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Tobi’s Light Forever Bright
You brought a warmth so pure, so bright,
A soul so full it made hearts glad.
You lifted hearts with thoughtful words,
With gentle strength and open arms.
And though we part, you’re not far gone.
Your joy remains in moments replayed.
In every smile, your love lives on,
A light that shines each and every day.
You’ll be missed dear little brother. Rest well 🤍
You brought a warmth so pure, so bright,
A soul so full it made hearts glad.
You lifted hearts with thoughtful words,
With gentle strength and open arms.
And though we part, you’re not far gone.
Your joy remains in moments replayed.
In every smile, your love lives on,
A light that shines each and every day.
You’ll be missed dear little brother. Rest well 🤍
A bright light extinguished too soon. Rest in peace Oluwatobi Babajide Nkem Elemo. My heartfelt condolences go out to Professor Elemo and his family. May God strengthen and comfort your family during this incredibly difficult time.
Tobi Elemo was a kind, loving, and inspiring soul. Though he is no longer with us, his memory will live on in our hearts.
Rest in peace, Tobi.
Rest in peace, Tobi.
It is with deep sorrow and a heavy heart that we say farewell to a remarkable young man, Tobi Elemo. At just 23 years old, Tobi embodied the essence of a life well-lived - one filled with purpose, dedication, and unwavering faith in God. Tobi was a beacon of hard work and determination, always striving to make a difference in everything he touched. He lived with integrity, kindness, and a heart full of love for God and others. To his loving parents, my dear friends and associates, I extend my deepest condolences. No words can fully capture the pain of this loss, but I pray that God's grace and comfort surround you during this difficult time. Tobi's legacy of faith, diligence, and kindness will live on in our hearts forever.
Rest in peace, dear Tobi. Your light may have left this world too soon, but your impact will never fade.
Rest in peace, dear Tobi. Your light may have left this world too soon, but your impact will never fade.
Oluwatobi, Good night.
Rest well with the saints ..
Good night, till the resurrection day ...
Good night !!!
Rest well with the saints ..
Good night, till the resurrection day ...
Good night !!!
My Dear Tobi,
This doesn’t feel right. This shouldn’t be. I shouldn’t be writing this.
You were our little boy, our precious gift from God in 2002. From the moment you arrived, you were loved so deeply. Your presence brought so much joy, so much light.
Since you have been down, We prayed for you, believed for you, hoped for a miracle. We stood with your parents, trusting that one day, you would rise to your feet again.
But maybe, just maybe, God had a different plan. Maybe He saw that you had fought enough, that you had endured enough, and in His infinite wisdom, He called you home—to rest, to be free, to be whole again. And while our hearts are broken, while we mourn the days we wished for but never got, we also hold on to the love you gave, the warmth you left behind.
You were a fighter, Tobi. A child of grace. A light. And we will never forget you. We will cherish the moments we had with you, however brief. We will remember your spirit, your smile, your strength. We pray that the Almighty God will strengthen and console your wonderful family, especially your parents, whose love and dedication knew no bounds. May His peace surround them in this difficult time, and may your beautiful soul rest in perfect peace.
Sleep well, little angel. You are at peace now, wrapped in God’s eternal love. We will miss you always, and you will forever be in our hearts.
Goodnight, Tobi. 💙
This doesn’t feel right. This shouldn’t be. I shouldn’t be writing this.
You were our little boy, our precious gift from God in 2002. From the moment you arrived, you were loved so deeply. Your presence brought so much joy, so much light.
Since you have been down, We prayed for you, believed for you, hoped for a miracle. We stood with your parents, trusting that one day, you would rise to your feet again.
But maybe, just maybe, God had a different plan. Maybe He saw that you had fought enough, that you had endured enough, and in His infinite wisdom, He called you home—to rest, to be free, to be whole again. And while our hearts are broken, while we mourn the days we wished for but never got, we also hold on to the love you gave, the warmth you left behind.
You were a fighter, Tobi. A child of grace. A light. And we will never forget you. We will cherish the moments we had with you, however brief. We will remember your spirit, your smile, your strength. We pray that the Almighty God will strengthen and console your wonderful family, especially your parents, whose love and dedication knew no bounds. May His peace surround them in this difficult time, and may your beautiful soul rest in perfect peace.
Sleep well, little angel. You are at peace now, wrapped in God’s eternal love. We will miss you always, and you will forever be in our hearts.
Goodnight, Tobi. 💙
Being Tobi’s big sister is the greatest privilege of my life.I loved Tobi, not just because he was my brother, but because of who he was as a person. I admired him greatly for many qualities. He was kind, strong-willed, and full of heart. He was loyal, he was generous, but most importantly, I loved him because he was my friend. He was one of the very few people I could be my whole, unfiltered self with, knowing there would be no judgment.
One of the virtues I admire most in people is loyalty, and Tobi had that in abundance. One of my first and clearest memories of this was at the Agbara Estate Christmas Party when he was eight years old. The children were playing a game where the MC would call out a number, and they had to quickly form groups of that size. If he called “two,” kids paired up. If he called “four,” small groups formed. Most of the numbers were even, so Tobi quickly bonded with another boy, and every time the MC called “two,” they would instinctively find each other, standing side by side.
Then the MC decided to change things up and called for a group of three. Suddenly, the even pairs were thrown into confusion. Other children scrambled to grab new teammates, and two boys tried to pull Tobi into their group. But he wouldn’t let go. He clung to his new friend, holding on tightly, refusing to leave him behind. Even as the game forced others to break apart, Tobi stood firm. He lost the game, but I have never been prouder of him. I remember the emotion so vividly—it engulfed me, and my heart swelled. It was one of my first real moments of knowing just how much I loved him.
Now, as I write this, maybe I shouldn’t describe it simply as loyalty. Maybe what I was really seeing was Tobi’s big heart and how quickly he opened up to people, how instinctively he connected with them. He had a way of making people feel like they belonged. It wasn’t just about holding on to one friend at a party. It was about how deeply he cared for others.
That same big heart showed in his generosity. Even in boarding school, he would save his pocket money till the last day of term so that he could buy something for us when he got home. For me, it was Domino’s Pizza and Oreo Overload because he knew I loved it. You need to understand the Nigerian boarding house "sapa" to fully grasp how incredible this is.
As much as I admired his kindness, I also worried about it. Tobi was the kind of person who would give without expecting anything in return, and I was always afraid that people might take advantage of that. I wanted to protect him from those who might not understand that his kindness was genuine, not naïveté. But Tobi was such a peace lover, he wouldn't let me. I remember one incident where I was determined to involve the Minister for Education and Tobi said in his increasingly deepening voice "Sis D, can you just calm down?"
There are so many things I could say about him. Tobi was without guile, without envy, without malice, without pretense. He was never interested in having the latest fashion or chasing popularity. He was simply, unapologetically, himself. And maybe that’s why we were friends. He was one of the only people I could truly be my quirky and passionate self around with no judgment or explanation.
When my office was in Ikoyi, I spent many of my lunch breaks at King’s College because yes, it was near but also being around him made everything feel lighter. We talked about everything from the deep to the mundane.
We talked about what life might be like on other planets, debated alien conspiracies, and went down rabbit holes of theories that we both took way too seriously.Our Marvel fan fiction and theories, quite frankly, were more creative than the What If? series. So imagine my horror and betrayal when I found out that he was also a DC fan. But I forgive him for that. Whenever a new MCU movie came out, we'd go watch it and judge the neophytes who left before the post credit scenes. I fondly remember our cinema shenanigans where we would smuggle food into the cinema because I was too cheap to pay the outrageous mall prices for popcorn and sweeties. We began by sneaking in snacks but eventually graduated to stuffing jollof rice and chicken into our pockets. Or at least I made him stuff his pockets.
Our conversations weren’t always about fiction and theories. We also talked about the things we both struggled with in common. Copying notes, time blindness, being misunderstood because we had blurted out intrusive thoughts that don't necessarily reflect our positions eg during his Chrisland experience. Hahahaha. Tobi got it, and we would reassure each other in ways that didn’t need to be deep or formal—just honest, unfiltered conversations that reminded me I wasn’t alone.
Looking back, I think this is part of why our friendship was so remarkable. We had a significant age gap, yet it never felt like it. Tobi and I connected in a way that transcended our different life stages. I was navigating adulthood while he was still figuring out who he was as a teenager, yet we found common ground in the things we loved and the challenges we shared. And did his best to help me because he got it. Even when it came to my PhD, he helped. I gave him a list of all the renewable energy cases I was researching, and he painstakingly went through them, finding the names of the legal executives of the companies involved so I could contact them for interviews. He did it without hesitation, without complaint, just because he knew it would help me.
Then came his illness, and it broke me. Watching him go through what he did was something I still struggle to put into words. But even in that pain, I still found myself talking to him, sharing things I knew he would find interesting, sending voice notes through Daddy, or speaking on the phone even when he couldn’t answer. I would propose the most outrageous takes on issues just to annoy him, holding onto the hope that once he was able to communicate again, he would challenge me.
Losing him feels unreal, like a piece of the world has shifted, leaving a space that no words can fill. But even in this sorrow, I hold onto the truth that Tobi’s life was not defined by his passing. He lived fully, he loved deeply, and he left a mark that cannot be erased. Whether in laughter, kindness, quiet strength, or the way he carried himself, Tobi was a testament to the beauty of a life well-lived.
That is why, when I was asked to select a reading for the service, the passage I chose was obvious.
"What is sown is perishable, what is raised is imperishable. It is sown in weakness, it is raised in power. It is sown a natural body, it is raised a spiritual body." (1 Corinthians 15:42-44)
Tobi gave so much in this life, and now, he has received something greater. The body that failed him is not the body he has now. He is whole. He is strong. He is free. Just as he once held onto his friend so fiercely in that childhood game, I know he is now held in the hands of God, never to be let go, never to be lost.
I miss you, my baby brother, my friend, my constant. But I know this isn’t the end. You are whole. You are healed. And I will see you again.
One of the virtues I admire most in people is loyalty, and Tobi had that in abundance. One of my first and clearest memories of this was at the Agbara Estate Christmas Party when he was eight years old. The children were playing a game where the MC would call out a number, and they had to quickly form groups of that size. If he called “two,” kids paired up. If he called “four,” small groups formed. Most of the numbers were even, so Tobi quickly bonded with another boy, and every time the MC called “two,” they would instinctively find each other, standing side by side.
Then the MC decided to change things up and called for a group of three. Suddenly, the even pairs were thrown into confusion. Other children scrambled to grab new teammates, and two boys tried to pull Tobi into their group. But he wouldn’t let go. He clung to his new friend, holding on tightly, refusing to leave him behind. Even as the game forced others to break apart, Tobi stood firm. He lost the game, but I have never been prouder of him. I remember the emotion so vividly—it engulfed me, and my heart swelled. It was one of my first real moments of knowing just how much I loved him.
Now, as I write this, maybe I shouldn’t describe it simply as loyalty. Maybe what I was really seeing was Tobi’s big heart and how quickly he opened up to people, how instinctively he connected with them. He had a way of making people feel like they belonged. It wasn’t just about holding on to one friend at a party. It was about how deeply he cared for others.
That same big heart showed in his generosity. Even in boarding school, he would save his pocket money till the last day of term so that he could buy something for us when he got home. For me, it was Domino’s Pizza and Oreo Overload because he knew I loved it. You need to understand the Nigerian boarding house "sapa" to fully grasp how incredible this is.
As much as I admired his kindness, I also worried about it. Tobi was the kind of person who would give without expecting anything in return, and I was always afraid that people might take advantage of that. I wanted to protect him from those who might not understand that his kindness was genuine, not naïveté. But Tobi was such a peace lover, he wouldn't let me. I remember one incident where I was determined to involve the Minister for Education and Tobi said in his increasingly deepening voice "Sis D, can you just calm down?"
There are so many things I could say about him. Tobi was without guile, without envy, without malice, without pretense. He was never interested in having the latest fashion or chasing popularity. He was simply, unapologetically, himself. And maybe that’s why we were friends. He was one of the only people I could truly be my quirky and passionate self around with no judgment or explanation.
When my office was in Ikoyi, I spent many of my lunch breaks at King’s College because yes, it was near but also being around him made everything feel lighter. We talked about everything from the deep to the mundane.
We talked about what life might be like on other planets, debated alien conspiracies, and went down rabbit holes of theories that we both took way too seriously.Our Marvel fan fiction and theories, quite frankly, were more creative than the What If? series. So imagine my horror and betrayal when I found out that he was also a DC fan. But I forgive him for that. Whenever a new MCU movie came out, we'd go watch it and judge the neophytes who left before the post credit scenes. I fondly remember our cinema shenanigans where we would smuggle food into the cinema because I was too cheap to pay the outrageous mall prices for popcorn and sweeties. We began by sneaking in snacks but eventually graduated to stuffing jollof rice and chicken into our pockets. Or at least I made him stuff his pockets.
Our conversations weren’t always about fiction and theories. We also talked about the things we both struggled with in common. Copying notes, time blindness, being misunderstood because we had blurted out intrusive thoughts that don't necessarily reflect our positions eg during his Chrisland experience. Hahahaha. Tobi got it, and we would reassure each other in ways that didn’t need to be deep or formal—just honest, unfiltered conversations that reminded me I wasn’t alone.
Looking back, I think this is part of why our friendship was so remarkable. We had a significant age gap, yet it never felt like it. Tobi and I connected in a way that transcended our different life stages. I was navigating adulthood while he was still figuring out who he was as a teenager, yet we found common ground in the things we loved and the challenges we shared. And did his best to help me because he got it. Even when it came to my PhD, he helped. I gave him a list of all the renewable energy cases I was researching, and he painstakingly went through them, finding the names of the legal executives of the companies involved so I could contact them for interviews. He did it without hesitation, without complaint, just because he knew it would help me.
Then came his illness, and it broke me. Watching him go through what he did was something I still struggle to put into words. But even in that pain, I still found myself talking to him, sharing things I knew he would find interesting, sending voice notes through Daddy, or speaking on the phone even when he couldn’t answer. I would propose the most outrageous takes on issues just to annoy him, holding onto the hope that once he was able to communicate again, he would challenge me.
Losing him feels unreal, like a piece of the world has shifted, leaving a space that no words can fill. But even in this sorrow, I hold onto the truth that Tobi’s life was not defined by his passing. He lived fully, he loved deeply, and he left a mark that cannot be erased. Whether in laughter, kindness, quiet strength, or the way he carried himself, Tobi was a testament to the beauty of a life well-lived.
That is why, when I was asked to select a reading for the service, the passage I chose was obvious.
"What is sown is perishable, what is raised is imperishable. It is sown in weakness, it is raised in power. It is sown a natural body, it is raised a spiritual body." (1 Corinthians 15:42-44)
Tobi gave so much in this life, and now, he has received something greater. The body that failed him is not the body he has now. He is whole. He is strong. He is free. Just as he once held onto his friend so fiercely in that childhood game, I know he is now held in the hands of God, never to be let go, never to be lost.
