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Tobi’s Light Forever Bright
You brought a warmth so pure, so bright,
A soul so full it made hearts glad.
You lifted hearts with thoughtful words,
With gentle strength and open arms.
And though we part, you’re not far gone.
Your joy remains in moments replayed.
In every smile, your love lives on,
A light that shines each and every day.
You’ll be missed dear little brother. Rest well 🤍
You brought a warmth so pure, so bright,
A soul so full it made hearts glad.
You lifted hearts with thoughtful words,
With gentle strength and open arms.
And though we part, you’re not far gone.
Your joy remains in moments replayed.
In every smile, your love lives on,
A light that shines each and every day.
You’ll be missed dear little brother. Rest well 🤍
A bright light extinguished too soon. Rest in peace Oluwatobi Babajide Nkem Elemo. My heartfelt condolences go out to Professor Elemo and his family. May God strengthen and comfort your family during this incredibly difficult time.
Tobi Elemo was a kind, loving, and inspiring soul. Though he is no longer with us, his memory will live on in our hearts.
Rest in peace, Tobi.
Rest in peace, Tobi.
It is with deep sorrow and a heavy heart that we say farewell to a remarkable young man, Tobi Elemo. At just 23 years old, Tobi embodied the essence of a life well-lived - one filled with purpose, dedication, and unwavering faith in God. Tobi was a beacon of hard work and determination, always striving to make a difference in everything he touched. He lived with integrity, kindness, and a heart full of love for God and others. To his loving parents, my dear friends and associates, I extend my deepest condolences. No words can fully capture the pain of this loss, but I pray that God's grace and comfort surround you during this difficult time. Tobi's legacy of faith, diligence, and kindness will live on in our hearts forever.
Rest in peace, dear Tobi. Your light may have left this world too soon, but your impact will never fade.
Rest in peace, dear Tobi. Your light may have left this world too soon, but your impact will never fade.
Oluwatobi, Good night.
Rest well with the saints ..
Good night, till the resurrection day ...
Good night !!!
Rest well with the saints ..
Good night, till the resurrection day ...
Good night !!!
My Dear Tobi,
This doesn’t feel right. This shouldn’t be. I shouldn’t be writing this.
You were our little boy, our precious gift from God in 2002. From the moment you arrived, you were loved so deeply. Your presence brought so much joy, so much light.
Since you have been down, We prayed for you, believed for you, hoped for a miracle. We stood with your parents, trusting that one day, you would rise to your feet again.
But maybe, just maybe, God had a different plan. Maybe He saw that you had fought enough, that you had endured enough, and in His infinite wisdom, He called you home—to rest, to be free, to be whole again. And while our hearts are broken, while we mourn the days we wished for but never got, we also hold on to the love you gave, the warmth you left behind.
You were a fighter, Tobi. A child of grace. A light. And we will never forget you. We will cherish the moments we had with you, however brief. We will remember your spirit, your smile, your strength. We pray that the Almighty God will strengthen and console your wonderful family, especially your parents, whose love and dedication knew no bounds. May His peace surround them in this difficult time, and may your beautiful soul rest in perfect peace.
Sleep well, little angel. You are at peace now, wrapped in God’s eternal love. We will miss you always, and you will forever be in our hearts.
Goodnight, Tobi. 💙
This doesn’t feel right. This shouldn’t be. I shouldn’t be writing this.
You were our little boy, our precious gift from God in 2002. From the moment you arrived, you were loved so deeply. Your presence brought so much joy, so much light.
Since you have been down, We prayed for you, believed for you, hoped for a miracle. We stood with your parents, trusting that one day, you would rise to your feet again.
But maybe, just maybe, God had a different plan. Maybe He saw that you had fought enough, that you had endured enough, and in His infinite wisdom, He called you home—to rest, to be free, to be whole again. And while our hearts are broken, while we mourn the days we wished for but never got, we also hold on to the love you gave, the warmth you left behind.
You were a fighter, Tobi. A child of grace. A light. And we will never forget you. We will cherish the moments we had with you, however brief. We will remember your spirit, your smile, your strength. We pray that the Almighty God will strengthen and console your wonderful family, especially your parents, whose love and dedication knew no bounds. May His peace surround them in this difficult time, and may your beautiful soul rest in perfect peace.
Sleep well, little angel. You are at peace now, wrapped in God’s eternal love. We will miss you always, and you will forever be in our hearts.
Goodnight, Tobi. 💙
Being Tobi’s big sister is the greatest privilege of my life.I loved Tobi, not just because he was my brother, but because of who he was as a person. I admired him greatly for many qualities. He was kind, strong-willed, and full of heart. He was loyal, he was generous, but most importantly, I loved him because he was my friend. He was one of the very few people I could be my whole, unfiltered self with, knowing there would be no judgment.
One of the virtues I admire most in people is loyalty, and Tobi had that in abundance. One of my first and clearest memories of this was at the Agbara Estate Christmas Party when he was eight years old. The children were playing a game where the MC would call out a number, and they had to quickly form groups of that size. If he called “two,” kids paired up. If he called “four,” small groups formed. Most of the numbers were even, so Tobi quickly bonded with another boy, and every time the MC called “two,” they would instinctively find each other, standing side by side.
Then the MC decided to change things up and called for a group of three. Suddenly, the even pairs were thrown into confusion. Other children scrambled to grab new teammates, and two boys tried to pull Tobi into their group. But he wouldn’t let go. He clung to his new friend, holding on tightly, refusing to leave him behind. Even as the game forced others to break apart, Tobi stood firm. He lost the game, but I have never been prouder of him. I remember the emotion so vividly—it engulfed me, and my heart swelled. It was one of my first real moments of knowing just how much I loved him.
