comforted in the faith that the righteous will abide in the bossom of the Almighty, and though he's no more physically with us, the gift of eternal life in Christ is his portion.
Adieu Tobi!
Until we meet to part no more in eternity!
We sincerely condole with the wonderful family of Prof. Elemo, and pray that God Almighty will comfort them in these terrible times.
We are comforted in the faith that the righteous will abide in the bossom of the Almighty, and though he's no more physically with us, the gift of eternal life in Christ is his portion.
Adieu Tobi!
Until we meet to part no more in eternity!
Our hearts are heavy with sorrow as we mourn the passing of Tobi Elemo Nkem. There are no words that can fully ease the pain of such a profound loss, but we pray that God’s comfort and strength surround you—Prof. Babajide Elemo, Prof. Gloria Elemo, and dear Olide, Demi, and Tolu—during this difficult time.
That memory speaks to how deeply connected you are to Tobi and his family. From the joy of his birth in Satellite Town to the bright young man he became, his journey was one filled with love, promise, and the warmth of family.
Tobi was a young man full of promise, intelligence, and kindness, a reflection of the love and values instilled in him by his family. Though his time here was far too short, he lived with grace, leaving behind beautiful memories that will never fade.
To the Elemo"s family ,may you all find solace in the love and support of those around you, and may the cherished moments with Tobi bring you strength AMEN
That memory speaks to how deeply connected you are to Tobi and his family. From the joy of his birth in Satellite Town to the bright young man he became, his journey was one filled with love, promise, and the warmth of family.
Tobi was a young man full of promise, intelligence, and kindness, a reflection of the love and values instilled in him by his family. Though his time here was far too short, he lived with grace, leaving behind beautiful memories that will never fade.
To the Elemo"s family ,may you all find solace in the love and support of those around you, and may the cherished moments with Tobi bring you strength AMEN
Our hearts are heavy with sorrow as we mourn the passing of Tobi Elemo Nkem. There are no words that can fully ease the pain of such a profound loss, but we pray that God’s comfort and strength surround you—Prof. Babajide Elemo, Prof. Gloria Elemo, and dear Olide, Demi, and Tolu—during this difficult time.
That memory speaks to how deeply connected you are to Tobi and his family. From the joy of his birth in Satellite Town to the bright young man he became, his journey was one filled with love, promise, and the warmth of family.
Tobi was a young man full of promise, intelligence, and kindness, a reflection of the love and values instilled in him by his family. Though his time here was far too short, he lived with grace, leaving behind beautiful memories that will never fade.
To the Elemo"s family ,may you all find solace in the love and support of those around you, and may the cherished moments with Tobi bring you strength AMEN
That memory speaks to how deeply connected you are to Tobi and his family. From the joy of his birth in Satellite Town to the bright young man he became, his journey was one filled with love, promise, and the warmth of family.
Tobi was a young man full of promise, intelligence, and kindness, a reflection of the love and values instilled in him by his family. Though his time here was far too short, he lived with grace, leaving behind beautiful memories that will never fade.
To the Elemo"s family ,may you all find solace in the love and support of those around you, and may the cherished moments with Tobi bring you strength AMEN
I heard about you long before I met you eventually, my Mom would come home to talk about an intelligent 9-year-old boy who had conversations with her like an adult, asked intelligent questions and probed things she thought was the norm till you questioned them.
It was not a shock to see you go on to perform excellently well in your academics and scale heights of success. You became my brother when Daddy and Mommy became my parents, and you will always be. You've left temporarily, but one day, in the resurrection, we would join together in the family song and we would never be broken again. Till then, You will live on in my memory. Till we meet, Tobi.
It was not a shock to see you go on to perform excellently well in your academics and scale heights of success. You became my brother when Daddy and Mommy became my parents, and you will always be. You've left temporarily, but one day, in the resurrection, we would join together in the family song and we would never be broken again. Till then, You will live on in my memory. Till we meet, Tobi.
Kings’ College Tributes
13 entries.