I miss you, my baby brother, my friend, my constant. But I know this isn’t the end. You are whole. You are healed. And I will see you again.
With a heavy heart am writing this tribute, it not easy to say goodbye to a great soul like you, I don't know you as a person but I knew your father as a grammarians, your father was a great man a devoted man to the core,I was shocked when I heard about your death, I pray God rest your soul and be with your family especially this trying periods.Goodnight great one till we meet and part no more. Ogunnowo Funmilayo Adetutu Igs 97/2003 set
My dear son oluwatobi,I don't know what to say I was shock when I received the sad news about your death, you are such a wonderful and caring soul, I remember when you are just little boy, the first day with mummy you welcome me with love and your smile that guaranteed me an open doors to the entire Elemo family, you never seen me or treated me like a stranger since I joined your family, you are so smart even though I wanted to beat you I will quickly change my mind when you call me aunty Tala as you always call me I remembered back then in Abuja in your primary school how you always showed respect to your teachers by prostrating down while greetings as a Yoruba well trained child, you demonstrate love and decency even from your childhood, I will always remember you in my heart, in fact you have extended your genuine love to my children in fact you are my hero, Oluwatobi who will come Aunty TALA again, my entire family is in pain since this shocking news of your departed in this sinful world, i can't never question God but God called you back home to internal rest, keep resting till resurrection day when we parth no more.
From Omotola Ajibola
From Omotola Ajibola
Never did I imagine this day will come, even for the past 2 years and 9 months I consistently looked for some hope to cling to. Hoping and Praying you will come out and eventually share your testimony. Alas here I am today a week to your burial penning a tribute to my beloved Tobi.
All my time and memories with you are good. I remember vividly the news of your birth, celebrating you 30 days after at Satellite town, I remember you as a toddler so cute and fun loving, then when you began Kings college @ 10 the years we lived together. Few years later, I remember the day I called Daddy and he told me Tobi wrote his JAMB today, and then not too long I recieved with Joy news Tobi was leaving for the U.S to begin his graduate studies. Our last physical encounter face to face, was in December 2020, we had our last conversation that night outside the house, Just me and you. Little Tobi was now a fine young man, with so much promise.
The events leading to your demise for me remains a mystery. The more I try to grasp it, the more confused I get.
Nevertheless, Oluwatobi your 23 years to me is golden, pure, simple yet deep with substance. You put up a galant fight for life, so many of us Family and friends built prayer alters, and we made sacrificial offerings to God. Alas our hearts are broken having not recieved what we hoped for, but our Faith is not broken.
Oluwatobi I will miss you dearly, I know your Chapter in this divide has ended. But I know it is not the end of you. Odigba, Odabo beloved Aburo.
Olutola. A. Elemo
All my time and memories with you are good. I remember vividly the news of your birth, celebrating you 30 days after at Satellite town, I remember you as a toddler so cute and fun loving, then when you began Kings college @ 10 the years we lived together. Few years later, I remember the day I called Daddy and he told me Tobi wrote his JAMB today, and then not too long I recieved with Joy news Tobi was leaving for the U.S to begin his graduate studies. Our last physical encounter face to face, was in December 2020, we had our last conversation that night outside the house, Just me and you. Little Tobi was now a fine young man, with so much promise.
The events leading to your demise for me remains a mystery. The more I try to grasp it, the more confused I get.
Nevertheless, Oluwatobi your 23 years to me is golden, pure, simple yet deep with substance. You put up a galant fight for life, so many of us Family and friends built prayer alters, and we made sacrificial offerings to God. Alas our hearts are broken having not recieved what we hoped for, but our Faith is not broken.
Oluwatobi I will miss you dearly, I know your Chapter in this divide has ended. But I know it is not the end of you. Odigba, Odabo beloved Aburo.
Olutola. A. Elemo
A Tribute to Tobi Elemo
Today, we remember and honour the life of Tobi Elemo, an extraordinary individual who left an indelible mark on the lives of everyone he has contact with. Tobi lived a life of purpose, driven by his passion for God, family, and community. He was a shining example of what it means to live a life of faith, hope, and love.
Tobi's heart was pure gold, filled with generosity, kindness, and compassion. He had a unique ability to connect with people from all walks of life, making everyone feel seen, heard, and valued without been immodest.
Tobi's life is a testament to the power of love, and impact. He will be deeply missed, but his memory will continue to inspire us to live our lives with purpose, passion, and love. Tobi, we celebrate your life, your love, and your legacy. May your memory be a blessing to us all. Rest in peace, dear Tobi. Your life will never be forgotten.
Today, we remember and honour the life of Tobi Elemo, an extraordinary individual who left an indelible mark on the lives of everyone he has contact with. Tobi lived a life of purpose, driven by his passion for God, family, and community. He was a shining example of what it means to live a life of faith, hope, and love.
Tobi's heart was pure gold, filled with generosity, kindness, and compassion. He had a unique ability to connect with people from all walks of life, making everyone feel seen, heard, and valued without been immodest.
Tobi's life is a testament to the power of love, and impact. He will be deeply missed, but his memory will continue to inspire us to live our lives with purpose, passion, and love. Tobi, we celebrate your life, your love, and your legacy. May your memory be a blessing to us all. Rest in peace, dear Tobi. Your life will never be forgotten.
Words failed me when I heard about your passing oluwatobi . After reading through all the tributes, I realized you were an angel in human form . You lived impactful life. Your memory will be greatly cherished forever. May the Lord console & comfort your parents & your siblings.
Eternal & peaceful rest, the Lord will grant unto your soul.
Eternal & peaceful rest, the Lord will grant unto your soul.
Brief but phenomenal
We are proud of your brief sojourn here on earth Would have loved to have you stay longer
But his ways, not our ways, his thoughts not our thoughts. Painful exit, He determines when the bell tolls. He is God.
May your gentle soul rest in peace Tobi
Adieu
We are proud of your brief sojourn here on earth Would have loved to have you stay longer
But his ways, not our ways, his thoughts not our thoughts. Painful exit, He determines when the bell tolls. He is God.
May your gentle soul rest in peace Tobi
Adieu
Oluwatobi was such a loving, caring, and rising star that it was unbelievable that he would not be around any more, having gone into eternity.
I travelled with him on at least two occasions to the San Francisco Bay Area. I remember one time that I asked him for cash because I did not want to use a card in Castaic Area near a city called Lebec near LA.
He gave me all the money that he had on me. That’s a sign of a CARING person.
He WILL BE GREATLY MISSED by everyone that ever had the glorious chance and opportunity to have met him. I DID and I can honestly say that he was a well disciplined and caring person.
I travelled with him on at least two occasions to the San Francisco Bay Area. I remember one time that I asked him for cash because I did not want to use a card in Castaic Area near a city called Lebec near LA.
He gave me all the money that he had on me. That’s a sign of a CARING person.
He WILL BE GREATLY MISSED by everyone that ever had the glorious chance and opportunity to have met him. I DID and I can honestly say that he was a well disciplined and caring person.
Oluwatobi was such a loving, caring, and rising star that it was unbelievable that he would not be around any more, having gone into eternity.
I travelled with him on at least two occasions to the San Francisco Bay Area. I remember one time that I asked him for cash because I did not want to use a card in Castaic Area near a city called Lebec near LA.
He gave me all the money that he had on me. That’s a sign of a CARING person.
He WILL BE GREATLY MISSED by everyone that ever had the glorious chance and opportunity to have met him. I DID and I can honestly say that he was a well disciplined and caring person.
I travelled with him on at least two occasions to the San Francisco Bay Area. I remember one time that I asked him for cash because I did not want to use a card in Castaic Area near a city called Lebec near LA.
He gave me all the money that he had on me. That’s a sign of a CARING person.
He WILL BE GREATLY MISSED by everyone that ever had the glorious chance and opportunity to have met him. I DID and I can honestly say that he was a well disciplined and caring person.
Still can't believe this. We were literally best friends back then in primary school, I really can't believe you are gone already.
You were an amazing human, one of the few humans I really rated. Your dreams and ambition inspired me a lot. Gone but would never be forgotten ❤️Tobi elemo.
You were an amazing human, one of the few humans I really rated. Your dreams and ambition inspired me a lot. Gone but would never be forgotten ❤️Tobi elemo.
Tobi may your gentle soul rest in eternal peace you will be dearly missed.Our hearts ache but we'll remember you always.
Oluwatobi Elemo, God knew you were tired, and a cure was not to be, so He put His gentle hand on you and said "Come home my son" May God comfort your loving family that you left behind. Thank God for all the good testimonies read and heard about you.
Rest on dear son
Bukola Agunbiade
Rest on dear son
Bukola Agunbiade
Tobi my dear birthday mate. Although I didn’t get to meet you; but somehow I feel like I have known you all the while. Knowing your beautiful and kind hearted sister- Demilade; also means knowing you because I have heard so many lovely things about you and being my birthday mate also says a lot about your personality. Oh the heavens have gained an angel and the earth has lost a true gem. I know that you are resting and laughing in God’s bosom and praying for your family. On earth, your life may be judged as being brief, but in Christ you have gained eternal life. The brevity of our earthly life can only be understood in the longevity of our eternal life in Christ Jesus, our Lord and Saviour. We will certainly meet one day, until then; rest in Christ my dear birthday mate.
My dear brother, Oluwatobi,
It is very difficult to imagine doing life without you here. I can't put down into words the pain I feel. Despite our age gap, you were always so loving and caring towards me.
You were literally an angel on earth; I never saw or heard you get angry at anyone or say any bad words about anyone. You were always so happy. You were so caring, loving, gentle and brave. Oh so brave, you fought a good fight till the end!!! I'm proud of you my dear.
You developed a very strong persona from a young age- you weren't afraid of anything, you remained cool, calm and collected in the face of adversity; a rare quality for someone your age.
I miss you my darling. I miss your laughter, your goofiness, your very dry jokes and humour. I love being your big sister. I enjoyed taking you out and spoiling you. My world is not the same without you.
Oh Tobi, despite the very short time you had with us, the impact you made in our lives is so immense. Bibi, we had plans o. You were really looking forward to coming back home, and I was too.
I will carry you in my heart forever. I will forever remember the memories, love and time we shared. Thank you for coming into our lives and for being your awesome self.
Rest well, my 'first born'. I love you till eternity.
Olaide
It is very difficult to imagine doing life without you here. I can't put down into words the pain I feel. Despite our age gap, you were always so loving and caring towards me.
You were literally an angel on earth; I never saw or heard you get angry at anyone or say any bad words about anyone. You were always so happy. You were so caring, loving, gentle and brave. Oh so brave, you fought a good fight till the end!!! I'm proud of you my dear.
You developed a very strong persona from a young age- you weren't afraid of anything, you remained cool, calm and collected in the face of adversity; a rare quality for someone your age.
I miss you my darling. I miss your laughter, your goofiness, your very dry jokes and humour. I love being your big sister. I enjoyed taking you out and spoiling you. My world is not the same without you.
Oh Tobi, despite the very short time you had with us, the impact you made in our lives is so immense. Bibi, we had plans o. You were really looking forward to coming back home, and I was too.
I will carry you in my heart forever. I will forever remember the memories, love and time we shared. Thank you for coming into our lives and for being your awesome self.
Rest well, my 'first born'. I love you till eternity.
Olaide
Tobi, words cannot fully express the pain of your transition. You were a bright light in the family, radiating joy and respect in every interaction. You fought the good fight, and now you rest in peace with your Maker. Your love and courage will forever remain in our hearts.
Good night, aburo.
Good night, aburo.
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Elemo family at this difficult period of bereavement.
We love Tobi, but the Lord loves him more. The Lord gives and the Lord takes. Blessed be the name of the Lord.
We thank God for the gift of Tobi and the loving memories he left for us to cherish. We know that he is with the Lord now where all is perfect.
May the Lord comfort the entire family and grant Tobi's gentle soul eternal peace.
Muyiwa & Bolaji.
We love Tobi, but the Lord loves him more. The Lord gives and the Lord takes. Blessed be the name of the Lord.
We thank God for the gift of Tobi and the loving memories he left for us to cherish. We know that he is with the Lord now where all is perfect.
May the Lord comfort the entire family and grant Tobi's gentle soul eternal peace.
Muyiwa & Bolaji.
Tribute to my dearest Oluwatobi
It is with a heavy heart that I write this tribute to my dearest Tobi, a young soul so full of kindness, respect, and quiet strength, he was my son in every way that mattered. Living with him gave me the gift of truly knowing him, as a kind, respectful, and thoughtful young man. I took on the role of guiding him, nurturing him, and walking with him through life’s journey.
He was a quiet soul, never demanding, never seeking attention just always present with a heart full of warmth. I had the privilege of guiding Tobi through his college years, helping with assignments, enrollment, and anything he needed. It was in those moments, as I supported him through his education, that our bond grew stronger.
As he matured, I watched him evolve not just as a student, but as a gentleman. I became more than just his guardian; I became his confidant, his safe space. He trusted me, shared his thoughts, his dreams, and sometimes even his worries. Those moments of laughter I will cherish forever.
I will forever cherish the memories of Emmanuel teaching Tobi how to ride a bike, Efeti patiently guiding him as he learned to swim, and the joy that filled our home whenever he danced with Eddy during school breaks. Tobi’s jokes, his infectious laughter, and his light-hearted spirit brought happiness to everyone around him. Our one-on-one talks, the outings, the moments of quiet understanding, these are the memories I will hold onto forever.
Beyond the walls of home, we created memories exploring new places, sharing meals, enjoying life’s little adventures. Every outing was special with Tobi bringing his quiet joy and appreciation for the simple things.
It is still hard to believe that you are gone Tobi😭 . Losing you leaves an emptiness that words cannot fill, but I hold on to the love and the moments we shared. The pain of your absence is profound, but I take comfort in knowing that you left behind love, warmth, and joy in the hearts of those who knew you.
Tobi, you will always be a part of me. Your presence, your kindness, and the love we shared will never fade.
Rest peacefully, my dear son, my dearest Tobi. You were truly loved, and you will be deeply missed more than words can express, but your memory will forever remain in my heart 💙
Toun Koko-Egun
It is with a heavy heart that I write this tribute to my dearest Tobi, a young soul so full of kindness, respect, and quiet strength, he was my son in every way that mattered. Living with him gave me the gift of truly knowing him, as a kind, respectful, and thoughtful young man. I took on the role of guiding him, nurturing him, and walking with him through life’s journey.
He was a quiet soul, never demanding, never seeking attention just always present with a heart full of warmth. I had the privilege of guiding Tobi through his college years, helping with assignments, enrollment, and anything he needed. It was in those moments, as I supported him through his education, that our bond grew stronger.
As he matured, I watched him evolve not just as a student, but as a gentleman. I became more than just his guardian; I became his confidant, his safe space. He trusted me, shared his thoughts, his dreams, and sometimes even his worries. Those moments of laughter I will cherish forever.