Now, as I write this, maybe I shouldn’t describe it simply as loyalty. Maybe what I was really seeing was Tobi’s big heart and how quickly he opened up to people, how instinctively he connected with them. He had a way of making people feel like they belonged. It wasn’t just about holding on to one friend at a party. It was about how deeply he cared for others.
That same big heart showed in his generosity. Even in boarding school, he would save his pocket money till the last day of term so that he could buy something for us when he got home. For me, it was Domino’s Pizza and Oreo Overload because he knew I loved it. You need to understand the Nigerian boarding house "sapa" to fully grasp how incredible this is.
As much as I admired his kindness, I also worried about it. Tobi was the kind of person who would give without expecting anything in return, and I was always afraid that people might take advantage of that. I wanted to protect him from those who might not understand that his kindness was genuine, not naïveté. But Tobi was such a peace lover, he wouldn't let me. I remember one incident where I was determined to involve the Minister for Education and Tobi said in his increasingly deepening voice "Sis D, can you just calm down?"
There are so many things I could say about him. Tobi was without guile, without envy, without malice, without pretense. He was never interested in having the latest fashion or chasing popularity. He was simply, unapologetically, himself. And maybe that’s why we were friends. He was one of the only people I could truly be my quirky and passionate self around with no judgment or explanation.
When my office was in Ikoyi, I spent many of my lunch breaks at King’s College because yes, it was near but also being around him made everything feel lighter. We talked about everything from the deep to the mundane.
We talked about what life might be like on other planets, debated alien conspiracies, and went down rabbit holes of theories that we both took way too seriously.Our Marvel fan fiction and theories, quite frankly, were more creative than the What If? series. So imagine my horror and betrayal when I found out that he was also a DC fan. But I forgive him for that. Whenever a new MCU movie came out, we'd go watch it and judge the neophytes who left before the post credit scenes. I fondly remember our cinema shenanigans where we would smuggle food into the cinema because I was too cheap to pay the outrageous mall prices for popcorn and sweeties. We began by sneaking in snacks but eventually graduated to stuffing jollof rice and chicken into our pockets. Or at least I made him stuff his pockets.
Our conversations weren’t always about fiction and theories. We also talked about the things we both struggled with in common. Copying notes, time blindness, being misunderstood because we had blurted out intrusive thoughts that don't necessarily reflect our positions eg during his Chrisland experience. Hahahaha. Tobi got it, and we would reassure each other in ways that didn’t need to be deep or formal—just honest, unfiltered conversations that reminded me I wasn’t alone.
Looking back, I think this is part of why our friendship was so remarkable. We had a significant age gap, yet it never felt like it. Tobi and I connected in a way that transcended our different life stages. I was navigating adulthood while he was still figuring out who he was as a teenager, yet we found common ground in the things we loved and the challenges we shared. And did his best to help me because he got it. Even when it came to my PhD, he helped. I gave him a list of all the renewable energy cases I was researching, and he painstakingly went through them, finding the names of the legal executives of the companies involved so I could contact them for interviews. He did it without hesitation, without complaint, just because he knew it would help me.
Then came his illness, and it broke me. Watching him go through what he did was something I still struggle to put into words. But even in that pain, I still found myself talking to him, sharing things I knew he would find interesting, sending voice notes through Daddy, or speaking on the phone even when he couldn’t answer. I would propose the most outrageous takes on issues just to annoy him, holding onto the hope that once he was able to communicate again, he would challenge me.
Losing him feels unreal, like a piece of the world has shifted, leaving a space that no words can fill. But even in this sorrow, I hold onto the truth that Tobi’s life was not defined by his passing. He lived fully, he loved deeply, and he left a mark that cannot be erased. Whether in laughter, kindness, quiet strength, or the way he carried himself, Tobi was a testament to the beauty of a life well-lived.
That is why, when I was asked to select a reading for the service, the passage I chose was obvious.
"What is sown is perishable, what is raised is imperishable. It is sown in weakness, it is raised in power. It is sown a natural body, it is raised a spiritual body." (1 Corinthians 15:42-44)
Tobi gave so much in this life, and now, he has received something greater. The body that failed him is not the body he has now. He is whole. He is strong. He is free. Just as he once held onto his friend so fiercely in that childhood game, I know he is now held in the hands of God, never to be let go, never to be lost.
I miss you, my baby brother, my friend, my constant. But I know this isn’t the end. You are whole. You are healed. And I will see you again.
One of the virtues I admire most in people is loyalty, and Tobi had that in abundance. One of my first and clearest memories of this was at the Agbara Estate Christmas Party when he was eight years old. The children were playing a game where the MC would call out a number, and they had to quickly form groups of that size. If he called “two,” kids paired up. If he called “four,” small groups formed. Most of the numbers were even, so Tobi quickly bonded with another boy, and every time the MC called “two,” they would instinctively find each other, standing side by side.
Then the MC decided to change things up and called for a group of three. Suddenly, the even pairs were thrown into confusion. Other children scrambled to grab new teammates, and two boys tried to pull Tobi into their group. But he wouldn’t let go. He clung to his new friend, holding on tightly, refusing to leave him behind. Even as the game forced others to break apart, Tobi stood firm. He lost the game, but I have never been prouder of him. I remember the emotion so vividly—it engulfed me, and my heart swelled. It was one of my first real moments of knowing just how much I loved him.
Now, as I write this, maybe I shouldn’t describe it simply as loyalty. Maybe what I was really seeing was Tobi’s big heart and how quickly he opened up to people, how instinctively he connected with them. He had a way of making people feel like they belonged. It wasn’t just about holding on to one friend at a party. It was about how deeply he cared for others.
That same big heart showed in his generosity. Even in boarding school, he would save his pocket money till the last day of term so that he could buy something for us when he got home. For me, it was Domino’s Pizza and Oreo Overload because he knew I loved it. You need to understand the Nigerian boarding house "sapa" to fully grasp how incredible this is.