This is such a big loss. May the Almighty grant you eternal rest Tobiloba, and grant your family- parents and siblings - fortitude to bear this irreparable loss.
Wole Olafimihan
Ibadan, Nigeria.
Wole Olafimihan
Ibadan, Nigeria.
Tobi was my ward in Kings College,Lagos.
He was cool and calm.
Never got into trouble with School authority ,
Promising young lad.
His sunset too early.
I loss a son in Tobi.
May his noble soul rest in perfect peace .
He was cool and calm.
Never got into trouble with School authority ,
Promising young lad.
His sunset too early.
I loss a son in Tobi.
May his noble soul rest in perfect peace .
I did not meet you in person but I have had a lot about you positively. In fact I thought we would meet soon but it's so sad to hear about your loss. I have asked one question multiple times “ WHY YOU and WHY NOW” and I still have not been able to figure it out. However, I take absolute comfort in God that has answer for my question. I know there is a reason for this. You left the world of chaos and shame to be with God everlastingly.
Keep resting in the blossom of the father. Till we meet again in Christ.
Keep resting in the blossom of the father. Till we meet again in Christ.
Tobi was my best friend in Kings college, so many afternoons spent in dinning hall talking about our interests in anime, video games and food… he shared everything with me as I did him
He made me want to be a better person, to be empathetic, to be caring, to put others before myself because that’s the type of person he is
I hoped we’d be able to play “Sims” one more time Elemo… just one more time so you can tell me how I should be considerate of the decisions I make towards fictional characters
I’ll continually miss you my friend
Rest in perfect peace
He made me want to be a better person, to be empathetic, to be caring, to put others before myself because that’s the type of person he is
I hoped we’d be able to play “Sims” one more time Elemo… just one more time so you can tell me how I should be considerate of the decisions I make towards fictional characters
I’ll continually miss you my friend
Rest in perfect peace
Service to the living honor to the dead king's man
Life has a way of playing pranks on us, and this one has not gone down well. In all my six years of secondary school with Tobi, he was one of those students you could vouch for to steer clear of trouble. His calm, quiet, and charming nature coupled with his inquisitiveness made him a bright spark. REST ON PEACEFULLY BROTHER. SPERO LUCEM. HONOUR TO OUR DEAD
Pardon me if I’m a bit short of words but I’m still in denial. Tobi was really an awesome person, calm and level headed and very nice to be around. From the way he spoke, to how he dressed, down to his demeanor, you just knew that he was a simple man who enjoyed the simple pleasures of life. I remember when we’d spend hours talking about cartoons in the hostel and in the dining hall, I love how well he would describe the scenes, his storytelling prowess was truly something.
May his souls rest in perfect peace
May his souls rest in perfect peace
Rest well Tobi,
Tobi Tobi Tobi … hmmmmmm , rest in peace . Floreat brother
Where do I start? How do I put my feelings into words? This is one of the greatest shocks of my life, and I still haven’t come to terms with it. I met Tobi in King’s College, and he was one of the brightest, cheerful, and innocent fellows I had ever met. I never understood how he managed to always have a smile on his face, despite how challenging the school environment was. But I guess that was the beauty of Tobi – he really did turn the lemons of life into lemonades. I’ll miss our chats about anime and arguments about how Ironman is the greatest superhero ever. Keep resting in the Lord where there is no pain and no sorrow.
Goodbye.
Goodbye.
Tobi was the kindest person I met when I just entered kings college in SS1. He was a funny, bright, cheerful and very creative guy. Always had something hilarious to say to put a smile on someone's face. We never got that close, but I'm glad I met him when I did. He was one of the core members of my friend group, the Elite, and he made me love anime even more than I did at the time.
HE was so spontaneous! There's this one day he and I were walking to the cafeteria for lunch on a Sunday. This boy just broke into a run for no reason at all and said if I got there after him he'd take my chicken😅. He was a real ball of energy and he never let his anger get the better of him.
I love you man. Rest peacefully, Kakashi-dono.