I will forever cherish the memories of Emmanuel teaching Tobi how to ride a bike, Efeti patiently guiding him as he learned to swim, and the joy that filled our home whenever he danced with Eddy during school breaks. Tobi’s jokes, his infectious laughter, and his light-hearted spirit brought happiness to everyone around him. Our one-on-one talks, the outings, the moments of quiet understanding, these are the memories I will hold onto forever.
Beyond the walls of home, we created memories exploring new places, sharing meals, enjoying life’s little adventures. Every outing was special with Tobi bringing his quiet joy and appreciation for the simple things.
It is still hard to believe that you are gone Tobi😭 . Losing you leaves an emptiness that words cannot fill, but I hold on to the love and the moments we shared. The pain of your absence is profound, but I take comfort in knowing that you left behind love, warmth, and joy in the hearts of those who knew you.
Tobi, you will always be a part of me. Your presence, your kindness, and the love we shared will never fade.
Rest peacefully, my dear son, my dearest Tobi. You were truly loved, and you will be deeply missed more than words can express, but your memory will forever remain in my heart 💙
Toun Koko-Egun
Oluwatobi was a beacon of joy, laughter, and love. His radiant smile could light up the darkest room, and his kindness knew no bounds. Through his playful spirit, curious mind, and unwavering love for those around him, he brought warmth and happiness to everyone he encountered.
This is not a goodbye, Oluwatobi, but a heartfelt “until we meet again.” Rest peacefully, dear nephew. You will always be loved, always remembered, and forever missed.
This is not a goodbye, Oluwatobi, but a heartfelt “until we meet again.” Rest peacefully, dear nephew. You will always be loved, always remembered, and forever missed.
A Tribute to Oluwatobi Babajide Nkem Elemo
"To live in hearts we leave behind is not to die." — Thomas Campbell
With heavy hearts and tear-filled eyes, we honor and celebrate the beautiful life of Oluwatobi Babajide Nkem Elemo, a radiant soul taken from us too soon at just 23 years old. Though his journey was brief, his impact was profound, leaving behind a legacy of love, kindness, and inspiration.
Beloved son of my senior cousin Prof. Jide Elemo & his wife Prof. (Mrs.) Gloria Elemo, Oluwatobi was a light that shone brightly in the lives of all who knew him or even heard of him. His laughter echoed warmth, his kindness touched many, and his presence was a gift to all who had the privilege of knowing him. He faced his illness with courage and grace, never allowing hardship to dim the love he shared so freely.
"Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there; I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow..."
— Mary Elizabeth Frye
In our hearts, Oluwatobi remains alive—his laughter in the whispers of the wind, his love in the warmth of the sun, and his legacy in the memories we cherish.
As the Yoruba proverb says:
"Iku ki pa omolere, ohun ti o se laye lo fi n jere"
(“Death does not kill a good child; they are remembered for the good they did in life.”)
Though he is gone from our sight, he is never gone from our hearts. Rest well, dear son Oluwatobi, in the loving arms of the Almighty. Your light will never fade.
With love and eternal remembrance,
Your Family and Loved Ones
Engr Alexander Elemo & Family
From Australia
"To live in hearts we leave behind is not to die." — Thomas Campbell
With heavy hearts and tear-filled eyes, we honor and celebrate the beautiful life of Oluwatobi Babajide Nkem Elemo, a radiant soul taken from us too soon at just 23 years old. Though his journey was brief, his impact was profound, leaving behind a legacy of love, kindness, and inspiration.
Beloved son of my senior cousin Prof. Jide Elemo & his wife Prof. (Mrs.) Gloria Elemo, Oluwatobi was a light that shone brightly in the lives of all who knew him or even heard of him. His laughter echoed warmth, his kindness touched many, and his presence was a gift to all who had the privilege of knowing him. He faced his illness with courage and grace, never allowing hardship to dim the love he shared so freely.
"Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there; I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow..."
— Mary Elizabeth Frye
In our hearts, Oluwatobi remains alive—his laughter in the whispers of the wind, his love in the warmth of the sun, and his legacy in the memories we cherish.
As the Yoruba proverb says:
"Iku ki pa omolere, ohun ti o se laye lo fi n jere"
(“Death does not kill a good child; they are remembered for the good they did in life.”)
Though he is gone from our sight, he is never gone from our hearts. Rest well, dear son Oluwatobi, in the loving arms of the Almighty. Your light will never fade.
With love and eternal remembrance,
Your Family and Loved Ones
Engr Alexander Elemo & Family
From Australia
Tobi was such a friendly and lovely kid. I met Tobi when I was a staff member at FIIRO. His mum was the DG then.He was humble, gentle, kind and always did funny things!!!
I will forever hold pleasant memories of him.
Rest well dear, and I pray for the comfort of the Lord for his parents and siblings.
It is well.
I will forever hold pleasant memories of him.
Rest well dear, and I pray for the comfort of the Lord for his parents and siblings.
It is well.
Hummmm what a great lost but almighty God understand the most. Tobi, U leaved according to your name whistle you were on earth olwatobiloba ( You were indeed a great boy)REST IN PEACE BROTHER.
Hummmm what a great lost but almighty God understand the most. Tobi, U leaved according to your name whistle you were on earth olwatobiloba ( You were indeed a great boy)REST IN PEACE BROTHER.
I never really got the opportunity to know you, Tobi. All I have heard about you speaks volume of the person you were in your short stay on earth. The many testimonies I have heard of you and the light that I was told you shone to those that came in contact with you, are divine.
You showed up at Oluwole and Olaide's wedding, travelling the distance to be there for them - that was love for family. Such testimonies, I have heard of you.
We prayed everyday for a miracle, but who are we mere mortals to know the ways of God. We console ourselves with the hope that you are in a better place where pain and sorrow are no more.
Your deeds, which are spoken by all will never take flight in the heart of those you love and those who love you. Sweet is the memory of the just.
In the words of Patience Ross - "Earth does not hold the spirits of the brave- You died in Christ, in Him you will live again".
You will be sorely missed. Rest on soldier as you join the saints triumphant until we all meet to part no more in Christ Jesus. We love you but God loves you best.
Eternal Rest.
You showed up at Oluwole and Olaide's wedding, travelling the distance to be there for them - that was love for family. Such testimonies, I have heard of you.
We prayed everyday for a miracle, but who are we mere mortals to know the ways of God. We console ourselves with the hope that you are in a better place where pain and sorrow are no more.
Your deeds, which are spoken by all will never take flight in the heart of those you love and those who love you. Sweet is the memory of the just.
In the words of Patience Ross - "Earth does not hold the spirits of the brave- You died in Christ, in Him you will live again".
You will be sorely missed. Rest on soldier as you join the saints triumphant until we all meet to part no more in Christ Jesus. We love you but God loves you best.
Eternal Rest.
Tobi,
you came, you saw, and you conquered. Your brief stay with us here on earth touched many lives in a somewhat "casual" way. How tragic to know that the "value of a thing is not appreciated until we lose it"; yet we fail to appreciate those whom God brings our way, thus allowing this saying to come true always.
You looked out for Adeoluwa when he was your junior at King's College. Although quiet, you were not shy to share your dreams and aspirations. May your memory continue to inspire hope and strength, and may the loved ones you left behind continue to receive the comfort that only the Holy Spirit can give.
Till we meet at Jesus's feet, good night, Tobi Elemo.
you came, you saw, and you conquered. Your brief stay with us here on earth touched many lives in a somewhat "casual" way. How tragic to know that the "value of a thing is not appreciated until we lose it"; yet we fail to appreciate those whom God brings our way, thus allowing this saying to come true always.
You looked out for Adeoluwa when he was your junior at King's College. Although quiet, you were not shy to share your dreams and aspirations. May your memory continue to inspire hope and strength, and may the loved ones you left behind continue to receive the comfort that only the Holy Spirit can give.
Till we meet at Jesus's feet, good night, Tobi Elemo.
Tobi Elemo
The light you have shined in the lives of everyone you come across shall never go deem. Your unique qualities, impactful actions, and the positive memories you left behind shall be celebrated with the joy you brought to others.
And so we thank God for you Tobi for being a gift light to everyone you come in contact with. May your memories be a source of strength and love, and may your spirit find peace Adieu. 😇
The light you have shined in the lives of everyone you come across shall never go deem. Your unique qualities, impactful actions, and the positive memories you left behind shall be celebrated with the joy you brought to others.
And so we thank God for you Tobi for being a gift light to everyone you come in contact with. May your memories be a source of strength and love, and may your spirit find peace Adieu. 😇
A RARE GEM IS LOST!
On behalf of Kabiyesi Alaiyeluwa, His Imperial Majesty, Oba Dr Francis Adefarakanmi Agbede OFR, Ogidi III, the Olowa of Igbara Oke, the Executive Members of the Igbara Oke Development Council we identify with Professor Jide Elemo and Professor Gloria Elemo including close members of the family on the departure of Oluwatobi Babajide Nkem Elemo who slept in the Lord on 21 February 2025.
From testimonies on Tobi, he was an extraordinary person who left an indelible mark on the lives of everyone he touched. Obviously, his remarkable achievements, kindness and generosity inspired countless people. He lived an exemplary life and his memories will continue to be a blessing to all who knew him.
A cursory look at the antecedents of the parents, Prof Jide Elemo and Professor Gloria Elemo especially on the plethora of meaningful contributions to the development of the land and people of Igbara Oke is a pointer to the fact that the community lost a rare gem in Tobi Elemo who could have impacted more positively on Igbara Oke where the passion of his parents lie, knowing fully well that the harvest is always greater than the seed.
We love him but God loves him more.
May his soul rest in peace.
Signed
Bode Famose
IDC General Secretary
Signed
Mrs Rachel Odewunmi
IDC PRO
Signed,
Pastor Mrs Yinka Odedele,
IDC Treasurer
Signed
Mr Sola Ogunturin,
IDC Assistant General Secretary
Signed,
Engr Abiodun Ogunsakin
IDC Vice Chairman
Signed,
Chief Goke Olagbaiye
IDC Chairman
On behalf of Kabiyesi Alaiyeluwa, His Imperial Majesty, Oba Dr Francis Adefarakanmi Agbede OFR, Ogidi III, the Olowa of Igbara Oke, the Executive Members of the Igbara Oke Development Council we identify with Professor Jide Elemo and Professor Gloria Elemo including close members of the family on the departure of Oluwatobi Babajide Nkem Elemo who slept in the Lord on 21 February 2025.
From testimonies on Tobi, he was an extraordinary person who left an indelible mark on the lives of everyone he touched. Obviously, his remarkable achievements, kindness and generosity inspired countless people. He lived an exemplary life and his memories will continue to be a blessing to all who knew him.
A cursory look at the antecedents of the parents, Prof Jide Elemo and Professor Gloria Elemo especially on the plethora of meaningful contributions to the development of the land and people of Igbara Oke is a pointer to the fact that the community lost a rare gem in Tobi Elemo who could have impacted more positively on Igbara Oke where the passion of his parents lie, knowing fully well that the harvest is always greater than the seed.
We love him but God loves him more.
May his soul rest in peace.
Signed
Bode Famose
IDC General Secretary
Signed
Mrs Rachel Odewunmi
IDC PRO
Signed,
Pastor Mrs Yinka Odedele,
IDC Treasurer
Signed
Mr Sola Ogunturin,
IDC Assistant General Secretary
Signed,
Engr Abiodun Ogunsakin
IDC Vice Chairman
Signed,
Chief Goke Olagbaiye
IDC Chairman
My heart breaks for you uncle, aunty, the entire family and friends, during this unbearable loss. May Tobi’s memory be a blessing, and may you find strength in each other. Please know that you're not alone in this grief sir, you’re in our prayers and thoughts. May the love and support of family, friends, and community envelop you during this difficult time. And, may his gentle soul rest in peace.😥😥😥😥🙏🏽🙏🏽.
May your soul rest in perfect peace my dear brother. May the Holy Spirit comfort the entire family. Amen.
A Tribute to OLUWATOBILOBA BABAJIDE NKEM ELEMO (06 February 2002 - 26 February 2025)
We are deeply saddened by the loss of your beloved son, Oluwatobiloba Babajide Nkem ELEMO, the beloved son of our dear colleague, Distinguished Prof. Babajide O. ELEMO, formerly of the Department of Biochemistry, Lagos State University. Though words can never truly ease the pain of such a profound loss, we want to express our heartfelt sympathy and support.
Tobi as fondly called was always full of life, always exploratory and eager to break boundaries. Indeed, he was a great personality to be with. His presence brought light and love to those around him, and his memory will forever remain in the hearts of those who knew him.
To Distinguished Prof. Babajide O. ELEMO and the family, please know that the LASU Management, staff and students stand with you in this difficult time. May you find strength in the love of those around you and comfort in the cherished memories you hold.
With deepest sympathy,
Prof. Adejuwon ADENEYE,
Director, Lagos State University Directorate of Research Management & Innovation,
Office of the Vice Chancellor, Lagos State University
We are deeply saddened by the loss of your beloved son, Oluwatobiloba Babajide Nkem ELEMO, the beloved son of our dear colleague, Distinguished Prof. Babajide O. ELEMO, formerly of the Department of Biochemistry, Lagos State University. Though words can never truly ease the pain of such a profound loss, we want to express our heartfelt sympathy and support.
Tobi as fondly called was always full of life, always exploratory and eager to break boundaries. Indeed, he was a great personality to be with. His presence brought light and love to those around him, and his memory will forever remain in the hearts of those who knew him.
To Distinguished Prof. Babajide O. ELEMO and the family, please know that the LASU Management, staff and students stand with you in this difficult time. May you find strength in the love of those around you and comfort in the cherished memories you hold.
With deepest sympathy,
Prof. Adejuwon ADENEYE,
Director, Lagos State University Directorate of Research Management & Innovation,
Office of the Vice Chancellor, Lagos State University
My Tribute to Tobi Elemo.
My dearTobi Elemo, it is really sad writing this at this period. Your death announcement came to me as a rude shock infact l couldn't get myself for hrs, l kept asking myself what could have gone wrong with no answer.
Tobi, l joined others to celebrate the life you lived though very short, just passing by like an Angel. Why Tobi? I may not have known you but the memories shared by your family is enough indication that you lived an impactful life and you're loved by those around you and the kind of love and affection you brought to your family and people around you in this short time will forever be remembered and cherished.
Being the only Man amongst many Ladies and being the last Born made you special in all aspect and feeling their life with joy and affection to the fullest. Though our paths never crossed, l was thinking that one day l will see you as a Groom and celebrate you not knowing you will be gone too soon.
You may not be with us but your memories will linger in the heart of your loved ones and those that knows you.
Rest in peace dear Tobi. Surely, l know you will be missed by all. Your values and memories will forever be remembered and cherished.
I want to use this medium to console Prof and the entire family. God in His infinite mercy will comfort the entire family and loved ones left behind 😭😭😭😂
May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace.
Rest on dear Son.
My dearTobi Elemo, it is really sad writing this at this period. Your death announcement came to me as a rude shock infact l couldn't get myself for hrs, l kept asking myself what could have gone wrong with no answer.