As much as I admired his kindness, I also worried about it. Tobi was the kind of person who would give without expecting anything in return, and I was always afraid that people might take advantage of that. I wanted to protect him from those who might not understand that his kindness was genuine, not naïveté. But Tobi was such a peace lover, he wouldn't let me. I remember one incident where I was determined to involve the Minister for Education and Tobi said in his increasingly deepening voice "Sis D, can you just calm down?"
There are so many things I could say about him. Tobi was without guile, without envy, without malice, without pretense. He was never interested in having the latest fashion or chasing popularity. He was simply, unapologetically, himself. And maybe that’s why we were friends. He was one of the only people I could truly be my quirky and passionate self around with no judgment or explanation.
When my office was in Ikoyi, I spent many of my lunch breaks at King’s College because yes, it was near but also being around him made everything feel lighter. We talked about everything from the deep to the mundane.
We talked about what life might be like on other planets, debated alien conspiracies, and went down rabbit holes of theories that we both took way too seriously.Our Marvel fan fiction and theories, quite frankly, were more creative than the What If? series. So imagine my horror and betrayal when I found out that he was also a DC fan. But I forgive him for that. Whenever a new MCU movie came out, we'd go watch it and judge the neophytes who left before the post credit scenes. I fondly remember our cinema shenanigans where we would smuggle food into the cinema because I was too cheap to pay the outrageous mall prices for popcorn and sweeties. We began by sneaking in snacks but eventually graduated to stuffing jollof rice and chicken into our pockets. Or at least I made him stuff his pockets.
Our conversations weren’t always about fiction and theories. We also talked about the things we both struggled with in common. Copying notes, time blindness, being misunderstood because we had blurted out intrusive thoughts that don't necessarily reflect our positions eg during his Chrisland experience. Hahahaha. Tobi got it, and we would reassure each other in ways that didn’t need to be deep or formal—just honest, unfiltered conversations that reminded me I wasn’t alone.
Looking back, I think this is part of why our friendship was so remarkable. We had a significant age gap, yet it never felt like it. Tobi and I connected in a way that transcended our different life stages. I was navigating adulthood while he was still figuring out who he was as a teenager, yet we found common ground in the things we loved and the challenges we shared. And did his best to help me because he got it. Even when it came to my PhD, he helped. I gave him a list of all the renewable energy cases I was researching, and he painstakingly went through them, finding the names of the legal executives of the companies involved so I could contact them for interviews. He did it without hesitation, without complaint, just because he knew it would help me.
Then came his illness, and it broke me. Watching him go through what he did was something I still struggle to put into words. But even in that pain, I still found myself talking to him, sharing things I knew he would find interesting, sending voice notes through Daddy, or speaking on the phone even when he couldn’t answer. I would propose the most outrageous takes on issues just to annoy him, holding onto the hope that once he was able to communicate again, he would challenge me.
Losing him feels unreal, like a piece of the world has shifted, leaving a space that no words can fill. But even in this sorrow, I hold onto the truth that Tobi’s life was not defined by his passing. He lived fully, he loved deeply, and he left a mark that cannot be erased. Whether in laughter, kindness, quiet strength, or the way he carried himself, Tobi was a testament to the beauty of a life well-lived.
That is why, when I was asked to select a reading for the service, the passage I chose was obvious.
"What is sown is perishable, what is raised is imperishable. It is sown in weakness, it is raised in power. It is sown a natural body, it is raised a spiritual body." (1 Corinthians 15:42-44)
Tobi gave so much in this life, and now, he has received something greater. The body that failed him is not the body he has now. He is whole. He is strong. He is free. Just as he once held onto his friend so fiercely in that childhood game, I know he is now held in the hands of God, never to be let go, never to be lost.
I miss you, my baby brother, my friend, my constant. But I know this isn’t the end. You are whole. You are healed. And I will see you again.
With a heavy heart am writing this tribute, it not easy to say goodbye to a great soul like you, I don't know you as a person but I knew your father as a grammarians, your father was a great man a devoted man to the core,I was shocked when I heard about your death, I pray God rest your soul and be with your family especially this trying periods.Goodnight great one till we meet and part no more. Ogunnowo Funmilayo Adetutu Igs 97/2003 set
My dear son oluwatobi,I don't know what to say I was shock when I received the sad news about your death, you are such a wonderful and caring soul, I remember when you are just little boy, the first day with mummy you welcome me with love and your smile that guaranteed me an open doors to the entire Elemo family, you never seen me or treated me like a stranger since I joined your family, you are so smart even though I wanted to beat you I will quickly change my mind when you call me aunty Tala as you always call me I remembered back then in Abuja in your primary school how you always showed respect to your teachers by prostrating down while greetings as a Yoruba well trained child, you demonstrate love and decency even from your childhood, I will always remember you in my heart, in fact you have extended your genuine love to my children in fact you are my hero, Oluwatobi who will come Aunty TALA again, my entire family is in pain since this shocking news of your departed in this sinful world, i can't never question God but God called you back home to internal rest, keep resting till resurrection day when we parth no more.
From Omotola Ajibola
From Omotola Ajibola
Never did I imagine this day will come, even for the past 2 years and 9 months I consistently looked for some hope to cling to. Hoping and Praying you will come out and eventually share your testimony. Alas here I am today a week to your burial penning a tribute to my beloved Tobi.
All my time and memories with you are good. I remember vividly the news of your birth, celebrating you 30 days after at Satellite town, I remember you as a toddler so cute and fun loving, then when you began Kings college @ 10 the years we lived together. Few years later, I remember the day I called Daddy and he told me Tobi wrote his JAMB today, and then not too long I recieved with Joy news Tobi was leaving for the U.S to begin his graduate studies. Our last physical encounter face to face, was in December 2020, we had our last conversation that night outside the house, Just me and you. Little Tobi was now a fine young man, with so much promise.