HE was so spontaneous! There's this one day he and I were walking to the cafeteria for lunch on a Sunday. This boy just broke into a run for no reason at all and said if I got there after him he'd take my chicken😅. He was a real ball of energy and he never let his anger get the better of him.
I love you man. Rest peacefully, Kakashi-dono.
Still can't believe I'm actually writing this. We were a relatively large group of friends, but you were one of those who was there from the very beginning. We spent all six years in the boarding house together, and every single one of us was glad to call you our brother.
You were always the best of us, the kindest, most calm person ever. Even when other people would try to take advantage of you sometimes, you never let it get to you, always responding with a smile instead. Any time we spent together was always a fun time, and I cherished all our lengthy talks about anime and movies, all the games we cooked up and discussed, even the ones you me and Henry would make up while waiting for church on Sundays, like that was really part of the highlights of my stay in that school.
I wish you didn't have to go so soon, but I know that God has a reason for calling His people back to His side. And truly you were one of His people. One of the good ones. And none of us will ever forget the friend and brother we had in you, Tobi Elemo. May your soul rest in perfect peace, Amen.
Your legacy will live on.
You were always the best of us, the kindest, most calm person ever. Even when other people would try to take advantage of you sometimes, you never let it get to you, always responding with a smile instead. Any time we spent together was always a fun time, and I cherished all our lengthy talks about anime and movies, all the games we cooked up and discussed, even the ones you me and Henry would make up while waiting for church on Sundays, like that was really part of the highlights of my stay in that school.
I wish you didn't have to go so soon, but I know that God has a reason for calling His people back to His side. And truly you were one of His people. One of the good ones. And none of us will ever forget the friend and brother we had in you, Tobi Elemo. May your soul rest in perfect peace, Amen.
Your legacy will live on.
I bless God for the day I met you,Tobi (Tobisculus)as we call you ,you’re a great friend ,brother that someone can ever ask for and all the memories we had together all still fresh in my head right from kings college.We still made plans to hangout when you get back to Nigeria. A very gentle and humble soul and a supportive person,it saddens me to be writing about your passing but God knows best and I’m definitely sure you’re in a better …..we love you and miss you Tobi
California State University, Northridge Tributes
2 entries.
Dear Tobi...
While I didn't know you for a long time, you have made an everlasting impact on me. You brought out the best in your peers and always championed them. You are still a warrior. You made me feel closer to our higher power than I ever thought possible. I thank God for loaning you to all of us. Your spirit will live on in my heart forever.
Annalyn
While I didn't know you for a long time, you have made an everlasting impact on me. You brought out the best in your peers and always championed them. You are still a warrior. You made me feel closer to our higher power than I ever thought possible. I thank God for loaning you to all of us. Your spirit will live on in my heart forever.
Annalyn
Tobi was one of my best friends at CSUN. At the start of our geology program, Tobi and I met because we sat in the same area on campus while on our computers during our online class. He introduced himself and right off the bat seemed like such a friendly person. It wasn't long before we bonded and complained about the millions of bees flying in our faces while we tried to focus on class.
In another class, Tobi and I were assigned as partners for group work and we became even closer because of that. He always asked me questions to get to know me better and we talked together about our interests. During that class, I battled with insecurity a lot because I struggled with science. I said something self derogatory and I'll never forget how Tobi stayed behind to encourage me to believe in myself.
Tobi was someone that always stayed by your side when you were falling behind. During our first geology trip, I was inexperienced with hiking and was the slowest in the group. Despite that, Tobi never left me and even offered to carry me. His unwavering kindness and consideration ran so deep that it truly amazed me. The amount of admiration and love I had for this guy goes beyond than what I can describe in words.
I'll never forget all the times we spent on call working on homework together and lifting one another up. Tobi and I were both the underdogs in the geology program compared to everyone else, so we were like a team that stuck together to improve. We were both afraid of heights (and it didn't help that our shoes weren't the best for hiking) but we faced that together and became unstoppable. It was wonderful to watch how far Tobi came through his strength, hard work, and determination.