Tobi, l joined others to celebrate the life you lived though very short, just passing by like an Angel. Why Tobi? I may not have known you but the memories shared by your family is enough indication that you lived an impactful life and you're loved by those around you and the kind of love and affection you brought to your family and people around you in this short time will forever be remembered and cherished.
Being the only Man amongst many Ladies and being the last Born made you special in all aspect and feeling their life with joy and affection to the fullest. Though our paths never crossed, l was thinking that one day l will see you as a Groom and celebrate you not knowing you will be gone too soon.
You may not be with us but your memories will linger in the heart of your loved ones and those that knows you.
Rest in peace dear Tobi. Surely, l know you will be missed by all. Your values and memories will forever be remembered and cherished.
I want to use this medium to console Prof and the entire family. God in His infinite mercy will comfort the entire family and loved ones left behind 😭😭😭😂
May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace.
Rest on dear Son.
After reading through Tobi's life touching and soul emancipating biography, I was deeply moved and challenged to emulate the enviable appraisals of his personality, though I never really had any personal relationship with him in his life time.
We sincerely condole with the wonderful family of Prof. Elemo, and pray that God Almighty will comfort them in these terrible times.
We are comforted in the faith that the righteous will abide in the bossom of the Almighty, and though he's no more physically with us, the gift of eternal life in Christ is his portion.
Adieu Tobi!
Until we meet to part no more in eternity!
We sincerely condole with the wonderful family of Prof. Elemo, and pray that God Almighty will comfort them in these terrible times.
We are comforted in the faith that the righteous will abide in the bossom of the Almighty, and though he's no more physically with us, the gift of eternal life in Christ is his portion.
Adieu Tobi!
Until we meet to part no more in eternity!
Our hearts are heavy with sorrow as we mourn the passing of Tobi Elemo Nkem. There are no words that can fully ease the pain of such a profound loss, but we pray that God’s comfort and strength surround you—Prof. Babajide Elemo, Prof. Gloria Elemo, and dear Olide, Demi, and Tolu—during this difficult time.
That memory speaks to how deeply connected you are to Tobi and his family. From the joy of his birth in Satellite Town to the bright young man he became, his journey was one filled with love, promise, and the warmth of family.
Tobi was a young man full of promise, intelligence, and kindness, a reflection of the love and values instilled in him by his family. Though his time here was far too short, he lived with grace, leaving behind beautiful memories that will never fade.
To the Elemo"s family ,may you all find solace in the love and support of those around you, and may the cherished moments with Tobi bring you strength AMEN
That memory speaks to how deeply connected you are to Tobi and his family. From the joy of his birth in Satellite Town to the bright young man he became, his journey was one filled with love, promise, and the warmth of family.
Tobi was a young man full of promise, intelligence, and kindness, a reflection of the love and values instilled in him by his family. Though his time here was far too short, he lived with grace, leaving behind beautiful memories that will never fade.
To the Elemo"s family ,may you all find solace in the love and support of those around you, and may the cherished moments with Tobi bring you strength AMEN
Our hearts are heavy with sorrow as we mourn the passing of Tobi Elemo Nkem. There are no words that can fully ease the pain of such a profound loss, but we pray that God’s comfort and strength surround you—Prof. Babajide Elemo, Prof. Gloria Elemo, and dear Olide, Demi, and Tolu—during this difficult time.
That memory speaks to how deeply connected you are to Tobi and his family. From the joy of his birth in Satellite Town to the bright young man he became, his journey was one filled with love, promise, and the warmth of family.
Tobi was a young man full of promise, intelligence, and kindness, a reflection of the love and values instilled in him by his family. Though his time here was far too short, he lived with grace, leaving behind beautiful memories that will never fade.
To the Elemo"s family ,may you all find solace in the love and support of those around you, and may the cherished moments with Tobi bring you strength AMEN
That memory speaks to how deeply connected you are to Tobi and his family. From the joy of his birth in Satellite Town to the bright young man he became, his journey was one filled with love, promise, and the warmth of family.
Tobi was a young man full of promise, intelligence, and kindness, a reflection of the love and values instilled in him by his family. Though his time here was far too short, he lived with grace, leaving behind beautiful memories that will never fade.
To the Elemo"s family ,may you all find solace in the love and support of those around you, and may the cherished moments with Tobi bring you strength AMEN
I heard about you long before I met you eventually, my Mom would come home to talk about an intelligent 9-year-old boy who had conversations with her like an adult, asked intelligent questions and probed things she thought was the norm till you questioned them.
It was not a shock to see you go on to perform excellently well in your academics and scale heights of success. You became my brother when Daddy and Mommy became my parents, and you will always be. You've left temporarily, but one day, in the resurrection, we would join together in the family song and we would never be broken again. Till then, You will live on in my memory. Till we meet, Tobi.
It was not a shock to see you go on to perform excellently well in your academics and scale heights of success. You became my brother when Daddy and Mommy became my parents, and you will always be. You've left temporarily, but one day, in the resurrection, we would join together in the family song and we would never be broken again. Till then, You will live on in my memory. Till we meet, Tobi.
Dear Tobi,
You are a comet, gone too soon. From the first day I saw you at the wedding, your aura, demeanor, humility and candor, made me happy and proud to have you, as my brother. It is unfortunate that I could not have the pleasure of getting to know you better, as God in His infinite wisdom, has decided that you should join the heavenly saints. However, the heartwarming and memorable stories about the indelible mark that you have made on the family and people around you, makes me happy that you lived an eventful and fulfilling life.
While we all wish that you could have stayed longer, we are grateful to God for blessing us with the presence of one of His angels, because that is who you are – an angel. Thank you for choosing us as your earthly family. May you rest well in the bosom of our good Lord, till that day, when we shall meet to part no more.
Sleep well, Tobi.
You are a comet, gone too soon. From the first day I saw you at the wedding, your aura, demeanor, humility and candor, made me happy and proud to have you, as my brother. It is unfortunate that I could not have the pleasure of getting to know you better, as God in His infinite wisdom, has decided that you should join the heavenly saints. However, the heartwarming and memorable stories about the indelible mark that you have made on the family and people around you, makes me happy that you lived an eventful and fulfilling life.
While we all wish that you could have stayed longer, we are grateful to God for blessing us with the presence of one of His angels, because that is who you are – an angel. Thank you for choosing us as your earthly family. May you rest well in the bosom of our good Lord, till that day, when we shall meet to part no more.
Sleep well, Tobi.
A Tribute to Tobi
Tobi, it’s so hard to believe this is real. It still doesn’t feel real.
I remember when we were kids, you would always count down four years just to see us in Nigeria—Emmanuel, Edmund, and I. Four years felt so long, but your excitement never faded. You would talk about it all the time, waiting for the day we’d all be together again. And when we finally were, it was nothing but laughter, chaos, and joy. We were just kids, running around, being goofy, doing the most ridiculous things. Those memories are etched into my heart forever.
And then, you came to stay with us. That was the moment I gained more than a cousin—I gained a brother. You fit into our home so naturally, like you had always been there. Your energy filled every room, and your laughter was the kind that made everything feel lighter.
You were part of so many of my happiest memories. When I first started making videos, you were right there, always ready to be a part of them. You brought your goofy personality, your jokes, your unshakable confidence. You pushed me to keep going, even when I wasn’t sure of myself. You made the process fun. You made everything fun. And I don’t know if I ever told you just how much that meant to me.
I think about the times we spent in the kitchen—me trying to make something crazy, you always down to try it, no hesitation. Or the times we just sat around, cracking jokes, you telling those dad jokes of yours that weren’t even funny, but somehow, you always made them funny.
I remember your birthday, when we went to that buffet and I got one of your favorite artists to show up. The way your face lit up—it’s something I’ll never forget. You were so happy, and in that moment, nothing else mattered. I just remember thinking, “This is what it’s all about.” Seeing you happy, seeing you enjoying life.
And Six Flags. I can’t think about you without thinking about Six Flags. It was your favorite place, and every time we went, it felt like we were kids again. I remember telling you that when you got out of the hospital, we were going again. I promised. And I wanted so badly to keep that promise.
The day I got the call about you, I pulled over and just broke down. I cried, and I kept thinking, “This isn’t fair. This can’t be happening.” But then I thought about you—how you always had a way of calming me down, how you always knew what to say when I was upset. And I held onto that.
I still have the last pictures we took together in the hospital. You were smiling, even then. I never thought that would be our last conversation, our last moment together. I wish I had more time. I wish I had one more laugh, one more inside joke, one more chance to tell you how much I love you.
Tobi, you taught me so much—about patience, about love, about what it truly means to be present. You were always there. And now, even in your absence, you’re still here. In my heart, in my memories, in the stories I will tell about you for the rest of my life.
I miss you more than words can ever say. I love you beyond measure. And until we meet again, I will carry you with me, always.
Rest peacefully, my brother.
Tobi, it’s so hard to believe this is real. It still doesn’t feel real.
I remember when we were kids, you would always count down four years just to see us in Nigeria—Emmanuel, Edmund, and I. Four years felt so long, but your excitement never faded. You would talk about it all the time, waiting for the day we’d all be together again. And when we finally were, it was nothing but laughter, chaos, and joy. We were just kids, running around, being goofy, doing the most ridiculous things. Those memories are etched into my heart forever.
And then, you came to stay with us. That was the moment I gained more than a cousin—I gained a brother. You fit into our home so naturally, like you had always been there. Your energy filled every room, and your laughter was the kind that made everything feel lighter.
You were part of so many of my happiest memories. When I first started making videos, you were right there, always ready to be a part of them. You brought your goofy personality, your jokes, your unshakable confidence. You pushed me to keep going, even when I wasn’t sure of myself. You made the process fun. You made everything fun. And I don’t know if I ever told you just how much that meant to me.
I think about the times we spent in the kitchen—me trying to make something crazy, you always down to try it, no hesitation. Or the times we just sat around, cracking jokes, you telling those dad jokes of yours that weren’t even funny, but somehow, you always made them funny.
I remember your birthday, when we went to that buffet and I got one of your favorite artists to show up. The way your face lit up—it’s something I’ll never forget. You were so happy, and in that moment, nothing else mattered. I just remember thinking, “This is what it’s all about.” Seeing you happy, seeing you enjoying life.
And Six Flags. I can’t think about you without thinking about Six Flags. It was your favorite place, and every time we went, it felt like we were kids again. I remember telling you that when you got out of the hospital, we were going again. I promised. And I wanted so badly to keep that promise.
The day I got the call about you, I pulled over and just broke down. I cried, and I kept thinking, “This isn’t fair. This can’t be happening.” But then I thought about you—how you always had a way of calming me down, how you always knew what to say when I was upset. And I held onto that.
I still have the last pictures we took together in the hospital. You were smiling, even then. I never thought that would be our last conversation, our last moment together. I wish I had more time. I wish I had one more laugh, one more inside joke, one more chance to tell you how much I love you.
Tobi, you taught me so much—about patience, about love, about what it truly means to be present. You were always there. And now, even in your absence, you’re still here. In my heart, in my memories, in the stories I will tell about you for the rest of my life.
I miss you more than words can ever say. I love you beyond measure. And until we meet again, I will carry you with me, always.
Rest peacefully, my brother.
Tobi, I didn’t get to know you as long as I thought I would—but believe it or not, I knew you before I even met you.
I first got to know Tobi through a camera and a laptop. His cousin, Lanre, would edit his videos for his YouTube channel, and during one of his most recent trips to Nigeria, I got a glimpse of this young Karate Kid in action. I saw a fearless warrior, a kid who could take down anyone in the neighborhood with his sharp wax on, wax off skills—his precision was like a perfect kata, his energy like a spinning tornado kick. But what truly made him stand out was the way he said it: KA-RA-TAAA!—with a passion that let you know he meant business. Every hiya, every kick, every strike—Tobi needed to shine, and he did.
When I finally met Tobi in person, the little boy from those videos had grown into a teenager. And our very first conversation? It wasn’t about life, school, or how he was adjusting to the U.S.—it was about the Flat Earth theory.
"Miss Tia, I have a question for you. Now, do you think the world is round or flat?"
I had no idea how to answer that. But before I even had the chance, Tobi was already pulling out notes, ready to present his case. He had research, theories, and a passion for debate. He made such a compelling argument that for a second, I almost believed him—until somehow, he talked himself out of it.
That was Tobi. Deep thinker. Sharp mind. Always keeping you on your toes with conversations you couldn’t prepare for.
And if he wasn’t challenging your thoughts, he was making you laugh. His jokes? They would hit you so hard, your face would scrunch up like you just ate something sour. Pure comedy gold.
Here’s a classic Tobi joke:
"What do you call water that’s always there?…… OMI NI PESENT!"
Tobi, keep the jokes coming. I know you’ve got some new ones lined up, and I can’t wait to hear them all one day.
We miss you. We love you. And we will always remember you.
Rest easy, Karate Kid. 🕊️💙
I first got to know Tobi through a camera and a laptop. His cousin, Lanre, would edit his videos for his YouTube channel, and during one of his most recent trips to Nigeria, I got a glimpse of this young Karate Kid in action. I saw a fearless warrior, a kid who could take down anyone in the neighborhood with his sharp wax on, wax off skills—his precision was like a perfect kata, his energy like a spinning tornado kick. But what truly made him stand out was the way he said it: KA-RA-TAAA!—with a passion that let you know he meant business. Every hiya, every kick, every strike—Tobi needed to shine, and he did.
When I finally met Tobi in person, the little boy from those videos had grown into a teenager. And our very first conversation? It wasn’t about life, school, or how he was adjusting to the U.S.—it was about the Flat Earth theory.
"Miss Tia, I have a question for you. Now, do you think the world is round or flat?"
I had no idea how to answer that. But before I even had the chance, Tobi was already pulling out notes, ready to present his case. He had research, theories, and a passion for debate. He made such a compelling argument that for a second, I almost believed him—until somehow, he talked himself out of it.
That was Tobi. Deep thinker. Sharp mind. Always keeping you on your toes with conversations you couldn’t prepare for.
And if he wasn’t challenging your thoughts, he was making you laugh. His jokes? They would hit you so hard, your face would scrunch up like you just ate something sour. Pure comedy gold.
Here’s a classic Tobi joke:
"What do you call water that’s always there?…… OMI NI PESENT!"
Tobi, keep the jokes coming. I know you’ve got some new ones lined up, and I can’t wait to hear them all one day.
We miss you. We love you. And we will always remember you.
Rest easy, Karate Kid. 🕊️💙
Today, I celebrate the life of Tobi Elemo. While I may not have had the chance to know him deeply, I feel the profound impact he had on those around him through the memories shared by family (Tolulope)
From the stories I’ve heard, it’s clear that Tobi had a vibrant spirit and a kind heart. He brought joy to his loved ones, and even in his short time, he left a mark that will not be forgotten.
Though our paths didn’t cross often, I can see how deeply he is missed by those who loved him most.
