Tributes To Tobi

A Tribute to Tobi

Tobi, it’s so hard to believe this is real. It still doesn’t feel real.

I remember when we were kids, you would always count down four years just to see us in Nigeria—Emmanuel, Edmund, and I. Four years felt so long, but your excitement never faded. You would talk about it all the time, waiting for the day we’d all be together again. And when we finally were, it was nothing but laughter, chaos, and joy. We were just kids, running around, being goofy, doing the most ridiculous things. Those memories are etched into my heart forever.

And then, you came to stay with us. That was the moment I gained more than a cousin—I gained a brother. You fit into our home so naturally, like you had always been there. Your energy filled every room, and your laughter was the kind that made everything feel lighter.

You were part of so many of my happiest memories. When I first started making videos, you were right there, always ready to be a part of them. You brought your goofy personality, your jokes, your unshakable confidence. You pushed me to keep going, even when I wasn’t sure of myself. You made the process fun. You made everything fun. And I don’t know if I ever told you just how much that meant to me.

I think about the times we spent in the kitchen—me trying to make something crazy, you always down to try it, no hesitation. Or the times we just sat around, cracking jokes, you telling those dad jokes of yours that weren’t even funny, but somehow, you always made them funny.

I remember your birthday, when we went to that buffet and I got one of your favorite artists to show up. The way your face lit up—it’s something I’ll never forget. You were so happy, and in that moment, nothing else mattered. I just remember thinking, “This is what it’s all about.” Seeing you happy, seeing you enjoying life.

And Six Flags. I can’t think about you without thinking about Six Flags. It was your favorite place, and every time we went, it felt like we were kids again. I remember telling you that when you got out of the hospital, we were going again. I promised. And I wanted so badly to keep that promise.

The day I got the call about you, I pulled over and just broke down. I cried, and I kept thinking, “This isn’t fair. This can’t be happening.” But then I thought about you—how you always had a way of calming me down, how you always knew what to say when I was upset. And I held onto that.

I still have the last pictures we took together in the hospital. You were smiling, even then. I never thought that would be our last conversation, our last moment together. I wish I had more time. I wish I had one more laugh, one more inside joke, one more chance to tell you how much I love you.

Tobi, you taught me so much—about patience, about love, about what it truly means to be present. You were always there. And now, even in your absence, you’re still here. In my heart, in my memories, in the stories I will tell about you for the rest of my life.

I miss you more than words can ever say. I love you beyond measure. And until we meet again, I will carry you with me, always.

Rest peacefully, my brother.

Today, I celebrate the life of Tobi Elemo. While I may not have had the chance to know him deeply, I feel the profound impact he had on those around him through the memories shared by family (Tolulope)

From the stories I’ve heard, it’s clear that Tobi had a vibrant spirit and a kind heart. He brought joy to his loved ones, and even in his short time, he left a mark that will not be forgotten.

Though our paths didn’t cross often, I can see how deeply he is missed by those who loved him most.

As we remember Tobi, let us carry forward the joy he brought into the world and strive to honor his memory by spreading kindness and love in our own lives. He may be gone, but his spirit will live on in the hearts of those who knew and loved him.

Rest in peace, dear Tobi, you will be missed.

May your soul rest peacefully. May the Lord continue to comfort the family. My condolences.

Though in times like this words fail me, I will never forget the love and acceptability you showed me when I became a part of the family, gentle to a fault you accommodated everyone without discrimination. You showed strength, fought the battle as a warrior but God Almighty knows best and will give us the fortitude to bear your loss. You are loved and your memories shall live with us forever, May Your Soul Rest in Perfect Peace.

In Loving Memory of Master Tobi Elemo.

Today, we gather with heavy hearts to honor the life of Tobi, a young man whose unwavering dedication to our Sunday School during the period, he was with us has left an indelible mark on all of us.

From a tender age, Tobi has exhibited a profound love for the teachings of Christ. His consistent attendance and active participation were a testament to his deep-rooted faith and commitment to spiritual growth.

Beyond his personal devotion, Tobi’s presence was a beacon of inspiration to his peers. He often volunteered to lead discussions, assist in ensuring quiet atmosphere for teaching.
His genuine kindness, always participate fully in lessons, made him known to all.

As we reflect on his life, we are reminded of the scripture: “Let no one despise your youth, but be an example to the believers in word, in conduct, in love, in spirit, in faith, in purity.” (1 Timothy 4:12). Tobi lived this verse daily, setting an example for all of us, young and old.

Though his time on earth was brief, the impact of Tobi’s life is immeasurable. We find solace in knowing that he now rests in the arms of our Lord, free from worldly pains and sorrows.