Tobi was a great friend, one of the best I've ever had and I'll never forget the positive impact he made on my life. He was a blindingly beautiful beacon of light that spread for miles and reached everyone that surrounded him. I'll never forget the way he cared for me and respected me for the way that I am. I'll never forget all we've been through and all the memories we made. It's very bittersweet to look back on everything and I am tearing up writing this.. God bless him and his family and may he rest in peace.
In another class, Tobi and I were assigned as partners for group work and we became even closer because of that. He always asked me questions to get to know me better and we talked together about our interests. During that class, I battled with insecurity a lot because I struggled with science. I said something self derogatory and I'll never forget how Tobi stayed behind to encourage me to believe in myself.
Tobi was someone that always stayed by your side when you were falling behind. During our first geology trip, I was inexperienced with hiking and was the slowest in the group. Despite that, Tobi never left me and even offered to carry me. His unwavering kindness and consideration ran so deep that it truly amazed me. The amount of admiration and love I had for this guy goes beyond than what I can describe in words.
I'll never forget all the times we spent on call working on homework together and lifting one another up. Tobi and I were both the underdogs in the geology program compared to everyone else, so we were like a team that stuck together to improve. We were both afraid of heights (and it didn't help that our shoes weren't the best for hiking) but we faced that together and became unstoppable. It was wonderful to watch how far Tobi came through his strength, hard work, and determination.
Tobi was a great friend, one of the best I've ever had and I'll never forget the positive impact he made on my life. He was a blindingly beautiful beacon of light that spread for miles and reached everyone that surrounded him. I'll never forget the way he cared for me and respected me for the way that I am. I'll never forget all we've been through and all the memories we made. It's very bittersweet to look back on everything and I am tearing up writing this.. God bless him and his family and may he rest in peace.
Other Friends Tributes
4 entries.
Tobi, it was rude shock and absolute grief that I received the news of the passing away from daddy. But the scripture reminds me that there's a season of appointed to everything under heaven a time to gather and a time to cast away, a time to be happy and the time to die. The pain we bear now is immeasurable. Bro rest is perfect in our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. God will console your parents. Good night.
Tobi, it was rude shock and absolute grief that I received the news of the passing away from daddy. But the scripture reminds me that there's a season of appointed to everything under heaven a time to gather and a time to cast away, a time to be happy and the time to die. The pain we bear now is immeasurable. Bro rest is perfect in our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. God will console your parents. Good night.
Elemo Tobi, I don’t even know what to say honestly, this comes as a very very wild shock, olorun a wo e, olorun a sho e, olorun a fi orun ke e, not you Tobi, if being meek gentle and accommodating was a person it was you bro, I don’t even know what to say again, I’m as confused as I can be my bro, wherever you are please rest in peace. May the lord send his angels to comfort you and guide you on calm waters❤️ sun re oremi ❤️😭
Oluwatobi Oluwatobi Oluwatobi you started live so beautifully. From a very tender age you had the wisdom of an old man. I learnt from your words of wisdom at age 8 where you told me never to promise anybody, all I said was Oluwatobi I promise that the next time you'll be in office I would've subscribed for our DSTV and scolded saying " Mummy do you promise people? What if I come tomorrow?
Huuuuuuuumph Tobi so many good memories kept flying my mind.
Oluwatobi you are a beautiful soul. In life I love you dearly, in death I love you still, in my heart you hold a dear place, I cried endlessly, I won't let the tears Mar the smiles that you've given when you were alive.
I know you are listening from above, cos I am hearing you ask me even now "I hope I have not disappointed you" you haven't Oluwatobi, you fought to the end.
Sun re o! In the bosom of your Creator.
Huuuuuuuumph Tobi so many good memories kept flying my mind.
Oluwatobi you are a beautiful soul. In life I love you dearly, in death I love you still, in my heart you hold a dear place, I cried endlessly, I won't let the tears Mar the smiles that you've given when you were alive.