The events leading to your demise for me remains a mystery. The more I try to grasp it, the more confused I get.
Nevertheless, Oluwatobi your 23 years to me is golden, pure, simple yet deep with substance. You put up a galant fight for life, so many of us Family and friends built prayer alters, and we made sacrificial offerings to God. Alas our hearts are broken having not recieved what we hoped for, but our Faith is not broken.
Oluwatobi I will miss you dearly, I know your Chapter in this divide has ended. But I know it is not the end of you. Odigba, Odabo beloved Aburo.
Olutola. A. Elemo
All my time and memories with you are good. I remember vividly the news of your birth, celebrating you 30 days after at Satellite town, I remember you as a toddler so cute and fun loving, then when you began Kings college @ 10 the years we lived together. Few years later, I remember the day I called Daddy and he told me Tobi wrote his JAMB today, and then not too long I recieved with Joy news Tobi was leaving for the U.S to begin his graduate studies. Our last physical encounter face to face, was in December 2020, we had our last conversation that night outside the house, Just me and you. Little Tobi was now a fine young man, with so much promise.
The events leading to your demise for me remains a mystery. The more I try to grasp it, the more confused I get.
Nevertheless, Oluwatobi your 23 years to me is golden, pure, simple yet deep with substance. You put up a galant fight for life, so many of us Family and friends built prayer alters, and we made sacrificial offerings to God. Alas our hearts are broken having not recieved what we hoped for, but our Faith is not broken.
Oluwatobi I will miss you dearly, I know your Chapter in this divide has ended. But I know it is not the end of you. Odigba, Odabo beloved Aburo.
Olutola. A. Elemo
A Tribute to Tobi Elemo
Today, we remember and honour the life of Tobi Elemo, an extraordinary individual who left an indelible mark on the lives of everyone he has contact with. Tobi lived a life of purpose, driven by his passion for God, family, and community. He was a shining example of what it means to live a life of faith, hope, and love.
Tobi's heart was pure gold, filled with generosity, kindness, and compassion. He had a unique ability to connect with people from all walks of life, making everyone feel seen, heard, and valued without been immodest.
Tobi's life is a testament to the power of love, and impact. He will be deeply missed, but his memory will continue to inspire us to live our lives with purpose, passion, and love. Tobi, we celebrate your life, your love, and your legacy. May your memory be a blessing to us all. Rest in peace, dear Tobi. Your life will never be forgotten.
Today, we remember and honour the life of Tobi Elemo, an extraordinary individual who left an indelible mark on the lives of everyone he has contact with. Tobi lived a life of purpose, driven by his passion for God, family, and community. He was a shining example of what it means to live a life of faith, hope, and love.
Tobi's heart was pure gold, filled with generosity, kindness, and compassion. He had a unique ability to connect with people from all walks of life, making everyone feel seen, heard, and valued without been immodest.
Tobi's life is a testament to the power of love, and impact. He will be deeply missed, but his memory will continue to inspire us to live our lives with purpose, passion, and love. Tobi, we celebrate your life, your love, and your legacy. May your memory be a blessing to us all. Rest in peace, dear Tobi. Your life will never be forgotten.
Words failed me when I heard about your passing oluwatobi . After reading through all the tributes, I realized you were an angel in human form . You lived impactful life. Your memory will be greatly cherished forever. May the Lord console & comfort your parents & your siblings.
Eternal & peaceful rest, the Lord will grant unto your soul.
Eternal & peaceful rest, the Lord will grant unto your soul.
Brief but phenomenal
We are proud of your brief sojourn here on earth Would have loved to have you stay longer
But his ways, not our ways, his thoughts not our thoughts. Painful exit, He determines when the bell tolls. He is God.
May your gentle soul rest in peace Tobi
Adieu
We are proud of your brief sojourn here on earth Would have loved to have you stay longer
But his ways, not our ways, his thoughts not our thoughts. Painful exit, He determines when the bell tolls. He is God.
May your gentle soul rest in peace Tobi
Adieu
Oluwatobi was such a loving, caring, and rising star that it was unbelievable that he would not be around any more, having gone into eternity.
I travelled with him on at least two occasions to the San Francisco Bay Area. I remember one time that I asked him for cash because I did not want to use a card in Castaic Area near a city called Lebec near LA.
He gave me all the money that he had on me. That’s a sign of a CARING person.
He WILL BE GREATLY MISSED by everyone that ever had the glorious chance and opportunity to have met him. I DID and I can honestly say that he was a well disciplined and caring person.
I travelled with him on at least two occasions to the San Francisco Bay Area. I remember one time that I asked him for cash because I did not want to use a card in Castaic Area near a city called Lebec near LA.
He gave me all the money that he had on me. That’s a sign of a CARING person.
He WILL BE GREATLY MISSED by everyone that ever had the glorious chance and opportunity to have met him. I DID and I can honestly say that he was a well disciplined and caring person.
Oluwatobi was such a loving, caring, and rising star that it was unbelievable that he would not be around any more, having gone into eternity.
I travelled with him on at least two occasions to the San Francisco Bay Area. I remember one time that I asked him for cash because I did not want to use a card in Castaic Area near a city called Lebec near LA.
He gave me all the money that he had on me. That’s a sign of a CARING person.
He WILL BE GREATLY MISSED by everyone that ever had the glorious chance and opportunity to have met him. I DID and I can honestly say that he was a well disciplined and caring person.
I travelled with him on at least two occasions to the San Francisco Bay Area. I remember one time that I asked him for cash because I did not want to use a card in Castaic Area near a city called Lebec near LA.
He gave me all the money that he had on me. That’s a sign of a CARING person.
He WILL BE GREATLY MISSED by everyone that ever had the glorious chance and opportunity to have met him. I DID and I can honestly say that he was a well disciplined and caring person.
Still can't believe this. We were literally best friends back then in primary school, I really can't believe you are gone already.