From
Mrs Ebele Okpala
Sunday School Teacher
AVMCC. Ikeja
Lagos

Our dear 'Tobi had been known to me as a toddler, when he visited the work place(FIIRO) with his Mum. Then, he came across as a very lively, respectful and lovely child.
I was privileged many years later, to see him at the Archbishop Vining Memorial Church Cathedral Sunday School. Among other Teachers, I had the opportunity to teach him in the Teen Class in his passing-out year. Then, he was as active as when he was a toddler, ever willing to learn and contributed well, especially to tasks assigned to this Group. He led very effectively at his turn, and cooperated very well with others.
Above all, I found him very inquisitive, wanted genuine answers to his many questions about God, the Kingdom and life in general. He kept seeking answers that would allay his fears or misunderstanding about anything. Unlikely many in his generation, he endeavored to put into practise whatever he was taught.
Oluwatobi will be sorely missed, as we Teachers always look forward to meeting our children in the future. We are, however, consoled in the fact that we shall see him again on the other side of eternity, where we will all meet and live with Christ forever.
Our condolences to the entire family - Dad, Mum and siblings of our dear 'Tobi. Shalom!

Words have eluded me for some time now, Hummmm!
T for Tobi, my gentleman of the house as I fondly called you, my S/Bucks master barister. You wanted to make me a custom beverage!but plans have changed!
I finally came to a realization this week of "bi oluwa ti fe ni yi"(this is how God wants it) Prayer altars all over the world but God wanted you to rest after you fought valiantly for so long.
I submit to the sovereign will of God Almighty and I am comforted that you knew that you are so!so! precious to us all, loved so very deeply, and forever in our hearts.
May God touch our broken hearts - Psalm 147:3.
Rest on my beloved Tobi, until the resurrection, as to be absent from the body is be present with the lord.2 Corinthians 5:8.

A Tribute to My Dear Friend, Tobi

Tobi, my friend from JSS1, was one of those people whose smile could light up a whole room. From the very first day we met, I could feel his energy and warmth. He was always the life of the group, bringing joy and laughter wherever he went. One of my favorite memories that always makes me smile is the day when Tobi, Abdulraman, and I finished a whole cake in the JSS3G lecture hall. We laughed so hard, unaware of the consequences that would follow—running to the toilet the next day because we’d overdone it. We still laugh about it, even now.

Tobi was more than just a friend; he was family. I remember when he went home for mid-term break, and while most of us would be away from our families, he would bring back little things for me, knowing I couldn’t go home because I was based in Bauchi. It was in these small acts of kindness that Tobi truly showed how caring and thoughtful he was. And on visiting days, when he saw I didn't have anyone to visit me, he would proudly introduce me to "Mommy," telling her that I didn’t have family around and asking her to look after me. She’d always give me pocket money and food, but Tobi, with that characteristic heart of his, would always check if it was enough and make sure I had more if needed. He never wanted anything to hurt me or any of his friends, always going the extra mile to make sure we were okay.

We had our fair share of arguments, especially when it came to football—he was always the Arsenal fan, while I could never understand his loyalty to them. But even in those debates, Tobi's passion and determination were evident, and they only made our friendship stronger. We talked about everything under the sun, from the silliest things to the most serious, and when Tobi needed advice, he would turn to me, always trusting my thoughts and opinions.

Tobi, you were more than a friend to me. You were a brother, a protector, and a source of constant positivity. Your energy, laughter, and caring nature are memories I will hold close forever. I’m so grateful to have had you in my life, and I know I will carry you in my heart for the rest of mine.

Rest in peace, my dear friend. You will never be forgotten.❤️🕊️

Bibi,(Him mama pikin)

I don’t know how to write the right words, because how do you sum up the life of a beautiful soul.

Bibi, you had a heart of gold (or the most precious jewel ever).You taught me what it means to love without limits, to show up for the people you care about even when it’s hard.You always put everyone first.Your love was always reliable, unwavering, and true.

You embodied the phrase ' Still waters run deep".You carried your wisdom with humility, never seeking attention, yet always making an impact.

You saw the world in rainbows,choosing to focus on the beauty, joy, in appreciation for the small wonders around you and valuing people for who they are.

You were not just my brother—you were my baby. It has been the hardest thing to lose you.You meant so much to me,but heaven chose to give you wings,and now its time you flew.

I wish i had one more chance to laugh with you again, one more chance to listen to you talk about your latest anime.i wish i had one more chance to hug you.I wish i had one more random call from you, even if it was a missed call.

Rest easy, my brother. You are, and always will be, deeply loved, deeply missed, and never forgotten. Until we meet again.

To you, O Lord, we commend the soul of Oluwatobi Elemo your servant.Forgive whatever sins he committed through human weakness and in your goodness grant him everlasting peace.Amen.

It was a rude shock to hear you're gone,up until late February our family prayer altar still has your name as our daily prayer request. We know deeply that God doesn't make mistakes. As Paul said in one of his epistles that now we know in part and believe in part but when that which is perfect shall be revealed then that which is in part shall be fone away with. It's very difficult to reconcile but we are comforted that you lived a good life. Live on beloved .