I know you are listening from above, cos I am hearing you ask me even now "I hope I have not disappointed you" you haven't Oluwatobi, you fought to the end.
Sun re o! In the bosom of your Creator.
General Tributes
10 entries.
YOUR MEMORY IS BLESSED
Tobi’s life reflects a profound impact he had on those around him.
Tobi brought joy, comfort, and peace to all who knew him. His kind heart, infectious smile, and generous spirit inspired everyone to be better versions of themselves.
As I think about Tobi, I am also reminded of my own nephew, who left us at the same tender age. His passing was like a whisper from God, reminding us of the preciousness of life and the importance of a dedicated life to God.
Tobi, your life may have been brief, but your legacy will live on in our hearts. You may have left us, but your memory will continue to inspire us to live with purpose, to love with abandon, and to cherish every moment.
See you in the morning dear Son.
Tobi’s life reflects a profound impact he had on those around him.
Tobi brought joy, comfort, and peace to all who knew him. His kind heart, infectious smile, and generous spirit inspired everyone to be better versions of themselves.
As I think about Tobi, I am also reminded of my own nephew, who left us at the same tender age. His passing was like a whisper from God, reminding us of the preciousness of life and the importance of a dedicated life to God.
Tobi, your life may have been brief, but your legacy will live on in our hearts. You may have left us, but your memory will continue to inspire us to live with purpose, to love with abandon, and to cherish every moment.
See you in the morning dear Son.
Prof Grace Elemo was a senoir colleague to me at RMRDC. I can recall the joy the birth of Tobi brought to the family.
Not to long ago,my wife brought the not so cheering news that Tobi was in a critical condition. She learnt so from his mom who had mentored her while at RMRDC.
Losing someone is always painful. Seeing that someone go through pains is an added pain. What can assuage that pain is the Christ he knew and we know,the life of impact Tobi lived, the reference he earned in his short life, and even while stucked on the bed in the hospital. What I gleaned from the bio was Psalm 23.4 becoming real:Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.
My prayer and condolece to the Elemos. May the Lord comfort and stregthen now and beyond,Amen.
Not to long ago,my wife brought the not so cheering news that Tobi was in a critical condition. She learnt so from his mom who had mentored her while at RMRDC.
Losing someone is always painful. Seeing that someone go through pains is an added pain. What can assuage that pain is the Christ he knew and we know,the life of impact Tobi lived, the reference he earned in his short life, and even while stucked on the bed in the hospital. What I gleaned from the bio was Psalm 23.4 becoming real:Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.
My prayer and condolece to the Elemos. May the Lord comfort and stregthen now and beyond,Amen.
From a young age, Tobi displayed a keen intellect, intelligence, humility, gentleness and always eager to absorb new knowledge and master new skills. His humility made his brilliance all the more admirable; never one to boast, Tobi approached life with a quiet confidence that drew people to him.
In the workplace as an IT student, Tobi's youthful energy was both a joy and a gentle nudge to embrace the lighter side of life. I fondly recall how he would often persuade me to take breaks from work to indulge in computer games on my laptop. Those moments, filled with laughter is a treasure I hold dear. His presence was a reminder that amidst our busy lives, it's essential to find time for play and connection. He listened more than he spoke, offering support and kindness to anyone in need.
Losing Tobi at such a young age is a profound tragedy, and the void he leaves is immense. Yet, as we grieve, we also celebrate the beautiful impact he had on our lives. His legacy of humility, eagerness to learn, and the joy he brought into our everyday moments will continue to inspire us.
May God grant Oluwatobi Elemo eternal rest, and may we find comfort in the memories of a life lived with grace, curiosity, and love.
Rest in peace, Tobi MY GUY.
I WILL MISS YOU!!!
In the workplace as an IT student, Tobi's youthful energy was both a joy and a gentle nudge to embrace the lighter side of life. I fondly recall how he would often persuade me to take breaks from work to indulge in computer games on my laptop. Those moments, filled with laughter is a treasure I hold dear. His presence was a reminder that amidst our busy lives, it's essential to find time for play and connection. He listened more than he spoke, offering support and kindness to anyone in need.