You were an amazing human, one of the few humans I really rated. Your dreams and ambition inspired me a lot. Gone but would never be forgotten ❤️Tobi elemo.
You were an amazing human, one of the few humans I really rated. Your dreams and ambition inspired me a lot. Gone but would never be forgotten ❤️Tobi elemo.
Tobi may your gentle soul rest in eternal peace you will be dearly missed.Our hearts ache but we'll remember you always.
Oluwatobi Elemo, God knew you were tired, and a cure was not to be, so He put His gentle hand on you and said "Come home my son" May God comfort your loving family that you left behind. Thank God for all the good testimonies read and heard about you.
Rest on dear son
Bukola Agunbiade
Rest on dear son
Bukola Agunbiade
Tobi my dear birthday mate. Although I didn’t get to meet you; but somehow I feel like I have known you all the while. Knowing your beautiful and kind hearted sister- Demilade; also means knowing you because I have heard so many lovely things about you and being my birthday mate also says a lot about your personality. Oh the heavens have gained an angel and the earth has lost a true gem. I know that you are resting and laughing in God’s bosom and praying for your family. On earth, your life may be judged as being brief, but in Christ you have gained eternal life. The brevity of our earthly life can only be understood in the longevity of our eternal life in Christ Jesus, our Lord and Saviour. We will certainly meet one day, until then; rest in Christ my dear birthday mate.
My dear brother, Oluwatobi,
It is very difficult to imagine doing life without you here. I can't put down into words the pain I feel. Despite our age gap, you were always so loving and caring towards me.
You were literally an angel on earth; I never saw or heard you get angry at anyone or say any bad words about anyone. You were always so happy. You were so caring, loving, gentle and brave. Oh so brave, you fought a good fight till the end!!! I'm proud of you my dear.
You developed a very strong persona from a young age- you weren't afraid of anything, you remained cool, calm and collected in the face of adversity; a rare quality for someone your age.
I miss you my darling. I miss your laughter, your goofiness, your very dry jokes and humour. I love being your big sister. I enjoyed taking you out and spoiling you. My world is not the same without you.
Oh Tobi, despite the very short time you had with us, the impact you made in our lives is so immense. Bibi, we had plans o. You were really looking forward to coming back home, and I was too.
I will carry you in my heart forever. I will forever remember the memories, love and time we shared. Thank you for coming into our lives and for being your awesome self.
Rest well, my 'first born'. I love you till eternity.
Olaide
It is very difficult to imagine doing life without you here. I can't put down into words the pain I feel. Despite our age gap, you were always so loving and caring towards me.
You were literally an angel on earth; I never saw or heard you get angry at anyone or say any bad words about anyone. You were always so happy. You were so caring, loving, gentle and brave. Oh so brave, you fought a good fight till the end!!! I'm proud of you my dear.
You developed a very strong persona from a young age- you weren't afraid of anything, you remained cool, calm and collected in the face of adversity; a rare quality for someone your age.
I miss you my darling. I miss your laughter, your goofiness, your very dry jokes and humour. I love being your big sister. I enjoyed taking you out and spoiling you. My world is not the same without you.
Oh Tobi, despite the very short time you had with us, the impact you made in our lives is so immense. Bibi, we had plans o. You were really looking forward to coming back home, and I was too.
I will carry you in my heart forever. I will forever remember the memories, love and time we shared. Thank you for coming into our lives and for being your awesome self.
Rest well, my 'first born'. I love you till eternity.
Olaide
Kings’ College Tributes
13 entries.
This is such a big loss. May the Almighty grant you eternal rest Tobiloba, and grant your family- parents and siblings - fortitude to bear this irreparable loss.
Wole Olafimihan
Ibadan, Nigeria.
Wole Olafimihan
Ibadan, Nigeria.
Tobi was my ward in Kings College,Lagos.
He was cool and calm.
Never got into trouble with School authority ,
Promising young lad.
His sunset too early.
I loss a son in Tobi.
May his noble soul rest in perfect peace .
He was cool and calm.
Never got into trouble with School authority ,
Promising young lad.
His sunset too early.
I loss a son in Tobi.
May his noble soul rest in perfect peace .
I did not meet you in person but I have had a lot about you positively. In fact I thought we would meet soon but it's so sad to hear about your loss. I have asked one question multiple times “ WHY YOU and WHY NOW” and I still have not been able to figure it out. However, I take absolute comfort in God that has answer for my question. I know there is a reason for this. You left the world of chaos and shame to be with God everlastingly.
Keep resting in the blossom of the father. Till we meet again in Christ.
Keep resting in the blossom of the father. Till we meet again in Christ.
Tobi was my best friend in Kings college, so many afternoons spent in dinning hall talking about our interests in anime, video games and food… he shared everything with me as I did him
He made me want to be a better person, to be empathetic, to be caring, to put others before myself because that’s the type of person he is
I hoped we’d be able to play “Sims” one more time Elemo… just one more time so you can tell me how I should be considerate of the decisions I make towards fictional characters
I’ll continually miss you my friend
Rest in perfect peace
He made me want to be a better person, to be empathetic, to be caring, to put others before myself because that’s the type of person he is
I hoped we’d be able to play “Sims” one more time Elemo… just one more time so you can tell me how I should be considerate of the decisions I make towards fictional characters
I’ll continually miss you my friend
Rest in perfect peace
Service to the living honor to the dead king's man
Life has a way of playing pranks on us, and this one has not gone down well. In all my six years of secondary school with Tobi, he was one of those students you could vouch for to steer clear of trouble. His calm, quiet, and charming nature coupled with his inquisitiveness made him a bright spark. REST ON PEACEFULLY BROTHER. SPERO LUCEM. HONOUR TO OUR DEAD
Pardon me if I’m a bit short of words but I’m still in denial. Tobi was really an awesome person, calm and level headed and very nice to be around. From the way he spoke, to how he dressed, down to his demeanor, you just knew that he was a simple man who enjoyed the simple pleasures of life. I remember when we’d spend hours talking about cartoons in the hostel and in the dining hall, I love how well he would describe the scenes, his storytelling prowess was truly something.