As we remember Tobi, let us carry forward the joy he brought into the world and strive to honor his memory by spreading kindness and love in our own lives. He may be gone, but his spirit will live on in the hearts of those who knew and loved him.
Rest in peace, dear Tobi, you will be missed.
From the stories I’ve heard, it’s clear that Tobi had a vibrant spirit and a kind heart. He brought joy to his loved ones, and even in his short time, he left a mark that will not be forgotten.
Though our paths didn’t cross often, I can see how deeply he is missed by those who loved him most.
As we remember Tobi, let us carry forward the joy he brought into the world and strive to honor his memory by spreading kindness and love in our own lives. He may be gone, but his spirit will live on in the hearts of those who knew and loved him.
Rest in peace, dear Tobi, you will be missed.
A Tribute to a gentle Soul
This is so difficult to write. I am heartbroken.
TOBI, a young man whose kindness,warmth and quiet grace touched every life he encountered. Soft spoken yet full of love,with a heart of gold, always calm and friendly. His impact was profound and his memory will forever remain in our hearts
Rest in the bosom of God our Heavenly Father, Tobi💔
May everyone that knew you find solace in the beautiful memories you left behind and the assurance that you now rest in eternal peace. Amen.
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This is so difficult to write. I am heartbroken.
TOBI, a young man whose kindness,warmth and quiet grace touched every life he encountered. Soft spoken yet full of love,with a heart of gold, always calm and friendly. His impact was profound and his memory will forever remain in our hearts
Rest in the bosom of God our Heavenly Father, Tobi💔
May everyone that knew you find solace in the beautiful memories you left behind and the assurance that you now rest in eternal peace. Amen.
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May your soul rest peacefully. May the Lord continue to comfort the family. My condolences.
I never thought it would come to this and not this soon. It still took me by surprise when I heard you were in the hospital in the first place. I want to start off by saying that I’m glad the you’re no longer in pain or fighting to hold on. You were one of a kind and always had a joke to tell😂. We learned karate and swimming together and you were like the little brother I never had🥹. I remember how we were little farmers in grandpa’s backyard and how the dogs would chase us😂☠️😭. Sorry for not protecting you from them, me sef Dey fear😂😭❤️. You were always happy and had many dreams like becoming a pilot and learning to drive. I was supposed to teach you after I dropped you off at your job once. I know that you would have accomplished much more because you were coming out of your shell and expressing yourself more through art and new hobbies. I hope you get to live out your fullest dreams now with no pressure, no doubt , no judgment and pure happiness. Your time in our lives will always be meaningful. I pray for your family in this hard time and pray you rest in paradise 🙏🏿
Though in times like this words fail me, I will never forget the love and acceptability you showed me when I became a part of the family, gentle to a fault you accommodated everyone without discrimination. You showed strength, fought the battle as a warrior but God Almighty knows best and will give us the fortitude to bear your loss. You are loved and your memories shall live with us forever, May Your Soul Rest in Perfect Peace.
However I am broken and grieving still, I must write to honor your memory. To remind and let everyone out there know that it is possible to have a pure soul. Tobi was one. I absolutely have no doubt he is making the angels laugh, and for that they will ease our pain. They will ease the pain of the Elemos. Your legacy was that of kindness, thoughtfulness, courage and cheerfulness. You were the little brother I never had. I cried like a baby irrespective of the circumstances surrounding your death from the time it put you down, because you fought. I thought there would be a miracle, i hoped for it everyday. My young gooner who discussed everything arsenal with me like a true fan. I will miss you every single day.
The last time i saw you was on my wedding day, and you made jokes by my side taking pictures while i looked stressed, you straightened me up. Just as you do whenever you’re in my office and im working seriously you know the right words to say to get the gist going. Now the heavens will enjoy your time and i only want them to ease the pain of mummy, daddy and your sisters. I love you always bibi. You’ll always live through me.
The last time i saw you was on my wedding day, and you made jokes by my side taking pictures while i looked stressed, you straightened me up. Just as you do whenever you’re in my office and im working seriously you know the right words to say to get the gist going. Now the heavens will enjoy your time and i only want them to ease the pain of mummy, daddy and your sisters. I love you always bibi. You’ll always live through me.
In Loving Memory of Master Tobi Elemo.
Today, we gather with heavy hearts to honor the life of Tobi, a young man whose unwavering dedication to our Sunday School during the period, he was with us has left an indelible mark on all of us.
From a tender age, Tobi has exhibited a profound love for the teachings of Christ. His consistent attendance and active participation were a testament to his deep-rooted faith and commitment to spiritual growth.
Beyond his personal devotion, Tobi’s presence was a beacon of inspiration to his peers. He often volunteered to lead discussions, assist in ensuring quiet atmosphere for teaching.
His genuine kindness, always participate fully in lessons, made him known to all.
As we reflect on his life, we are reminded of the scripture: “Let no one despise your youth, but be an example to the believers in word, in conduct, in love, in spirit, in faith, in purity.” (1 Timothy 4:12). Tobi lived this verse daily, setting an example for all of us, young and old.
Though his time on earth was brief, the impact of Tobi’s life is immeasurable. We find solace in knowing that he now rests in the arms of our Lord, free from worldly pains and sorrows.
From
Mrs Ebele Okpala
Sunday School Teacher
AVMCC. Ikeja
Lagos
Today, we gather with heavy hearts to honor the life of Tobi, a young man whose unwavering dedication to our Sunday School during the period, he was with us has left an indelible mark on all of us.
From a tender age, Tobi has exhibited a profound love for the teachings of Christ. His consistent attendance and active participation were a testament to his deep-rooted faith and commitment to spiritual growth.
Beyond his personal devotion, Tobi’s presence was a beacon of inspiration to his peers. He often volunteered to lead discussions, assist in ensuring quiet atmosphere for teaching.
His genuine kindness, always participate fully in lessons, made him known to all.
As we reflect on his life, we are reminded of the scripture: “Let no one despise your youth, but be an example to the believers in word, in conduct, in love, in spirit, in faith, in purity.” (1 Timothy 4:12). Tobi lived this verse daily, setting an example for all of us, young and old.
Though his time on earth was brief, the impact of Tobi’s life is immeasurable. We find solace in knowing that he now rests in the arms of our Lord, free from worldly pains and sorrows.
From
Mrs Ebele Okpala
Sunday School Teacher
AVMCC. Ikeja
Lagos
I honestly still can’t believe that you’re gone, I look back and I remember the first time we met outside our class in KC like it was yesterday. The moment I saw you I knew you were different, you were special, I didn’t know how much of an influence you’d have on my life from that moment on wards but I continue to thank God for letting me meet you that day.
You always found a way to put a positive spin on things always smiling, always happy. I don’t feel like all these things I have said can do enough justice to how much of a good person you were, You went from being a best friend to family. I know you’re in a better place now and you’ll finally be at peace
You always found a way to put a positive spin on things always smiling, always happy. I don’t feel like all these things I have said can do enough justice to how much of a good person you were, You went from being a best friend to family. I know you’re in a better place now and you’ll finally be at peace
Our dear 'Tobi had been known to me as a toddler, when he visited the work place(FIIRO) with his Mum. Then, he came across as a very lively, respectful and lovely child.
I was privileged many years later, to see him at the Archbishop Vining Memorial Church Cathedral Sunday School. Among other Teachers, I had the opportunity to teach him in the Teen Class in his passing-out year. Then, he was as active as when he was a toddler, ever willing to learn and contributed well, especially to tasks assigned to this Group. He led very effectively at his turn, and cooperated very well with others.
Above all, I found him very inquisitive, wanted genuine answers to his many questions about God, the Kingdom and life in general. He kept seeking answers that would allay his fears or misunderstanding about anything. Unlikely many in his generation, he endeavored to put into practise whatever he was taught.
Oluwatobi will be sorely missed, as we Teachers always look forward to meeting our children in the future. We are, however, consoled in the fact that we shall see him again on the other side of eternity, where we will all meet and live with Christ forever.
Our condolences to the entire family - Dad, Mum and siblings of our dear 'Tobi. Shalom!
I was privileged many years later, to see him at the Archbishop Vining Memorial Church Cathedral Sunday School. Among other Teachers, I had the opportunity to teach him in the Teen Class in his passing-out year. Then, he was as active as when he was a toddler, ever willing to learn and contributed well, especially to tasks assigned to this Group. He led very effectively at his turn, and cooperated very well with others.
Above all, I found him very inquisitive, wanted genuine answers to his many questions about God, the Kingdom and life in general. He kept seeking answers that would allay his fears or misunderstanding about anything. Unlikely many in his generation, he endeavored to put into practise whatever he was taught.
Oluwatobi will be sorely missed, as we Teachers always look forward to meeting our children in the future. We are, however, consoled in the fact that we shall see him again on the other side of eternity, where we will all meet and live with Christ forever.
Our condolences to the entire family - Dad, Mum and siblings of our dear 'Tobi. Shalom!
Our dear Tobi had been known to me since he was a toddler, when he visited the work place with his Mum at FIIRO. Then, he came across as a very lively and respectful lovely child.
Later on in life, I was privileged to have been his Sunday School Teacher at the Archbishop Vining Memorial Church Cathedral. We interacted particularly when I taught his Teen class. He was very active, ever eager to learn and contribute, especially to the tasks assigned to his Group. He led very effectively and was a good listener.
Above all, I found 'Tobi to be very inquisitive, wanted genuine answers to all the questions he asked about God, the Kingdom and many aspects of life in in general.
Later on in life, I was privileged to have been his Sunday School Teacher at the Archbishop Vining Memorial Church Cathedral. We interacted particularly when I taught his Teen class. He was very active, ever eager to learn and contribute, especially to the tasks assigned to his Group. He led very effectively and was a good listener.
Above all, I found 'Tobi to be very inquisitive, wanted genuine answers to all the questions he asked about God, the Kingdom and many aspects of life in in general.
Words have eluded me for some time now, Hummmm!
T for Tobi, my gentleman of the house as I fondly called you, my S/Bucks master barister. You wanted to make me a custom beverage!but plans have changed!
I finally came to a realization this week of "bi oluwa ti fe ni yi"(this is how God wants it) Prayer altars all over the world but God wanted you to rest after you fought valiantly for so long.
I submit to the sovereign will of God Almighty and I am comforted that you knew that you are so!so! precious to us all, loved so very deeply, and forever in our hearts.
May God touch our broken hearts - Psalm 147:3.
Rest on my beloved Tobi, until the resurrection, as to be absent from the body is be present with the lord.2 Corinthians 5:8.
T for Tobi, my gentleman of the house as I fondly called you, my S/Bucks master barister. You wanted to make me a custom beverage!but plans have changed!
I finally came to a realization this week of "bi oluwa ti fe ni yi"(this is how God wants it) Prayer altars all over the world but God wanted you to rest after you fought valiantly for so long.
I submit to the sovereign will of God Almighty and I am comforted that you knew that you are so!so! precious to us all, loved so very deeply, and forever in our hearts.
May God touch our broken hearts - Psalm 147:3.
Rest on my beloved Tobi, until the resurrection, as to be absent from the body is be present with the lord.2 Corinthians 5:8.
Tobi was more than just my cousin — he was my little brother and a part of my heart. From the time we lived together when he was young, he brought so much light, laughter, and energy into my life. His spirit was infectious and his presence a gift that I will forever cherish.
Tobi had a way of making even the simplest moments special. His laughter could brighten the darkest days, and his warmth made everyone around him feel loved. He was full of dreams, determination, and a heart that cared deeply for those he held dear.
Though his time with us feels far too short, the impact he made will never fade. His memory lives on in the stories we share, the love we continue to hold, and the many lives he touched along the way.
Tobi, you will always be missed, but you will never be forgotten. Rest peacefully, dear cousin. Your legacy of love and joy will remain with us forever.
PS: Mum knows your bank balance will now be going to your foundation 😏
Tobi had a way of making even the simplest moments special. His laughter could brighten the darkest days, and his warmth made everyone around him feel loved. He was full of dreams, determination, and a heart that cared deeply for those he held dear.
Though his time with us feels far too short, the impact he made will never fade. His memory lives on in the stories we share, the love we continue to hold, and the many lives he touched along the way.
Tobi, you will always be missed, but you will never be forgotten. Rest peacefully, dear cousin. Your legacy of love and joy will remain with us forever.
PS: Mum knows your bank balance will now be going to your foundation 😏
A Tribute to My Dear Friend, Tobi
Tobi, my friend from JSS1, was one of those people whose smile could light up a whole room. From the very first day we met, I could feel his energy and warmth. He was always the life of the group, bringing joy and laughter wherever he went. One of my favorite memories that always makes me smile is the day when Tobi, Abdulraman, and I finished a whole cake in the JSS3G lecture hall. We laughed so hard, unaware of the consequences that would follow—running to the toilet the next day because we’d overdone it. We still laugh about it, even now.
Tobi was more than just a friend; he was family. I remember when he went home for mid-term break, and while most of us would be away from our families, he would bring back little things for me, knowing I couldn’t go home because I was based in Bauchi. It was in these small acts of kindness that Tobi truly showed how caring and thoughtful he was. And on visiting days, when he saw I didn't have anyone to visit me, he would proudly introduce me to "Mommy," telling her that I didn’t have family around and asking her to look after me. She’d always give me pocket money and food, but Tobi, with that characteristic heart of his, would always check if it was enough and make sure I had more if needed. He never wanted anything to hurt me or any of his friends, always going the extra mile to make sure we were okay.
We had our fair share of arguments, especially when it came to football—he was always the Arsenal fan, while I could never understand his loyalty to them. But even in those debates, Tobi's passion and determination were evident, and they only made our friendship stronger. We talked about everything under the sun, from the silliest things to the most serious, and when Tobi needed advice, he would turn to me, always trusting my thoughts and opinions.
Tobi, you were more than a friend to me. You were a brother, a protector, and a source of constant positivity. Your energy, laughter, and caring nature are memories I will hold close forever. I’m so grateful to have had you in my life, and I know I will carry you in my heart for the rest of mine.
Rest in peace, my dear friend. You will never be forgotten.❤️🕊️
Tobi, my friend from JSS1, was one of those people whose smile could light up a whole room. From the very first day we met, I could feel his energy and warmth. He was always the life of the group, bringing joy and laughter wherever he went. One of my favorite memories that always makes me smile is the day when Tobi, Abdulraman, and I finished a whole cake in the JSS3G lecture hall. We laughed so hard, unaware of the consequences that would follow—running to the toilet the next day because we’d overdone it. We still laugh about it, even now.
Tobi was more than just a friend; he was family. I remember when he went home for mid-term break, and while most of us would be away from our families, he would bring back little things for me, knowing I couldn’t go home because I was based in Bauchi. It was in these small acts of kindness that Tobi truly showed how caring and thoughtful he was. And on visiting days, when he saw I didn't have anyone to visit me, he would proudly introduce me to "Mommy," telling her that I didn’t have family around and asking her to look after me. She’d always give me pocket money and food, but Tobi, with that characteristic heart of his, would always check if it was enough and make sure I had more if needed. He never wanted anything to hurt me or any of his friends, always going the extra mile to make sure we were okay.