Losing Tobi at such a young age is a profound tragedy, and the void he leaves is immense. Yet, as we grieve, we also celebrate the beautiful impact he had on our lives. His legacy of humility, eagerness to learn, and the joy he brought into our everyday moments will continue to inspire us.
May God grant Oluwatobi Elemo eternal rest, and may we find comfort in the memories of a life lived with grace, curiosity, and love.
Rest in peace, Tobi MY GUY.
I WILL MISS YOU!!!
Tobi Elemo, may your pleasant soul find eternal rest in the bossom of your maker and Lord😇🙏
With a slight glance at the tributes no doubt your untimely departure is a shock to us all. The short time you spent with us here on earth will forever be remembered. I pray God forgive of your shortcomings and grant you eternal peace. Amin. 😭
With a slight glance at the tributes no doubt your untimely departure is a shock to us all. The short time you spent with us here on earth will forever be remembered. I pray God forgive of your shortcomings and grant you eternal peace. Amin. 😭
With a slight glance at the tributes no doubt your untimely departure is a shock to us all. The short time you spent with us here on earth will forever be remembered. I pray God forgive of your shortcomings and grant you eternal peace. Amin. 😭
Oluwatobi,huuun,an extraordinary kid Brother
It is an under statement to say that I was confused when I received the sad news of your transition to Glory. I thought the flier was a wedding invitation, but I could not find the name of the brides family and I have to consult the dictionary for the meaning of "devastating". It took a while before the reality beckoned on me. No doubt the sun set so early, but since we have no control over
life and death, we say thank you God. Rest on Tobi till we meet again. I pray to the moqst High God to comfort your family and those of us whose paths you have crossed. Adeiu Oluwatobi.
It is an under statement to say that I was confused when I received the sad news of your transition to Glory. I thought the flier was a wedding invitation, but I could not find the name of the brides family and I have to consult the dictionary for the meaning of "devastating". It took a while before the reality beckoned on me. No doubt the sun set so early, but since we have no control over
life and death, we say thank you God. Rest on Tobi till we meet again. I pray to the moqst High God to comfort your family and those of us whose paths you have crossed. Adeiu Oluwatobi.
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[li]Tobi!Tobi!! Tobi!!! Yes, aunty Yemisi--Tobi would answer-----so you are gone? My family&I
are pained by your passing unto glory.The news of your passing left me speechless and confused. I can't even get to talk to your mum regularly since the i got the news of your demise. My family & I prayed for you regaining consciousness .Our friends in Abeokuta and Benin offered Masses& prayers but alas ! It pleased God almighty to take you to Himself. We can't query you our God and creator. I will always remember for as long asI live your kindness, warmth &love.You always wait on me anytime I visit your parents then in Lagos.Tobi was always so sweet, caring and respectful.
May your sweet and gentle soul rest peacefully in the bosom of our Lord Jesus Christ. Amen.
May your parents, siblings, and family members be comforted in Christ Jesus. Amen.
My son Tobi ! Rest in peace . It is well!!!.
Aunty Yemisi.(Abeokuta)/li]
Some souls are too pure, too radiant for this world. Toni fought bravely, held on with strength beyond measure, and was surrounded by nothing but love, prayers, and the unwavering hope of a family that adored him. The Elemos gave him everything—time, sacrifices, faith—because love knows no limits.
Though his journey here was brief, his impact was profound. Tobi was deeply cherished, and that love will never fade. Angels like him are not meant to stay; they grace us with their presence, then return home, leaving behind a light that never dims. May his soul rest in perfect peace, and may the hearts of his family find comfort in knowing that love, true and boundless, never dies.
Though his journey here was brief, his impact was profound. Tobi was deeply cherished, and that love will never fade. Angels like him are not meant to stay; they grace us with their presence, then return home, leaving behind a light that never dims. May his soul rest in perfect peace, and may the hearts of his family find comfort in knowing that love, true and boundless, never dies.
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