May his souls rest in perfect peace
May his souls rest in perfect peace
Rest well Tobi,
Tobi Tobi Tobi … hmmmmmm , rest in peace . Floreat brother
Where do I start? How do I put my feelings into words? This is one of the greatest shocks of my life, and I still haven’t come to terms with it. I met Tobi in King’s College, and he was one of the brightest, cheerful, and innocent fellows I had ever met. I never understood how he managed to always have a smile on his face, despite how challenging the school environment was. But I guess that was the beauty of Tobi – he really did turn the lemons of life into lemonades. I’ll miss our chats about anime and arguments about how Ironman is the greatest superhero ever. Keep resting in the Lord where there is no pain and no sorrow.
Goodbye.
Goodbye.
Tobi was the kindest person I met when I just entered kings college in SS1. He was a funny, bright, cheerful and very creative guy. Always had something hilarious to say to put a smile on someone's face. We never got that close, but I'm glad I met him when I did. He was one of the core members of my friend group, the Elite, and he made me love anime even more than I did at the time.
HE was so spontaneous! There's this one day he and I were walking to the cafeteria for lunch on a Sunday. This boy just broke into a run for no reason at all and said if I got there after him he'd take my chicken😅. He was a real ball of energy and he never let his anger get the better of him.
I love you man. Rest peacefully, Kakashi-dono.
HE was so spontaneous! There's this one day he and I were walking to the cafeteria for lunch on a Sunday. This boy just broke into a run for no reason at all and said if I got there after him he'd take my chicken😅. He was a real ball of energy and he never let his anger get the better of him.
I love you man. Rest peacefully, Kakashi-dono.
Still can't believe I'm actually writing this. We were a relatively large group of friends, but you were one of those who was there from the very beginning. We spent all six years in the boarding house together, and every single one of us was glad to call you our brother.
You were always the best of us, the kindest, most calm person ever. Even when other people would try to take advantage of you sometimes, you never let it get to you, always responding with a smile instead. Any time we spent together was always a fun time, and I cherished all our lengthy talks about anime and movies, all the games we cooked up and discussed, even the ones you me and Henry would make up while waiting for church on Sundays, like that was really part of the highlights of my stay in that school.
I wish you didn't have to go so soon, but I know that God has a reason for calling His people back to His side. And truly you were one of His people. One of the good ones. And none of us will ever forget the friend and brother we had in you, Tobi Elemo. May your soul rest in perfect peace, Amen.
Your legacy will live on.
You were always the best of us, the kindest, most calm person ever. Even when other people would try to take advantage of you sometimes, you never let it get to you, always responding with a smile instead. Any time we spent together was always a fun time, and I cherished all our lengthy talks about anime and movies, all the games we cooked up and discussed, even the ones you me and Henry would make up while waiting for church on Sundays, like that was really part of the highlights of my stay in that school.
I wish you didn't have to go so soon, but I know that God has a reason for calling His people back to His side. And truly you were one of His people. One of the good ones. And none of us will ever forget the friend and brother we had in you, Tobi Elemo. May your soul rest in perfect peace, Amen.
Your legacy will live on.
I bless God for the day I met you,Tobi (Tobisculus)as we call you ,you’re a great friend ,brother that someone can ever ask for and all the memories we had together all still fresh in my head right from kings college.We still made plans to hangout when you get back to Nigeria. A very gentle and humble soul and a supportive person,it saddens me to be writing about your passing but God knows best and I’m definitely sure you’re in a better …..we love you and miss you Tobi
California State University, Northridge Tributes
2 entries.
Dear Tobi...
While I didn't know you for a long time, you have made an everlasting impact on me. You brought out the best in your peers and always championed them. You are still a warrior. You made me feel closer to our higher power than I ever thought possible. I thank God for loaning you to all of us. Your spirit will live on in my heart forever.
Annalyn
While I didn't know you for a long time, you have made an everlasting impact on me. You brought out the best in your peers and always championed them. You are still a warrior. You made me feel closer to our higher power than I ever thought possible. I thank God for loaning you to all of us. Your spirit will live on in my heart forever.
Annalyn
Tobi was one of my best friends at CSUN. At the start of our geology program, Tobi and I met because we sat in the same area on campus while on our computers during our online class. He introduced himself and right off the bat seemed like such a friendly person. It wasn't long before we bonded and complained about the millions of bees flying in our faces while we tried to focus on class.
In another class, Tobi and I were assigned as partners for group work and we became even closer because of that. He always asked me questions to get to know me better and we talked together about our interests. During that class, I battled with insecurity a lot because I struggled with science. I said something self derogatory and I'll never forget how Tobi stayed behind to encourage me to believe in myself.
Tobi was someone that always stayed by your side when you were falling behind. During our first geology trip, I was inexperienced with hiking and was the slowest in the group. Despite that, Tobi never left me and even offered to carry me. His unwavering kindness and consideration ran so deep that it truly amazed me. The amount of admiration and love I had for this guy goes beyond than what I can describe in words.
I'll never forget all the times we spent on call working on homework together and lifting one another up. Tobi and I were both the underdogs in the geology program compared to everyone else, so we were like a team that stuck together to improve. We were both afraid of heights (and it didn't help that our shoes weren't the best for hiking) but we faced that together and became unstoppable. It was wonderful to watch how far Tobi came through his strength, hard work, and determination.
Tobi was a great friend, one of the best I've ever had and I'll never forget the positive impact he made on my life. He was a blindingly beautiful beacon of light that spread for miles and reached everyone that surrounded him. I'll never forget the way he cared for me and respected me for the way that I am. I'll never forget all we've been through and all the memories we made. It's very bittersweet to look back on everything and I am tearing up writing this.. God bless him and his family and may he rest in peace.