We had our fair share of arguments, especially when it came to football—he was always the Arsenal fan, while I could never understand his loyalty to them. But even in those debates, Tobi's passion and determination were evident, and they only made our friendship stronger. We talked about everything under the sun, from the silliest things to the most serious, and when Tobi needed advice, he would turn to me, always trusting my thoughts and opinions.
Tobi, you were more than a friend to me. You were a brother, a protector, and a source of constant positivity. Your energy, laughter, and caring nature are memories I will hold close forever. I’m so grateful to have had you in my life, and I know I will carry you in my heart for the rest of mine.
Rest in peace, my dear friend. You will never be forgotten.❤️🕊️
I have been through a lot of hard and trying times in life, which I have recovered from easily, but I don’t think I will recover from this. As I write this tribute, I’m in unrelenting pain and shock that I must do this as never did I think I will be writing a tribute to my brother just after 23 years of knowing you. I still remember walking to the hospital in February, 2002 with Mama and Tolu, seeing a black boy with pink hands and legs, and realising this is my brother. The smile and joy you brought to our faces, and the feeling I had that I was now a big brother and had to step up to becoming a role model for you. From selecting your clothes for the day to watching you grow from “it’s Napo” to Kings college, then to university and seeing you having more beards on your chin in comparison to me was one of the best parts of knowing my brother was becoming a man that was filled with grace and love.
You always made me smile and with the constant love you gave, and you never stopped caring about everyone. Is it our caricature dances to music videos making us feel like we were the best dancers in the house or our tiny little fights; you were always a joy to be around. Never did I know that December 25, 2020, was the last time I was going to see you in person because if I did know, I don’t think I would have ever travelled back. I remember the last call and video we had, and you said you were okay and fine. I still have the video of you telling me Baba, I am fine, don’t worry. Little did I know that was the last time I was going to hear your voice. It is sincerely hard to do this because I just can’t stop the tears from flowing.
Oluwatobi Babajide Nkem Elemo, I am going to forever miss you, and your memories will forever stay in my heart. One thing I can say is that I am grateful for your existence in my life, and I am grateful to ever have you as a brother. You were love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. You are the true fruit of the spirit. Till we meet to part no more, continue to rest in the bosom of God. I will forever love you, bro!!!💕
From you best brother
Olatorera Williams (Baba).
You always made me smile and with the constant love you gave, and you never stopped caring about everyone. Is it our caricature dances to music videos making us feel like we were the best dancers in the house or our tiny little fights; you were always a joy to be around. Never did I know that December 25, 2020, was the last time I was going to see you in person because if I did know, I don’t think I would have ever travelled back. I remember the last call and video we had, and you said you were okay and fine. I still have the video of you telling me Baba, I am fine, don’t worry. Little did I know that was the last time I was going to hear your voice. It is sincerely hard to do this because I just can’t stop the tears from flowing.
Oluwatobi Babajide Nkem Elemo, I am going to forever miss you, and your memories will forever stay in my heart. One thing I can say is that I am grateful for your existence in my life, and I am grateful to ever have you as a brother. You were love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. You are the true fruit of the spirit. Till we meet to part no more, continue to rest in the bosom of God. I will forever love you, bro!!!💕
From you best brother
Olatorera Williams (Baba).
Bibi,(Him mama pikin)
I don’t know how to write the right words, because how do you sum up the life of a beautiful soul.
Bibi, you had a heart of gold (or the most precious jewel ever).You taught me what it means to love without limits, to show up for the people you care about even when it’s hard.You always put everyone first.Your love was always reliable, unwavering, and true.
You embodied the phrase ' Still waters run deep".You carried your wisdom with humility, never seeking attention, yet always making an impact.
You saw the world in rainbows,choosing to focus on the beauty, joy, in appreciation for the small wonders around you and valuing people for who they are.
You were not just my brother—you were my baby. It has been the hardest thing to lose you.You meant so much to me,but heaven chose to give you wings,and now its time you flew.
I wish i had one more chance to laugh with you again, one more chance to listen to you talk about your latest anime.i wish i had one more chance to hug you.I wish i had one more random call from you, even if it was a missed call.
Rest easy, my brother. You are, and always will be, deeply loved, deeply missed, and never forgotten. Until we meet again.
To you, O Lord, we commend the soul of Oluwatobi Elemo your servant.Forgive whatever sins he committed through human weakness and in your goodness grant him everlasting peace.Amen.
I don’t know how to write the right words, because how do you sum up the life of a beautiful soul.
Bibi, you had a heart of gold (or the most precious jewel ever).You taught me what it means to love without limits, to show up for the people you care about even when it’s hard.You always put everyone first.Your love was always reliable, unwavering, and true.
You embodied the phrase ' Still waters run deep".You carried your wisdom with humility, never seeking attention, yet always making an impact.
You saw the world in rainbows,choosing to focus on the beauty, joy, in appreciation for the small wonders around you and valuing people for who they are.
You were not just my brother—you were my baby. It has been the hardest thing to lose you.You meant so much to me,but heaven chose to give you wings,and now its time you flew.
I wish i had one more chance to laugh with you again, one more chance to listen to you talk about your latest anime.i wish i had one more chance to hug you.I wish i had one more random call from you, even if it was a missed call.
Rest easy, my brother. You are, and always will be, deeply loved, deeply missed, and never forgotten. Until we meet again.
To you, O Lord, we commend the soul of Oluwatobi Elemo your servant.Forgive whatever sins he committed through human weakness and in your goodness grant him everlasting peace.Amen.
Bibi,(Him mama pikin)
I don’t know how to write the right words, because how do you sum up the life of a beautiful soul.
Bibi, you had a heart of gold (or the most precious jewel ever).You taught me what it means to love without limits, to show up for the people you care about even when it’s hard.You always put everyone first.Your love was always reliable, unwavering, and true.
You embodied the phrase ' Still waters run deep".You carried your wisdom with humility, never seeking attention, yet always making an impact.
You saw the world in rainbows,choosing to focus on the beauty, joy, in appreciation for the small wonders around you and valuing people for who they are.
You were not just my brother—you were my baby. It has been the hardest thing to lose you.You meant so much to me,but heaven chose to give you wings,and now its time you flew.
I wish i had one more chance to laugh with you again, one more chance to listen to you talk about your latest anime.i wish i had one more chance to hug you.I wish i had one more random call from you, even if it was a missed call.
Rest easy, my brother. You are, and always will be, deeply loved, deeply missed, and never forgotten. Until we meet again.
To you, O Lord, we commend the soul of Oluwatobi Elemo your servant.Forgive whatever sins he committed through human weakness and in your goodness grant him everlasting peace.Amen.
I don’t know how to write the right words, because how do you sum up the life of a beautiful soul.
Bibi, you had a heart of gold (or the most precious jewel ever).You taught me what it means to love without limits, to show up for the people you care about even when it’s hard.You always put everyone first.Your love was always reliable, unwavering, and true.
You embodied the phrase ' Still waters run deep".You carried your wisdom with humility, never seeking attention, yet always making an impact.
You saw the world in rainbows,choosing to focus on the beauty, joy, in appreciation for the small wonders around you and valuing people for who they are.
You were not just my brother—you were my baby. It has been the hardest thing to lose you.You meant so much to me,but heaven chose to give you wings,and now its time you flew.
I wish i had one more chance to laugh with you again, one more chance to listen to you talk about your latest anime.i wish i had one more chance to hug you.I wish i had one more random call from you, even if it was a missed call.
Rest easy, my brother. You are, and always will be, deeply loved, deeply missed, and never forgotten. Until we meet again.
To you, O Lord, we commend the soul of Oluwatobi Elemo your servant.Forgive whatever sins he committed through human weakness and in your goodness grant him everlasting peace.Amen.
It was a rude shock to hear you're gone,up until late February our family prayer altar still has your name as our daily prayer request. We know deeply that God doesn't make mistakes. As Paul said in one of his epistles that now we know in part and believe in part but when that which is perfect shall be revealed then that which is in part shall be fone away with. It's very difficult to reconcile but we are comforted that you lived a good life. Live on beloved .
My Darling Son Tobi, my KC boy, my Asoor Dudu. Honestly, I am so confused I still don't know what to write again. The first time, I tried writing, it was hard. I am trying again and it's still difficult to write. I am the only one who knows what I am going through. I am still in shock. We shared a very close bond and you promised buying me a car. I have asked God WHY? This is so so so painful. I feel the pain. I feel the pain. Ko da rara. You were what we call Omo gidi, Omo dada, the epitome of a good son. Eeeh! How I miss you. I do not know how and what I am feeling. My heart is so heavy and the tears won't stop. My heart is
aching. Haaaaaa! Tobiiii. Eleyi po oooo. I thank God for your life. May Father Almighty grant you eternal rest, shine perpetual light on you and rest you in peace. With so much pain in my heart, I miss you soooo much. I know the angels have received you. I love you DEEP and it will never change.
aching. Haaaaaa! Tobiiii. Eleyi po oooo. I thank God for your life. May Father Almighty grant you eternal rest, shine perpetual light on you and rest you in peace. With so much pain in my heart, I miss you soooo much. I know the angels have received you. I love you DEEP and it will never change.
Tribute to a Kind and Gentle Soul
It is with a heavy heart that I pen this few words to Oluwatobi Nkem Babajide Elemo, who was a beacon of kindness, humility, and quiet strength.
You were a rare soul, gentle, respectful, and full of warmth. He was never one to seek attention, yet his presence was always felt through his kindness, his quiet wisdom, and his unwavering respect for others. He had a heart that cared deeply, a spirit that uplifted, and a life that reflected love and peace.
He was a source of comfort, always willing to listen, always showing love in the simplest yet most profound ways. His smile, though subtle, carried light. His words, though few, carried wisdom. His actions, though quiet, spoke volumes.
Though your time with us was far too short, the impact you left behind will never fade. We find comfort in knowing that you rests in the arms of the Lord, where there is no more pain, no more sorrow—only peace and eternal joy.
We will always remember you Oluwatobi for the kindness you showed, the respect you gave, and the love you spread. Though you are no longer with us physically, your memory will live on in our hearts forever.
Rest well, dear Oluwatobi Nkem Babajide omo Elemo. You were truly a gift to your family, this world, and you will never be forgotten.
Sun re.
It is with a heavy heart that I pen this few words to Oluwatobi Nkem Babajide Elemo, who was a beacon of kindness, humility, and quiet strength.
You were a rare soul, gentle, respectful, and full of warmth. He was never one to seek attention, yet his presence was always felt through his kindness, his quiet wisdom, and his unwavering respect for others. He had a heart that cared deeply, a spirit that uplifted, and a life that reflected love and peace.
He was a source of comfort, always willing to listen, always showing love in the simplest yet most profound ways. His smile, though subtle, carried light. His words, though few, carried wisdom. His actions, though quiet, spoke volumes.
Though your time with us was far too short, the impact you left behind will never fade. We find comfort in knowing that you rests in the arms of the Lord, where there is no more pain, no more sorrow—only peace and eternal joy.
We will always remember you Oluwatobi for the kindness you showed, the respect you gave, and the love you spread. Though you are no longer with us physically, your memory will live on in our hearts forever.
Rest well, dear Oluwatobi Nkem Babajide omo Elemo. You were truly a gift to your family, this world, and you will never be forgotten.
Sun re.
TOBI ELEMO AKA THE PLASTIC MAN
my brother from another mother. The simplest person I have ever met in this our world, Very easy going guy (no stress). I remember we weren't very close in our highschool days. But God brought me closer to this guy just when we were about to graduate. We became close friends. We always called each other. My other friends always complained that why will I be on a call with a guy for more than 2hrs. We were always talking. Always vibing about all the plenty things we will do together. My brother from another mother. I miss you bro. But I know we will meet again. ELEMO my greatest OG. Bro I love you man 👊.
my brother from another mother. The simplest person I have ever met in this our world, Very easy going guy (no stress). I remember we weren't very close in our highschool days. But God brought me closer to this guy just when we were about to graduate. We became close friends. We always called each other. My other friends always complained that why will I be on a call with a guy for more than 2hrs. We were always talking. Always vibing about all the plenty things we will do together. My brother from another mother. I miss you bro. But I know we will meet again. ELEMO my greatest OG. Bro I love you man 👊.
Baby bro t, your name oluwatobiloba means GOD IS BIG and you were a perfect example of that. There was GOD in you and with your BIG heart, you left PURE LIGHT and LAUGHTER everywhere you went. I remember when you selflessly walked barefoot, so that I could wear your shoes when my heels hurt my feet.
You were one of the BEST people i've ever been blessed to know and if I had to come back to this world again, I would still choose you as my brother. We deserved you but GOD deserves you more.
Our GOD who art in heaven, thank you for tobi, who we were blessed to love on earth. T, greet mama and grandpa for me. Thank you for all our good memories.
I love and celebrate you always.
sister lola ❤️
You were one of the BEST people i've ever been blessed to know and if I had to come back to this world again, I would still choose you as my brother. We deserved you but GOD deserves you more.
Our GOD who art in heaven, thank you for tobi, who we were blessed to love on earth. T, greet mama and grandpa for me. Thank you for all our good memories.
I love and celebrate you always.
sister lola ❤️
You lived for a while and was impactful on all that came across you,a lovely soul ,always smiling,but your footprints can never be erased from the sands,Tolu's baby,you are now an angel , May your soul rest in the bosom of the Lord. Adieu Oluwatobi Nkem Elemo.
A wonderful brother,
I still ponder to myself if you have really left this world but I find solace believing that you have returned to a more restful and peaceful place.You gave me the feel of having a younger brother and it was truly a beautiful thing with you because of your ever loving, gentle and affectionate spirit. I remember how you sometimes came to ask me those funny and intelligent questions about life, or how you often checked up on me at work, even though you knew we would still see each other at home. You had such a free and loving spirit,Tobi, really pure for this world. In deed, you were an angel on earth. I had never seen you angry, you always had a calm and easy going nature. It was truly a blessing to have known you. Sleep peacefully in the Lord Tobi, God grant your soul eternal rest. I feel that while we may feel down that we have lost you in the world, heaven is rejoicing at the return of one of its own, a conqueror, a hero and an angel.
Bunmi Adetoboye (Nee Elemo) (Cousin)
I still ponder to myself if you have really left this world but I find solace believing that you have returned to a more restful and peaceful place.You gave me the feel of having a younger brother and it was truly a beautiful thing with you because of your ever loving, gentle and affectionate spirit. I remember how you sometimes came to ask me those funny and intelligent questions about life, or how you often checked up on me at work, even though you knew we would still see each other at home. You had such a free and loving spirit,Tobi, really pure for this world. In deed, you were an angel on earth. I had never seen you angry, you always had a calm and easy going nature. It was truly a blessing to have known you. Sleep peacefully in the Lord Tobi, God grant your soul eternal rest. I feel that while we may feel down that we have lost you in the world, heaven is rejoicing at the return of one of its own, a conqueror, a hero and an angel.