Tobi was my best friend in Kings college, so many afternoons spent in dinning hall talking about our interests in anime, video games and food… he shared everything with me as I did him
He made me want to be a better person, to be empathetic, to be caring, to put others before myself because that’s the type of person he is
I hoped we’d be able to play “Sims” one more time Elemo… just one more time so you can tell me how I should be considerate of the decisions I make towards fictional characters
I’ll continually miss you my friend
Rest in perfect peace

Life has a way of playing pranks on us, and this one has not gone down well. In all my six years of secondary school with Tobi, he was one of those students you could vouch for to steer clear of trouble. His calm, quiet, and charming nature coupled with his inquisitiveness made him a bright spark. REST ON PEACEFULLY BROTHER. SPERO LUCEM. HONOUR TO OUR DEAD

Rest well Tobi,

Where do I start? How do I put my feelings into words? This is one of the greatest shocks of my life, and I still haven’t come to terms with it. I met Tobi in King’s College, and he was one of the brightest, cheerful, and innocent fellows I had ever met. I never understood how he managed to always have a smile on his face, despite how challenging the school environment was. But I guess that was the beauty of Tobi – he really did turn the lemons of life into lemonades. I’ll miss our chats about anime and arguments about how Ironman is the greatest superhero ever. Keep resting in the Lord where there is no pain and no sorrow.
Goodbye.

Still can't believe I'm actually writing this. We were a relatively large group of friends, but you were one of those who was there from the very beginning. We spent all six years in the boarding house together, and every single one of us was glad to call you our brother.

You were always the best of us, the kindest, most calm person ever. Even when other people would try to take advantage of you sometimes, you never let it get to you, always responding with a smile instead. Any time we spent together was always a fun time, and I cherished all our lengthy talks about anime and movies, all the games we cooked up and discussed, even the ones you me and Henry would make up while waiting for church on Sundays, like that was really part of the highlights of my stay in that school.

I wish you didn't have to go so soon, but I know that God has a reason for calling His people back to His side. And truly you were one of His people. One of the good ones. And none of us will ever forget the friend and brother we had in you, Tobi Elemo. May your soul rest in perfect peace, Amen.

Your legacy will live on.

Tobi was one of my best friends at CSUN. At the start of our geology program, Tobi and I met because we sat in the same area on campus while on our computers during our online class. He introduced himself and right off the bat seemed like such a friendly person. It wasn't long before we bonded and complained about the millions of bees flying in our faces while we tried to focus on class.

In another class, Tobi and I were assigned as partners for group work and we became even closer because of that. He always asked me questions to get to know me better and we talked together about our interests. During that class, I battled with insecurity a lot because I struggled with science. I said something self derogatory and I'll never forget how Tobi stayed behind to encourage me to believe in myself.

Tobi was someone that always stayed by your side when you were falling behind. During our first geology trip, I was inexperienced with hiking and was the slowest in the group. Despite that, Tobi never left me and even offered to carry me. His unwavering kindness and consideration ran so deep that it truly amazed me. The amount of admiration and love I had for this guy goes beyond than what I can describe in words.

I'll never forget all the times we spent on call working on homework together and lifting one another up. Tobi and I were both the underdogs in the geology program compared to everyone else, so we were like a team that stuck together to improve. We were both afraid of heights (and it didn't help that our shoes weren't the best for hiking) but we faced that together and became unstoppable. It was wonderful to watch how far Tobi came through his strength, hard work, and determination.

Tobi was a great friend, one of the best I've ever had and I'll never forget the positive impact he made on my life. He was a blindingly beautiful beacon of light that spread for miles and reached everyone that surrounded him. I'll never forget the way he cared for me and respected me for the way that I am. I'll never forget all we've been through and all the memories we made. It's very bittersweet to look back on everything and I am tearing up writing this.. God bless him and his family and may he rest in peace.

Oluwatobi Oluwatobi Oluwatobi you started live so beautifully. From a very tender age you had the wisdom of an old man. I learnt from your words of wisdom at age 8 where you told me never to promise anybody, all I said was Oluwatobi I promise that the next time you'll be in office I would've subscribed for our DSTV and scolded saying " Mummy do you promise people? What if I come tomorrow?
Huuuuuuuumph Tobi so many good memories kept flying my mind.

Oluwatobi you are a beautiful soul. In life I love you dearly, in death I love you still, in my heart you hold a dear place, I cried endlessly, I won't let the tears Mar the smiles that you've given when you were alive.

I know you are listening from above, cos I am hearing you ask me even now "I hope I have not disappointed you" you haven't Oluwatobi, you fought to the end.

Sun re o! In the bosom of your Creator.

Some souls are too pure, too radiant for this world. Toni fought bravely, held on with strength beyond measure, and was surrounded by nothing but love, prayers, and the unwavering hope of a family that adored him. The Elemos gave him everything—time, sacrifices, faith—because love knows no limits.

Though his journey here was brief, his impact was profound. Tobi was deeply cherished, and that love will never fade. Angels like him are not meant to stay; they grace us with their presence, then return home, leaving behind a light that never dims. May his soul rest in perfect peace, and may the hearts of his family find comfort in knowing that love, true and boundless, never dies.