In another class, Tobi and I were assigned as partners for group work and we became even closer because of that. He always asked me questions to get to know me better and we talked together about our interests. During that class, I battled with insecurity a lot because I struggled with science. I said something self derogatory and I'll never forget how Tobi stayed behind to encourage me to believe in myself.
Tobi was someone that always stayed by your side when you were falling behind. During our first geology trip, I was inexperienced with hiking and was the slowest in the group. Despite that, Tobi never left me and even offered to carry me. His unwavering kindness and consideration ran so deep that it truly amazed me. The amount of admiration and love I had for this guy goes beyond than what I can describe in words.
I'll never forget all the times we spent on call working on homework together and lifting one another up. Tobi and I were both the underdogs in the geology program compared to everyone else, so we were like a team that stuck together to improve. We were both afraid of heights (and it didn't help that our shoes weren't the best for hiking) but we faced that together and became unstoppable. It was wonderful to watch how far Tobi came through his strength, hard work, and determination.
Tobi was a great friend, one of the best I've ever had and I'll never forget the positive impact he made on my life. He was a blindingly beautiful beacon of light that spread for miles and reached everyone that surrounded him. I'll never forget the way he cared for me and respected me for the way that I am. I'll never forget all we've been through and all the memories we made. It's very bittersweet to look back on everything and I am tearing up writing this.. God bless him and his family and may he rest in peace.
Other Friends Tributes
4 entries.
Tobi, it was rude shock and absolute grief that I received the news of the passing away from daddy. But the scripture reminds me that there's a season of appointed to everything under heaven a time to gather and a time to cast away, a time to be happy and the time to die. The pain we bear now is immeasurable. Bro rest is perfect in our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. God will console your parents. Good night.
Tobi, it was rude shock and absolute grief that I received the news of the passing away from daddy. But the scripture reminds me that there's a season of appointed to everything under heaven a time to gather and a time to cast away, a time to be happy and the time to die. The pain we bear now is immeasurable. Bro rest is perfect in our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. God will console your parents. Good night.
Elemo Tobi, I don’t even know what to say honestly, this comes as a very very wild shock, olorun a wo e, olorun a sho e, olorun a fi orun ke e, not you Tobi, if being meek gentle and accommodating was a person it was you bro, I don’t even know what to say again, I’m as confused as I can be my bro, wherever you are please rest in peace. May the lord send his angels to comfort you and guide you on calm waters❤️ sun re oremi ❤️😭
Oluwatobi Oluwatobi Oluwatobi you started live so beautifully. From a very tender age you had the wisdom of an old man. I learnt from your words of wisdom at age 8 where you told me never to promise anybody, all I said was Oluwatobi I promise that the next time you'll be in office I would've subscribed for our DSTV and scolded saying " Mummy do you promise people? What if I come tomorrow?
Huuuuuuuumph Tobi so many good memories kept flying my mind.
Oluwatobi you are a beautiful soul. In life I love you dearly, in death I love you still, in my heart you hold a dear place, I cried endlessly, I won't let the tears Mar the smiles that you've given when you were alive.
I know you are listening from above, cos I am hearing you ask me even now "I hope I have not disappointed you" you haven't Oluwatobi, you fought to the end.
Sun re o! In the bosom of your Creator.
Huuuuuuuumph Tobi so many good memories kept flying my mind.
Oluwatobi you are a beautiful soul. In life I love you dearly, in death I love you still, in my heart you hold a dear place, I cried endlessly, I won't let the tears Mar the smiles that you've given when you were alive.
I know you are listening from above, cos I am hearing you ask me even now "I hope I have not disappointed you" you haven't Oluwatobi, you fought to the end.
Sun re o! In the bosom of your Creator.
General Tributes
10 entries.
YOUR MEMORY IS BLESSED
Tobi’s life reflects a profound impact he had on those around him.
Tobi brought joy, comfort, and peace to all who knew him. His kind heart, infectious smile, and generous spirit inspired everyone to be better versions of themselves.
As I think about Tobi, I am also reminded of my own nephew, who left us at the same tender age. His passing was like a whisper from God, reminding us of the preciousness of life and the importance of a dedicated life to God.
Tobi, your life may have been brief, but your legacy will live on in our hearts. You may have left us, but your memory will continue to inspire us to live with purpose, to love with abandon, and to cherish every moment.
See you in the morning dear Son.
Tobi’s life reflects a profound impact he had on those around him.
Tobi brought joy, comfort, and peace to all who knew him. His kind heart, infectious smile, and generous spirit inspired everyone to be better versions of themselves.
As I think about Tobi, I am also reminded of my own nephew, who left us at the same tender age. His passing was like a whisper from God, reminding us of the preciousness of life and the importance of a dedicated life to God.
Tobi, your life may have been brief, but your legacy will live on in our hearts. You may have left us, but your memory will continue to inspire us to live with purpose, to love with abandon, and to cherish every moment.
See you in the morning dear Son.
Prof Grace Elemo was a senoir colleague to me at RMRDC. I can recall the joy the birth of Tobi brought to the family.
Not to long ago,my wife brought the not so cheering news that Tobi was in a critical condition. She learnt so from his mom who had mentored her while at RMRDC.
Losing someone is always painful. Seeing that someone go through pains is an added pain. What can assuage that pain is the Christ he knew and we know,the life of impact Tobi lived, the reference he earned in his short life, and even while stucked on the bed in the hospital. What I gleaned from the bio was Psalm 23.4 becoming real:Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.
My prayer and condolece to the Elemos. May the Lord comfort and stregthen now and beyond,Amen.
Not to long ago,my wife brought the not so cheering news that Tobi was in a critical condition. She learnt so from his mom who had mentored her while at RMRDC.