Bunmi Adetoboye (Nee Elemo) (Cousin)
Tobi Elemo Nkem: A Shining Light in God's Vineyard
Tobi Elemo Nkem, a precious soul, left an indelible mark on the hearts of everyone he touched. His unwavering compassion, unconditional love, and infectious kindness inspired us all to be better versions of ourselves.
For over two years, Tobi bravely fought a fierce battle against death, but with unshakeable faith in Jesus Christ, he emerged victorious. Though his body may have been weak, his spirit remained unbroken, and his heart remained filled with God's love.
Tobi was a beacon of hope, a shining example of God's love and kindness. His heart was filled with the Holy Spirit, and he shared that spirit with everyone he met. As an evangelist, he spread God's word with passion and conviction, touching countless lives.
He had a gift for making everyone feel seen, heard, and loved. Though his time with us was short, Tobi's impact will be felt for generations to come.
Rest in peace, dear Tobi. Your legacy will live on in our hearts."
You will be deeply missed but never forgotten.
Tobi Elemo Nkem, a precious soul, left an indelible mark on the hearts of everyone he touched. His unwavering compassion, unconditional love, and infectious kindness inspired us all to be better versions of ourselves.
For over two years, Tobi bravely fought a fierce battle against death, but with unshakeable faith in Jesus Christ, he emerged victorious. Though his body may have been weak, his spirit remained unbroken, and his heart remained filled with God's love.
Tobi was a beacon of hope, a shining example of God's love and kindness. His heart was filled with the Holy Spirit, and he shared that spirit with everyone he met. As an evangelist, he spread God's word with passion and conviction, touching countless lives.
He had a gift for making everyone feel seen, heard, and loved. Though his time with us was short, Tobi's impact will be felt for generations to come.
Rest in peace, dear Tobi. Your legacy will live on in our hearts."
You will be deeply missed but never forgotten.
Tobi, my cousin, brother and little star, you shine so brightly, no matter how far. With a heart so innocent, gentle and a spirit so free, you brought light and joy to our family.
I still remember your childhood days, So full of dreams. With innocent eyes and a curious mind, You spoke of program codes, of tech, oh!! it feels just like yesterday!!
So young, yet filled with so much light, your passion burned steady and bright.
Back then, it was just a dream to chase, but now I know you are in a better place.
No longer just the little one, you have shown your strength, and blessed us with memories of you. For you sojourn here on earth, we are thankful to God.
Know I’ll always remember you, everyday a thought of you.
Gbenga Elemo
I still remember your childhood days, So full of dreams. With innocent eyes and a curious mind, You spoke of program codes, of tech, oh!! it feels just like yesterday!!
So young, yet filled with so much light, your passion burned steady and bright.
Back then, it was just a dream to chase, but now I know you are in a better place.
No longer just the little one, you have shown your strength, and blessed us with memories of you. For you sojourn here on earth, we are thankful to God.
Know I’ll always remember you, everyday a thought of you.
Gbenga Elemo
I've started, erased, restarted, erased and restarted typing this message more than 30 times because I'm struggling to accept that i'm writing this message. I don't want to, because it means that I have to accept what I would prefer not to accept, but I have to because you deserve the Recognition, Honor and Respect. Tobz, this one pain me oh!! I no go even lie. This one PAIN! This one pain because boyz suppose still dey yan. This one PAIN!!! We suppose still dey discuss plans, goals, dreams, fears, insecurities, uncertainties, life, learning, ups, downs, wins, loses, joys, pains, the human experience....We suppose still dey yan. My Brother, i Know that God Knows Best but may the Lord Forgive me for questioning and simply asking Why ? I still can't wrap my head around it and will probably be in denial for the rest of my days but, Life is Life. Thank you for being a beautiful soul. You were ALWAYS ALWAYS a fair brother. Thank you for always doing your part to keep positivity around always. I wish it didn't go this way but God Knows Best. Mama, GrandPa, please look after Tobz.
I will live my Life honoring your legacy; I must. Heavenly Father, please look after Tobi's Kind Soul. Tobz, Oga Pata Pata, the story never finish oh... The Marathon continues. I will continue talking to you everyday cuz I know you're still here with me. This is not the end, this is just a see you later. My beautiful Brother, till we meet again. Chai, e pain me....but we shall meet again. I love you forever. Omo Oba Jack Thursby. It is well. Love For Ever More. Stay Bless.
I will live my Life honoring your legacy; I must. Heavenly Father, please look after Tobi's Kind Soul. Tobz, Oga Pata Pata, the story never finish oh... The Marathon continues. I will continue talking to you everyday cuz I know you're still here with me. This is not the end, this is just a see you later. My beautiful Brother, till we meet again. Chai, e pain me....but we shall meet again. I love you forever. Omo Oba Jack Thursby. It is well. Love For Ever More. Stay Bless.
I've started, erased, restarted, erased and restarted typing this message more than 30 times because I'm struggling to accept that i'm writing this message. I don't want to, because it means that I have to accept what I would prefer not to accept, but I have to because you deserve the Recognition, Honor and Respect. Tobz, this one pain me oh!! I no go even lie. This one PAIN! This one pain because boyz suppose still dey yan. This one PAIN!!! We suppose still dey discuss plans, goals, dreams, fears, insecurities, uncertainties, life, learning, ups, downs, wins, loses, joys, pains, the human experience....We suppose still dey yan. My Brother, i Know that God Knows Best but may the Lord Forgive me for questioning and simply asking Why ? I still can't wrap my head around it and will probably be in denial for the rest of my days but, Life is Life. Thank you for being a beautiful soul. You were ALWAYS ALWAYS a fair brother. Thank you for always doing your part to keep positivity around always. I wish it didn't go this way but God Knows Best. Mama, GrandPa, please look after Tobz.
I will live my Life honoring your legacy; I must. Heavenly Father, please look after Tobi's Kind Soul. Tobz, Oga Pata Pata, the story never finish oh... The Marathon continues. I will continue talking to you everyday cuz I know you're still here with me. This is not the end, this is just a see you later. My beautiful Brother, till we meet again. Chai, e pain me....but we shall meet again. I love you forever. Omo Oba Jack Thursby. It is well. Love For Ever More. Stay Bless.
I will live my Life honoring your legacy; I must. Heavenly Father, please look after Tobi's Kind Soul. Tobz, Oga Pata Pata, the story never finish oh... The Marathon continues. I will continue talking to you everyday cuz I know you're still here with me. This is not the end, this is just a see you later. My beautiful Brother, till we meet again. Chai, e pain me....but we shall meet again. I love you forever. Omo Oba Jack Thursby. It is well. Love For Ever More. Stay Bless.
Tobi my son, you were the gem in the Elemo's crown. My heart is heavy but God knows best. I still can't fathom using "was" for you but it is God that is in control of your journey. You were indeed an Angel in human form and I will use our good memories together to make me smile again. My dear angel, heaven is lucky to have you.
Aunty Tonia.
Aunty Tonia.
I was fortunate enough to have finally met many of my cousins, including Tobi, in 2017 during a memorable trip to Lagos.
I was 27 and Tobi was 15. He was away at his boarding school when I arrived, but a few days into the trip, we picked him up from school to attend our grandfather's funeral.
In hindsight, I suppose I had a bit of a baby-face in my 20s, but I didn't think anything of it when I met Tobi and he let his true, hilarious personality shine. He was welcoming, fun, goofy, and quirky, making me laugh and dance with him. The next day, Tobi came up to me apologetically.
"Allison, you're 27?! I am so sorry, I thought you were my age. No, really, I thought you were 16." Suddenly, our dynamic shifted. With the new knowledge that I was the much older cousin, he began to approach me with a new level of respect. He now approached me as an "elder" as opposed to a peer. I am sure the family members he grew up with got to see the real Tobi, but being a new face – and an older one at that – Tobi began showing me a new level of respect that I hadn't expected.
Seeing the shift in him taught me something about him. Tobi had a golden heart. And his parents had bestowed on him deeply-rooted manners.
I, however, sometimes wish he still thought I was his age. I will forever treasure the moments that this sweet and electric 15-year-old boy gave me a window into his world and treated me with the warm personality he greeted his peers with. Those who enjoyed this side of Tobi will surely never forget what a treasure he was to behold.
I was 27 and Tobi was 15. He was away at his boarding school when I arrived, but a few days into the trip, we picked him up from school to attend our grandfather's funeral.
In hindsight, I suppose I had a bit of a baby-face in my 20s, but I didn't think anything of it when I met Tobi and he let his true, hilarious personality shine. He was welcoming, fun, goofy, and quirky, making me laugh and dance with him. The next day, Tobi came up to me apologetically.
"Allison, you're 27?! I am so sorry, I thought you were my age. No, really, I thought you were 16." Suddenly, our dynamic shifted. With the new knowledge that I was the much older cousin, he began to approach me with a new level of respect. He now approached me as an "elder" as opposed to a peer. I am sure the family members he grew up with got to see the real Tobi, but being a new face – and an older one at that – Tobi began showing me a new level of respect that I hadn't expected.
Seeing the shift in him taught me something about him. Tobi had a golden heart. And his parents had bestowed on him deeply-rooted manners.
I, however, sometimes wish he still thought I was his age. I will forever treasure the moments that this sweet and electric 15-year-old boy gave me a window into his world and treated me with the warm personality he greeted his peers with. Those who enjoyed this side of Tobi will surely never forget what a treasure he was to behold.
Tobi,
I really don't know where to begin and what to say. It's surreal. You have really left us!!! You were a loving and kind nephew. You always placed people's needs before your's. You took Femi as your 'baby brother' and demonstrated this in the way you cared for him and played with him, especially at family functions. He was speechless at the news of your demise. I really thought you would pull through. We prayed, cried and did all we could. But God who is infinite and all powerful, decided it was best for you to be with him. We will surely miss you. Hmmmm!!! Sun re o!!, my darling nephew till we meet to part no more.
Aunty Ify
I really don't know where to begin and what to say. It's surreal. You have really left us!!! You were a loving and kind nephew. You always placed people's needs before your's. You took Femi as your 'baby brother' and demonstrated this in the way you cared for him and played with him, especially at family functions. He was speechless at the news of your demise. I really thought you would pull through. We prayed, cried and did all we could. But God who is infinite and all powerful, decided it was best for you to be with him. We will surely miss you. Hmmmm!!! Sun re o!!, my darling nephew till we meet to part no more.
Aunty Ify
Kings’ College Tributes
13 entries.
This is such a big loss. May the Almighty grant you eternal rest Tobiloba, and grant your family- parents and siblings - fortitude to bear this irreparable loss.
Wole Olafimihan
Ibadan, Nigeria.
Wole Olafimihan
Ibadan, Nigeria.
Tobi was my ward in Kings College,Lagos.
He was cool and calm.
Never got into trouble with School authority ,
Promising young lad.
His sunset too early.
I loss a son in Tobi.
May his noble soul rest in perfect peace .
He was cool and calm.
Never got into trouble with School authority ,
Promising young lad.
His sunset too early.
I loss a son in Tobi.
May his noble soul rest in perfect peace .
I did not meet you in person but I have had a lot about you positively. In fact I thought we would meet soon but it's so sad to hear about your loss. I have asked one question multiple times “ WHY YOU and WHY NOW” and I still have not been able to figure it out. However, I take absolute comfort in God that has answer for my question. I know there is a reason for this. You left the world of chaos and shame to be with God everlastingly.
Keep resting in the blossom of the father. Till we meet again in Christ.
Keep resting in the blossom of the father. Till we meet again in Christ.
Tobi was my best friend in Kings college, so many afternoons spent in dinning hall talking about our interests in anime, video games and food… he shared everything with me as I did him
He made me want to be a better person, to be empathetic, to be caring, to put others before myself because that’s the type of person he is
I hoped we’d be able to play “Sims” one more time Elemo… just one more time so you can tell me how I should be considerate of the decisions I make towards fictional characters
I’ll continually miss you my friend
Rest in perfect peace
He made me want to be a better person, to be empathetic, to be caring, to put others before myself because that’s the type of person he is
I hoped we’d be able to play “Sims” one more time Elemo… just one more time so you can tell me how I should be considerate of the decisions I make towards fictional characters
I’ll continually miss you my friend
Rest in perfect peace
Service to the living honor to the dead king's man
Life has a way of playing pranks on us, and this one has not gone down well. In all my six years of secondary school with Tobi, he was one of those students you could vouch for to steer clear of trouble. His calm, quiet, and charming nature coupled with his inquisitiveness made him a bright spark. REST ON PEACEFULLY BROTHER. SPERO LUCEM. HONOUR TO OUR DEAD
Pardon me if I’m a bit short of words but I’m still in denial. Tobi was really an awesome person, calm and level headed and very nice to be around. From the way he spoke, to how he dressed, down to his demeanor, you just knew that he was a simple man who enjoyed the simple pleasures of life. I remember when we’d spend hours talking about cartoons in the hostel and in the dining hall, I love how well he would describe the scenes, his storytelling prowess was truly something.
May his souls rest in perfect peace
May his souls rest in perfect peace
Rest well Tobi,
Tobi Tobi Tobi … hmmmmmm , rest in peace . Floreat brother
Where do I start? How do I put my feelings into words? This is one of the greatest shocks of my life, and I still haven’t come to terms with it. I met Tobi in King’s College, and he was one of the brightest, cheerful, and innocent fellows I had ever met. I never understood how he managed to always have a smile on his face, despite how challenging the school environment was. But I guess that was the beauty of Tobi – he really did turn the lemons of life into lemonades. I’ll miss our chats about anime and arguments about how Ironman is the greatest superhero ever. Keep resting in the Lord where there is no pain and no sorrow.
Goodbye.
Goodbye.
Tobi was the kindest person I met when I just entered kings college in SS1. He was a funny, bright, cheerful and very creative guy. Always had something hilarious to say to put a smile on someone's face. We never got that close, but I'm glad I met him when I did. He was one of the core members of my friend group, the Elite, and he made me love anime even more than I did at the time.
HE was so spontaneous! There's this one day he and I were walking to the cafeteria for lunch on a Sunday. This boy just broke into a run for no reason at all and said if I got there after him he'd take my chicken😅. He was a real ball of energy and he never let his anger get the better of him.
I love you man. Rest peacefully, Kakashi-dono.
HE was so spontaneous! There's this one day he and I were walking to the cafeteria for lunch on a Sunday. This boy just broke into a run for no reason at all and said if I got there after him he'd take my chicken😅. He was a real ball of energy and he never let his anger get the better of him.
I love you man. Rest peacefully, Kakashi-dono.
Still can't believe I'm actually writing this. We were a relatively large group of friends, but you were one of those who was there from the very beginning. We spent all six years in the boarding house together, and every single one of us was glad to call you our brother.
You were always the best of us, the kindest, most calm person ever. Even when other people would try to take advantage of you sometimes, you never let it get to you, always responding with a smile instead. Any time we spent together was always a fun time, and I cherished all our lengthy talks about anime and movies, all the games we cooked up and discussed, even the ones you me and Henry would make up while waiting for church on Sundays, like that was really part of the highlights of my stay in that school.
I wish you didn't have to go so soon, but I know that God has a reason for calling His people back to His side. And truly you were one of His people. One of the good ones. And none of us will ever forget the friend and brother we had in you, Tobi Elemo. May your soul rest in perfect peace, Amen.
Your legacy will live on.
You were always the best of us, the kindest, most calm person ever. Even when other people would try to take advantage of you sometimes, you never let it get to you, always responding with a smile instead. Any time we spent together was always a fun time, and I cherished all our lengthy talks about anime and movies, all the games we cooked up and discussed, even the ones you me and Henry would make up while waiting for church on Sundays, like that was really part of the highlights of my stay in that school.
I wish you didn't have to go so soon, but I know that God has a reason for calling His people back to His side. And truly you were one of His people. One of the good ones. And none of us will ever forget the friend and brother we had in you, Tobi Elemo. May your soul rest in perfect peace, Amen.
Your legacy will live on.
I bless God for the day I met you,Tobi (Tobisculus)as we call you ,you’re a great friend ,brother that someone can ever ask for and all the memories we had together all still fresh in my head right from kings college.We still made plans to hangout when you get back to Nigeria. A very gentle and humble soul and a supportive person,it saddens me to be writing about your passing but God knows best and I’m definitely sure you’re in a better …..we love you and miss you Tobi
California State University, Northridge Tributes
2 entries.
Dear Tobi...
While I didn't know you for a long time, you have made an everlasting impact on me. You brought out the best in your peers and always championed them. You are still a warrior. You made me feel closer to our higher power than I ever thought possible. I thank God for loaning you to all of us. Your spirit will live on in my heart forever.
Annalyn
While I didn't know you for a long time, you have made an everlasting impact on me. You brought out the best in your peers and always championed them. You are still a warrior. You made me feel closer to our higher power than I ever thought possible. I thank God for loaning you to all of us. Your spirit will live on in my heart forever.
Annalyn
Tobi was one of my best friends at CSUN. At the start of our geology program, Tobi and I met because we sat in the same area on campus while on our computers during our online class. He introduced himself and right off the bat seemed like such a friendly person. It wasn't long before we bonded and complained about the millions of bees flying in our faces while we tried to focus on class.
In another class, Tobi and I were assigned as partners for group work and we became even closer because of that. He always asked me questions to get to know me better and we talked together about our interests. During that class, I battled with insecurity a lot because I struggled with science. I said something self derogatory and I'll never forget how Tobi stayed behind to encourage me to believe in myself.
Tobi was someone that always stayed by your side when you were falling behind. During our first geology trip, I was inexperienced with hiking and was the slowest in the group. Despite that, Tobi never left me and even offered to carry me. His unwavering kindness and consideration ran so deep that it truly amazed me. The amount of admiration and love I had for this guy goes beyond than what I can describe in words.
I'll never forget all the times we spent on call working on homework together and lifting one another up. Tobi and I were both the underdogs in the geology program compared to everyone else, so we were like a team that stuck together to improve. We were both afraid of heights (and it didn't help that our shoes weren't the best for hiking) but we faced that together and became unstoppable. It was wonderful to watch how far Tobi came through his strength, hard work, and determination.
Tobi was a great friend, one of the best I've ever had and I'll never forget the positive impact he made on my life. He was a blindingly beautiful beacon of light that spread for miles and reached everyone that surrounded him. I'll never forget the way he cared for me and respected me for the way that I am. I'll never forget all we've been through and all the memories we made. It's very bittersweet to look back on everything and I am tearing up writing this.. God bless him and his family and may he rest in peace.
In another class, Tobi and I were assigned as partners for group work and we became even closer because of that. He always asked me questions to get to know me better and we talked together about our interests. During that class, I battled with insecurity a lot because I struggled with science. I said something self derogatory and I'll never forget how Tobi stayed behind to encourage me to believe in myself.
Tobi was someone that always stayed by your side when you were falling behind. During our first geology trip, I was inexperienced with hiking and was the slowest in the group. Despite that, Tobi never left me and even offered to carry me. His unwavering kindness and consideration ran so deep that it truly amazed me. The amount of admiration and love I had for this guy goes beyond than what I can describe in words.
I'll never forget all the times we spent on call working on homework together and lifting one another up. Tobi and I were both the underdogs in the geology program compared to everyone else, so we were like a team that stuck together to improve. We were both afraid of heights (and it didn't help that our shoes weren't the best for hiking) but we faced that together and became unstoppable. It was wonderful to watch how far Tobi came through his strength, hard work, and determination.
Tobi was a great friend, one of the best I've ever had and I'll never forget the positive impact he made on my life. He was a blindingly beautiful beacon of light that spread for miles and reached everyone that surrounded him. I'll never forget the way he cared for me and respected me for the way that I am. I'll never forget all we've been through and all the memories we made. It's very bittersweet to look back on everything and I am tearing up writing this.. God bless him and his family and may he rest in peace.
Other Friends Tributes
4 entries.
Tobi, it was rude shock and absolute grief that I received the news of the passing away from daddy. But the scripture reminds me that there's a season of appointed to everything under heaven a time to gather and a time to cast away, a time to be happy and the time to die. The pain we bear now is immeasurable. Bro rest is perfect in our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. God will console your parents. Good night.
Tobi, it was rude shock and absolute grief that I received the news of the passing away from daddy. But the scripture reminds me that there's a season of appointed to everything under heaven a time to gather and a time to cast away, a time to be happy and the time to die. The pain we bear now is immeasurable. Bro rest is perfect in our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. God will console your parents. Good night.
Elemo Tobi, I don’t even know what to say honestly, this comes as a very very wild shock, olorun a wo e, olorun a sho e, olorun a fi orun ke e, not you Tobi, if being meek gentle and accommodating was a person it was you bro, I don’t even know what to say again, I’m as confused as I can be my bro, wherever you are please rest in peace. May the lord send his angels to comfort you and guide you on calm waters❤️ sun re oremi ❤️😭
Oluwatobi Oluwatobi Oluwatobi you started live so beautifully. From a very tender age you had the wisdom of an old man. I learnt from your words of wisdom at age 8 where you told me never to promise anybody, all I said was Oluwatobi I promise that the next time you'll be in office I would've subscribed for our DSTV and scolded saying " Mummy do you promise people? What if I come tomorrow?
Huuuuuuuumph Tobi so many good memories kept flying my mind.
Oluwatobi you are a beautiful soul. In life I love you dearly, in death I love you still, in my heart you hold a dear place, I cried endlessly, I won't let the tears Mar the smiles that you've given when you were alive.
I know you are listening from above, cos I am hearing you ask me even now "I hope I have not disappointed you" you haven't Oluwatobi, you fought to the end.
Sun re o! In the bosom of your Creator.
Huuuuuuuumph Tobi so many good memories kept flying my mind.
Oluwatobi you are a beautiful soul. In life I love you dearly, in death I love you still, in my heart you hold a dear place, I cried endlessly, I won't let the tears Mar the smiles that you've given when you were alive.
I know you are listening from above, cos I am hearing you ask me even now "I hope I have not disappointed you" you haven't Oluwatobi, you fought to the end.
Sun re o! In the bosom of your Creator.
General Tributes
10 entries.
YOUR MEMORY IS BLESSED
Tobi’s life reflects a profound impact he had on those around him.
Tobi brought joy, comfort, and peace to all who knew him. His kind heart, infectious smile, and generous spirit inspired everyone to be better versions of themselves.
As I think about Tobi, I am also reminded of my own nephew, who left us at the same tender age. His passing was like a whisper from God, reminding us of the preciousness of life and the importance of a dedicated life to God.
Tobi, your life may have been brief, but your legacy will live on in our hearts. You may have left us, but your memory will continue to inspire us to live with purpose, to love with abandon, and to cherish every moment.
See you in the morning dear Son.
Tobi’s life reflects a profound impact he had on those around him.
Tobi brought joy, comfort, and peace to all who knew him. His kind heart, infectious smile, and generous spirit inspired everyone to be better versions of themselves.
As I think about Tobi, I am also reminded of my own nephew, who left us at the same tender age. His passing was like a whisper from God, reminding us of the preciousness of life and the importance of a dedicated life to God.
Tobi, your life may have been brief, but your legacy will live on in our hearts. You may have left us, but your memory will continue to inspire us to live with purpose, to love with abandon, and to cherish every moment.
See you in the morning dear Son.
Prof Grace Elemo was a senoir colleague to me at RMRDC. I can recall the joy the birth of Tobi brought to the family.
Not to long ago,my wife brought the not so cheering news that Tobi was in a critical condition. She learnt so from his mom who had mentored her while at RMRDC.
Losing someone is always painful. Seeing that someone go through pains is an added pain. What can assuage that pain is the Christ he knew and we know,the life of impact Tobi lived, the reference he earned in his short life, and even while stucked on the bed in the hospital. What I gleaned from the bio was Psalm 23.4 becoming real:Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.
My prayer and condolece to the Elemos. May the Lord comfort and stregthen now and beyond,Amen.
Not to long ago,my wife brought the not so cheering news that Tobi was in a critical condition. She learnt so from his mom who had mentored her while at RMRDC.
Losing someone is always painful. Seeing that someone go through pains is an added pain. What can assuage that pain is the Christ he knew and we know,the life of impact Tobi lived, the reference he earned in his short life, and even while stucked on the bed in the hospital. What I gleaned from the bio was Psalm 23.4 becoming real:Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.
My prayer and condolece to the Elemos. May the Lord comfort and stregthen now and beyond,Amen.
From a young age, Tobi displayed a keen intellect, intelligence, humility, gentleness and always eager to absorb new knowledge and master new skills. His humility made his brilliance all the more admirable; never one to boast, Tobi approached life with a quiet confidence that drew people to him.
In the workplace as an IT student, Tobi's youthful energy was both a joy and a gentle nudge to embrace the lighter side of life. I fondly recall how he would often persuade me to take breaks from work to indulge in computer games on my laptop. Those moments, filled with laughter is a treasure I hold dear. His presence was a reminder that amidst our busy lives, it's essential to find time for play and connection. He listened more than he spoke, offering support and kindness to anyone in need.
Losing Tobi at such a young age is a profound tragedy, and the void he leaves is immense. Yet, as we grieve, we also celebrate the beautiful impact he had on our lives. His legacy of humility, eagerness to learn, and the joy he brought into our everyday moments will continue to inspire us.
May God grant Oluwatobi Elemo eternal rest, and may we find comfort in the memories of a life lived with grace, curiosity, and love.
Rest in peace, Tobi MY GUY.
I WILL MISS YOU!!!
In the workplace as an IT student, Tobi's youthful energy was both a joy and a gentle nudge to embrace the lighter side of life. I fondly recall how he would often persuade me to take breaks from work to indulge in computer games on my laptop. Those moments, filled with laughter is a treasure I hold dear. His presence was a reminder that amidst our busy lives, it's essential to find time for play and connection. He listened more than he spoke, offering support and kindness to anyone in need.
Losing Tobi at such a young age is a profound tragedy, and the void he leaves is immense. Yet, as we grieve, we also celebrate the beautiful impact he had on our lives. His legacy of humility, eagerness to learn, and the joy he brought into our everyday moments will continue to inspire us.
May God grant Oluwatobi Elemo eternal rest, and may we find comfort in the memories of a life lived with grace, curiosity, and love.
Rest in peace, Tobi MY GUY.
I WILL MISS YOU!!!
Tobi Elemo, may your pleasant soul find eternal rest in the bossom of your maker and Lord😇🙏
With a slight glance at the tributes no doubt your untimely departure is a shock to us all. The short time you spent with us here on earth will forever be remembered. I pray God forgive of your shortcomings and grant you eternal peace. Amin. 😭
With a slight glance at the tributes no doubt your untimely departure is a shock to us all. The short time you spent with us here on earth will forever be remembered. I pray God forgive of your shortcomings and grant you eternal peace. Amin. 😭
With a slight glance at the tributes no doubt your untimely departure is a shock to us all. The short time you spent with us here on earth will forever be remembered. I pray God forgive of your shortcomings and grant you eternal peace. Amin. 😭
Oluwatobi,huuun,an extraordinary kid Brother
It is an under statement to say that I was confused when I received the sad news of your transition to Glory. I thought the flier was a wedding invitation, but I could not find the name of the brides family and I have to consult the dictionary for the meaning of "devastating". It took a while before the reality beckoned on me. No doubt the sun set so early, but since we have no control over
life and death, we say thank you God. Rest on Tobi till we meet again. I pray to the moqst High God to comfort your family and those of us whose paths you have crossed. Adeiu Oluwatobi.
It is an under statement to say that I was confused when I received the sad news of your transition to Glory. I thought the flier was a wedding invitation, but I could not find the name of the brides family and I have to consult the dictionary for the meaning of "devastating". It took a while before the reality beckoned on me. No doubt the sun set so early, but since we have no control over
life and death, we say thank you God. Rest on Tobi till we meet again. I pray to the moqst High God to comfort your family and those of us whose paths you have crossed. Adeiu Oluwatobi.
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[li]Tobi!Tobi!! Tobi!!! Yes, aunty Yemisi--Tobi would answer-----so you are gone? My family&I
are pained by your passing unto glory.The news of your passing left me speechless and confused. I can't even get to talk to your mum regularly since the i got the news of your demise. My family & I prayed for you regaining consciousness .Our friends in Abeokuta and Benin offered Masses& prayers but alas ! It pleased God almighty to take you to Himself. We can't query you our God and creator. I will always remember for as long asI live your kindness, warmth &love.You always wait on me anytime I visit your parents then in Lagos.Tobi was always so sweet, caring and respectful.
May your sweet and gentle soul rest peacefully in the bosom of our Lord Jesus Christ. Amen.
May your parents, siblings, and family members be comforted in Christ Jesus. Amen.
My son Tobi ! Rest in peace . It is well!!!.
Aunty Yemisi.(Abeokuta)/li]
Some souls are too pure, too radiant for this world. Toni fought bravely, held on with strength beyond measure, and was surrounded by nothing but love, prayers, and the unwavering hope of a family that adored him. The Elemos gave him everything—time, sacrifices, faith—because love knows no limits.
Though his journey here was brief, his impact was profound. Tobi was deeply cherished, and that love will never fade. Angels like him are not meant to stay; they grace us with their presence, then return home, leaving behind a light that never dims. May his soul rest in perfect peace, and may the hearts of his family find comfort in knowing that love, true and boundless, never dies.
Though his journey here was brief, his impact was profound. Tobi was deeply cherished, and that love will never fade. Angels like him are not meant to stay; they grace us with their presence, then return home, leaving behind a light that never dims. May his soul rest in perfect peace, and may the hearts of his family find comfort in knowing that love, true and boundless, never dies.
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