Losing someone is always painful. Seeing that someone go through pains is an added pain. What can assuage that pain is the Christ he knew and we know,the life of impact Tobi lived, the reference he earned in his short life, and even while stucked on the bed in the hospital. What I gleaned from the bio was Psalm 23.4 becoming real:Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.
My prayer and condolece to the Elemos. May the Lord comfort and stregthen now and beyond,Amen.
From a young age, Tobi displayed a keen intellect, intelligence, humility, gentleness and always eager to absorb new knowledge and master new skills. His humility made his brilliance all the more admirable; never one to boast, Tobi approached life with a quiet confidence that drew people to him.
In the workplace as an IT student, Tobi's youthful energy was both a joy and a gentle nudge to embrace the lighter side of life. I fondly recall how he would often persuade me to take breaks from work to indulge in computer games on my laptop. Those moments, filled with laughter is a treasure I hold dear. His presence was a reminder that amidst our busy lives, it's essential to find time for play and connection. He listened more than he spoke, offering support and kindness to anyone in need.
Losing Tobi at such a young age is a profound tragedy, and the void he leaves is immense. Yet, as we grieve, we also celebrate the beautiful impact he had on our lives. His legacy of humility, eagerness to learn, and the joy he brought into our everyday moments will continue to inspire us.
May God grant Oluwatobi Elemo eternal rest, and may we find comfort in the memories of a life lived with grace, curiosity, and love.
Rest in peace, Tobi MY GUY.
I WILL MISS YOU!!!
In the workplace as an IT student, Tobi's youthful energy was both a joy and a gentle nudge to embrace the lighter side of life. I fondly recall how he would often persuade me to take breaks from work to indulge in computer games on my laptop. Those moments, filled with laughter is a treasure I hold dear. His presence was a reminder that amidst our busy lives, it's essential to find time for play and connection. He listened more than he spoke, offering support and kindness to anyone in need.
Losing Tobi at such a young age is a profound tragedy, and the void he leaves is immense. Yet, as we grieve, we also celebrate the beautiful impact he had on our lives. His legacy of humility, eagerness to learn, and the joy he brought into our everyday moments will continue to inspire us.
May God grant Oluwatobi Elemo eternal rest, and may we find comfort in the memories of a life lived with grace, curiosity, and love.
Rest in peace, Tobi MY GUY.
I WILL MISS YOU!!!
Tobi Elemo, may your pleasant soul find eternal rest in the bossom of your maker and Lord😇🙏
With a slight glance at the tributes no doubt your untimely departure is a shock to us all. The short time you spent with us here on earth will forever be remembered. I pray God forgive of your shortcomings and grant you eternal peace. Amin. 😭
With a slight glance at the tributes no doubt your untimely departure is a shock to us all. The short time you spent with us here on earth will forever be remembered. I pray God forgive of your shortcomings and grant you eternal peace. Amin. 😭
With a slight glance at the tributes no doubt your untimely departure is a shock to us all. The short time you spent with us here on earth will forever be remembered. I pray God forgive of your shortcomings and grant you eternal peace. Amin. 😭
Oluwatobi,huuun,an extraordinary kid Brother
It is an under statement to say that I was confused when I received the sad news of your transition to Glory. I thought the flier was a wedding invitation, but I could not find the name of the brides family and I have to consult the dictionary for the meaning of "devastating". It took a while before the reality beckoned on me. No doubt the sun set so early, but since we have no control over
life and death, we say thank you God. Rest on Tobi till we meet again. I pray to the moqst High God to comfort your family and those of us whose paths you have crossed. Adeiu Oluwatobi.
It is an under statement to say that I was confused when I received the sad news of your transition to Glory. I thought the flier was a wedding invitation, but I could not find the name of the brides family and I have to consult the dictionary for the meaning of "devastating". It took a while before the reality beckoned on me. No doubt the sun set so early, but since we have no control over
life and death, we say thank you God. Rest on Tobi till we meet again. I pray to the moqst High God to comfort your family and those of us whose paths you have crossed. Adeiu Oluwatobi.
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[li]Tobi!Tobi!! Tobi!!! Yes, aunty Yemisi--Tobi would answer-----so you are gone? My family&I
are pained by your passing unto glory.The news of your passing left me speechless and confused. I can't even get to talk to your mum regularly since the i got the news of your demise. My family & I prayed for you regaining consciousness .Our friends in Abeokuta and Benin offered Masses& prayers but alas ! It pleased God almighty to take you to Himself. We can't query you our God and creator. I will always remember for as long asI live your kindness, warmth &love.You always wait on me anytime I visit your parents then in Lagos.Tobi was always so sweet, caring and respectful.
May your sweet and gentle soul rest peacefully in the bosom of our Lord Jesus Christ. Amen.
May your parents, siblings, and family members be comforted in Christ Jesus. Amen.
My son Tobi ! Rest in peace . It is well!!!.
Aunty Yemisi.(Abeokuta)/li]
Some souls are too pure, too radiant for this world. Toni fought bravely, held on with strength beyond measure, and was surrounded by nothing but love, prayers, and the unwavering hope of a family that adored him. The Elemos gave him everything—time, sacrifices, faith—because love knows no limits.
Though his journey here was brief, his impact was profound. Tobi was deeply cherished, and that love will never fade. Angels like him are not meant to stay; they grace us with their presence, then return home, leaving behind a light that never dims. May his soul rest in perfect peace, and may the hearts of his family find comfort in knowing that love, true and boundless, never dies.
Though his journey here was brief, his impact was profound. Tobi was deeply cherished, and that love will never fade. Angels like him are not meant to stay; they grace us with their presence, then return home, leaving behind a light that never dims. May his soul rest in perfect peace, and may the hearts of his family find comfort in knowing that love, true and boundless, never dies.
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